Biroroshye cyane gukosora imashini yoza whiskey kuruta gufasha inshuti mubibazo. Benshi muritwe hamwe nimpanuka ryananizaga muri iki kizamini. Kubwibyo, dukunze kwandika kubyerekeye gufasha, niba umuntu ufite uwo ukunda cyangwa. Ariko niba ubeshya kugirango ukize umuntu, wibuke nuburyo wafasha neza.
Ayak
Ni ukuvuga, gusubiza ibibazo byumuntu ikintu nka "Ibi biracyafite imyanda! Umva gusa, nanjye ... "hanyuma dusangire uburambe bwawe. Wavunitse ukuguru? Nibyiza, hari ukuntu nacitse icyarimwe icyarimwe, kandi nta kintu, nyuma yukwezi. Umuntu yarahindutse? Ariko nanjye, hari ukuntu byarahindutse, hamwe na mushiki wanjye bwite, n'ubukwe bwanjye bwite - n'ubudahemuka bwanjye bwite - n'ubutumwa bwanjye bwite - n'ubutumwa bwanjye bwite - kandi nta kintu, hari ukuntu ibintu byose byarebye.Mubyukuri, benshi ntizituma intego mbi, bitandukanye cyane. Turashaka kwerekana ko hari ibibazo kandi byihuse, ko turinganiye neza mubwato bumwe kandi tuyumva neza. Ariko mubyukuri, Ayakanny asobanuwe numuntu utandukanye rwose. Yumva "ibibazo byawe biragaragara neza ugereranije nubunararibonye bwanjye kandi ntukagure na gato. Reka tubaganireho neza. "
Impanuro
Iyo umuntu atontoma ibitugu, ndashaka rwose kuvuga ikintu cyubwenge kandi gifite ireme. Nkuko byasohotse, ntakintu kiza mubitekerezo, kandi tuvuga ko ubusa budafite ishingiro, basoma imbaraga cyangwa bumva muri firime. "Umuntu wese azaba ahari," ati: "Ntabwo ari mubyishimo" kandi "niba ukunda - reka." Urashimira inama! Mbere yo gutanga ahantu hamwe, ibaze ubwawe - kandi mubusanzwe numva ibyo mvuga? Birumvikana ko iyo tuvuze hanze kubera kutubabaza, twumva dufite meza kubona amagambo akwiye. Ariko abantu bose bumva ko ibintu nkibi bivuga mugihe batazi icyo bavuga. Kandi ntamuntu ufasha.
Bisaba ikibazo cyihuse
Iyo inshuti mubibazo no mu mubabaro, kandi isaba ubufasha, turashaka ko ibintu byose bimeze muri firime: Hano intwari ikaba intwari imuha inama zubwenge, intwari yubwenge intwari imuha inama zubwenge, intwari yubwenge intwari yamuhaye inama zumuziki, intwari irabizi Ibintu byose, ikibazo kirakemutse, epilogue muri salo, guseka byose, timber. Amasaha umwe nigice kuri byose kuri byose. Ariko ikigaragara nuko akababaro nyako ntigakemurwa muminota 90 (ndetse no mu 130, niba tuvuga verisiyo ya Umuyobozi).
Ku bibazo byinshi, ibibazo byinshi bishobora gufata imyaka. Ariko twanze kubimera ndetse no kurakara neza impamvu twoherejwe mu biganiro bimwe - twari tumaze kubivuga kandi tuvuze ko ibyambere bishobora kuzunguruka ikuzimu? None urimo ukora iki ku rutugu rwanjye? Ubu ni amayeri manini niba ushaka gutwara inshuti yo kwiheba no kumwumvisha ko adashobora guhangana nibibazo byibanze. Ariko ntushaka ibi, oya?
Shiraho ubufasha
Rimwe na rimwe, ubufasha ni gusa mu gutanga amatwi. Abantu bakeneye kuvugwa, ariko ntibisobanura ko ubu ugomba kubafasha ahandi - ndetse binyuranye nibyo. Niba kandi umuntu yanze ubufasha, birashoboka cyane, atari ukubera ko ari ibicucu kandi atumva inyungu ze.
Ahari ubufasha utanga ntabwo bukenewe gusa. Cyangwa ubwibone bwe ntibuzayobora. Cyangwa ntashaka kumva aduhatiye cyane - aribyo bizabaho uramutse utangiye cyane kumenya umukunzi wicungu afite umushoferi kandi ujye gusura imifuka yuzuye ibiryo. Komeza rero, nubwo waba ushaka rwose kwinjira mubuzima bwabandi kumafarasi yera kandi arangi, yishimira uruhare rwumugiraneza.