Pavel Zygmantich - "Umugabo ukora ingorane" - yerekana inzira yoroheje yo kumenyera mu nshuti. Witondere gusoma kubantu bose bigoye guhurira nabantu.
Tekereza - uri mwiza numuntu, uri mwiza kuri mugenzi wawe, ufite ingingo zo kuganira, uba werohewe hamwe.Nigute ushobora gukora inshuti yibi byose (hari ikibazo nkiki kiva kubantu bamwe)?
Icyambere cyari ubutabera
Reka dutangire hamwe nibyingenzi muri twe, abantu, ihame ryo kungurana ibitekerezo ringana ritangwa. Ahantu himbitse yubwonko bwacu bihisha konte ibara ubutabera bwikibazo. Hariho ubushakashatsi bwinshi kuriyi ngingo.
Inzira rusange yubushakashatsi niyi - abantu babiri batamenyerewe bavuga ko gukina umukino wubukungu "umunyagitugu". Ishingiro ryumukino riroroshye. Ikibazo cyageragejwe umwe mubakinnyi amafaranga umubare w'amafaranga umukinnyi ashobora gukora ibyo ashaka byose. Ahari usige amafaranga yose wenyine. Irashobora gutanga umukinnyi wa kabiri. Irashobora kugabana muburyo bumwe. Ntabwo ari ngombwa. Ni ngombwa ko amafaranga azabona abakinnyi bombi iyo umukinnyi wa kabiri yemeye amacakubiri.
Kurugero, uwagerageje yatanze ibice ijana byateganijwe kumukinnyi wa mbere. Icyo gice cyasunitse kuri kimwe cya kabiri - kumukinnyi wa kabiri. Noneho kuva iyakabiri biterwa - niba bazakira amafaranga cyangwa batazakira. Niba umukinnyi wa kabiri yemeye, noneho bombi barabonetse. Niba utemera - uwagerageje asubiza amafaranga.
Kandi ibyo nibitangaje. Niba umukinnyi wa mbere igabanya amafaranga 50/50, ntakibazo. Uwa kabiri yemeye guhuza, kandi buriwese abona amafaranga. Ariko, niba igipimo gihindutse, vuga, 60/40, noneho umukinnyi wa kabiri ahora yanze. Nibyo, yanze, nubwo atakaza amafaranga. Kubera iki? Kuberako ari akarengane.
Kandi, by the wan, nukuvuga, inkende zitwara - niyo atari umutwe cyane (nka capuchins). Urwego rwo gusobanura ubutabera rudod kuri twe mbere yuko tuba guhinduka somo sapires.
Wowe - i, i - wowe
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Mu mibanire ntabwo ari abantu benshi (harimo no hamwe nabagenzi) tuzakoresha rwose uburyo bwacu bwubatswe. Tuzirikana ibijyanye n'imikoranire no kurengana ku munzani - angahe kungurana ibitekerezo?
Hano wabwiye ishimwe, ari imbeba, byose nukuri.
Wagiye ikawa kandi uzanana nawe cawa, kandi yasangiye na Apple - Bams, ibintu byose ni ukuri.
TOLOKOAGA yagusabye kumufasha yimukiye, hanyuma utumire muri resitora anashimira ifunguro rya nimugoroba - Bems!
Ariko niba mubihe bitatu byose byintambwe ntabwo ari ukugomba guhura, Mechanism yubutabera izatanga ikimenyetso, kandi kurwego rwumugongo, komeza umuntu ufite epithet idashimishije. Kandi ntizongera kuba inshuti.
Ibi byitwa Theory of transes bingana cyangwa imibereho myiza). Ibintu byose bigomba kuba inyangamugayo kandi kimwe. Wowe njye, nanjye
Bitabaye ibyo, ubusobanuro bwacu bwubatswe nubutabera buzatanga induru.
Ariko, turashobora gutsinda ubu buryo - kandi hano ubucuti butangira.
Uburyo Ubucuti bwaremwe
Kumenya ibyavuzwe haruguru, biroroshye kumva uburyo bwo kujya mubucuti nubucuti.
Ugomba gukora inshuro nyinshi kuruta uko wowe. Mugihe cyibi bihe, umuntu asobanukiwe - witeguye kumutambira inyungu zacu. Kandi igitambo cyinyungu ze kubandi ni ubucuti (niba ibindi atari mwene wabo, birumvikana).
Kurugero, urashobora gufasha mugenzi wawe kwimuka kandi ntukemera gushimira muburyo bwo gufata muri resitora. Bati: yewe neza, ntabwo turi abanyamahanga kuri buri bwoko.
Cyangwa ntushobora kumva gusa inshuti mubibazo bye, ariko kandi "ugororoka" mucyemezo cyabo.
Mubisanzwe ni kimwe mubimenyetso nyamukuru byinzibacyuho yubucuti mubucuti - umuntu asangiye ibibazo byawe nubwo atabiteze.
Na none. Ubucuti nuburyo bwo hejuru bwicyizere, twizera ko inshuti izakorana inyungu zacu, kabone niyo yaba yarababara.
Niba werekanye ko ibintu byose bimeze nkibi, noneho ubucuti buvuka.
Mugihe gusa, gushimangirwa - gukora byinshi kumuntu kuruta uko bikwiye kuri wewe inshuro nyinshi. Niba inshuro eshatu cyangwa enye zidatanga ikintu cyangwa niba umuntu atangiye kwicara ku ijosi, bivuze ko utagomba gukoresha imbaraga zawe kuri yo. Ntiyigeze akuramo.
Kandi, ndabona ko munsi ya "gutuma byanze bikunze yumva ubufasha gusa cyangwa ikintu muri uyu mwuka. Bateze amatwi hano, no kwitabira amarangamutima nibindi.
Noneho, ubucuti bugaragara aho abantu bareka kubara uburinganire bwintererano kumubano. Niba ushaka kwihutisha ubucuti, wange (byibuze muburyo bwubushakashatsi) kuva kubara no gukora inshuro nke kuruta kuri wewe. Birashoboka cyane, uzajya mubucuti nubucuti.
Kandi mfite byose, urakoze kubitekerezo byawe.