Ababyeyi b'Uburusiya bafite ubwoba. Amayeri y'abanyadelisi mu mbuga nkoranyambaga - ubu azashaka abana mu kwiyahura! Bamwe bihutira kujya impaka ninde nyirabayazana, abandi - icyo gukora.
Inyenyeri nk'iyi yo mu 2007, igihe igihugu cyose cyaganiraga ku mugisha w'ingimbi kandi kigaburira umuco w'ubutegetsi bwa Emo kandi kogaho amakosa ya Emo kandi akaba yariteguye kwifuza kurengera abana, ababyeyi bagera ku guhangayikishwa na bo. Ubwoba numujyanama mubi.Ariko mubyukuri ukeneye kwicara no kureba, gutegereza ibyabaye, wenda, bizaba poste kumuryango wawe?
Kuki batekereza ku rupfu?
Abana bose - n'abakuze bose - mu bihe bimwe byubuzima bitekereza ku rupfu, kuko umuntu, bitandukanye n'ingurube, igomba kubaho neza ko inzira ye yo ku isi itagira impanuka. Birashoboka ko ikibazo kijyanye cyane - kuki batekereza ku rupfu rwabo?
Impamvu igihumbi. Dragique - Urugero, gufata ku ngufu nabanyeshuri mwigana cyangwa umuvandimwe, aho nta mbaraga zo kwatura - bisa nkaho uzahanwa, cyangwa gutwita. Psychophysiologique - neurose no kwiheba. Abasa kuri twe, cyane cyane postpactum, zizana urukundo: urukundo ", gutinya ibihano byababyeyi kubimenyetso bibi, ibibazo byabanyeshuri bigana (akenshi abantu benshi bahitamo kwitwa guhemukira).
Hafi y'ababyeyi bose, bamaze kumva impamvu, bavuga ko yari kubibona. Ariko sibyo. Mubyukuri, tureka kureba abana bacu kuva mugihe bashoboye kwimuka byinshi cyangwa bike amahoro kugirango azenguruke mu nzu cyangwa ku ishuri. Abahanga mu by'inararibonye mu ijwi rimwe bavuga: Ntabwo tuvugana n'abana bacu. Turabaha itegeko ryibikorwa byateganijwe cyangwa, twibuka ko ukeneye kubinjira mu byiringiro, turimo kugerageza kutagira isabune, tutangiriye "ibiganiro" bivuye ku mutima ", bisa no kubazwa.
Kandi ibi ntibisobanura ko turi ababyeyi babi. Ariko kubana bacu ni akaga.
Kuki batekereza urupfu rwabo mugihe ibintu byose biri murutonde?
Inshuro nyinshi zisubirwamo mu bitangazamakuru, zitiyubahiriza "udafite iyi", nta "kintu cyashakaga." Bibaho - ntibabibonye, ntibitayeho. Kandi na bo ntibayica ingimbi gusa bahuye no gufata ku ngufu, agasuzuguro kurambye, urukundo rwinshi, ntirwishimiye ikizamini cyangwa bavumbuye ko batwite.
Abaterankunga b'imitekerereze bavuga ko ku buryo umwangavu atakina n'urupfu (kandi kuri benshi, afite imyaka myinshi, inyungu ku ngingo y'urupfu ahagaze cyane), arakenera rwose inanga. Urungano rw'abantu rwemewe kandi uwo we ubwe yiteguye kugira ngo yubahe (kabone niyo yaba ari borozi babiri, atari itsinda cyangwa ikipe y'umupira w'amaguru). Guhuza neza nababyeyi - kwizerana nubusabane bwa hafi. Gusa koko, kandi ntabwo ari imikino yabantu bakuru bagerageza kuba ababyeyi beza no kwibiza, nka firime. N'ubushobozi bwo gukora ibikorwa byerekana ko isi ihinduka, ihuza aho, nkumuntu ukora wuzuye - waba akazi k'igihe gito gifite ubushobozi bwo gukoresha amafaranga mubushishozi bwawe cyangwa, ikintu, ikintu cyangiza , bisa nkaho bifite ibyatsi byaguye no gusenya intebe.
Biratangaje (kubantu bakuru) rimwe na rimwe kwiyahura bikunze kugerageza gukora igikorwa, byibura hari ukuntu bigira ingaruka ku mahoro n'umubano n'abandi (bizarira kandi bibuka amahirwe yawe yo kuyobora. Kubabara cyane - kwerekana barina kugirango batabera ibye byimazeyo, nkuko yifuza gutekereza. Kugereranya cyane? Ntabwo ari ingimbi munsi ya hyperopica.
Ibidashoboka kugirango wirinde kwiyahura
Iyobokamana. Niba urwayi ubwe atari mubushakashatsi bwo mu mwuka kandi ntabwo yiteguye kubishaka mubitabo byera, bizatinda mubuzima bw'amadini nkumututu, uzafungwa kandi ... uzi ko mu ijambo "kwiheba" Imizi isobanurwa ngo "umuvuduko"?
Ibiganiro ku bugingo. Ntibishoboka gutegura ikiganiro nkiki ntabwo ubwacyo, cyane cyane niba atari mbere mugihe kitabonetse hagati yawe. Ni iki kizagerageza kwiringira ikizere, umwangavu azagena uko twizeye. Urumva itandukaniro?
Kubuza imiyoboro rusange. Imwe mu nzego eshatu - Urungano, twibutse. Noneho itumanaho nyamukuru riba rishingiye kuri enterineti. Niyo mpamvu mbere yacu, bene bene babi, twamanitswe kuri terefone, dukemure hamwe umukoro hamwe. Gusa ikindi gikoresho cyo gutumanaho kirakoreshwa. Nibyo, ntabwo urungano rwose, aho umwangavu akurura kuvugana kimwe kandi rimwe na rimwe baganira kubiyahura. Ariko kuboneka kwabo ni ngombwa, kandi ingingo. Ongeraho amahirwe yo kujya kumurongo no gushyikirana hashobora kuzana umwana ugezweho kwiheba bikomeye. Ibyo birakomeye. Ariko ibiganiro hafi 100% byimanza zihaze rwose ingimbi mubyukuri.
Kubuza amashusho ateye ubwoba. Ihanga, ibinyugunyugu, ibihangange, imva ... niba imyaka yawe itaha yababyeyi ku ngingo yo kwiyahura, urumva ko ukomeye, uko imyitwarire nk'iyi isa. Nkaho abantu bakuru batangajwe intambara Intangiriro.
Guhagarika indirimbo na firime zijimye. Kubwimpamvu imwe. Byongeye kandi, ubumenyi bwurupfu binyuze mu buhanzi ni ngombwa cyane kubera kuba imitekerereze myiza y'abantu. Byahoraga. Nubwo byasaga nkaho nta - ibuka ubucumbuzi bwindirimbo kivuga kuri firime zambarwa na firime zerekeye intwari zintambara. Kubanga benshi, bakunze babikuye ku mutima kandi bahangayitse.
Uruziga no kwiga. Superframe kuva Brezhnev inshuro ifatwa nkicyitegererezo cyiza kirwanya ingimbi "durili." Mubyukuri, bisaba umunaniro, neurose, kwiheba kandi ntibisiga umwanya wubumenyi bwabo, amahoro n'imibanire rusange. Umwana ntamwanya afite wo kumenya icyo akunda gukora kandi abishaka kuba. Nta mwanya wo gusobanukirwa n'ingorane z'itumanaho, zoroshe ku kigo cy'incuke. Kandi ntamwanya wo kuruhuka, kandi kuruhuka ni ngombwa.
Niki gitanga amahirwe yo kwirinda kwiyahura
Inshuti zishimishije. Bashobora kuboneka mumiyoboro rusange ... cyangwa mubukangurambaga, cyangwa ku ruhare rwo gukina / mu mujyi, cyangwa mu gitaramo cy'umuziki mu kirere. Ntabwo ari inkingi gusa bahatiye kuvugana n'abantu bakuru - nabasangiye indangagaciro za Katu batangira gufata inyungu nshya.
Ibiganiro. Nta gukubitwa no gukundana nta mpamvu. Kora interuro imwe kuri firime, yarebaga hamwe cyangwa itandukanye. Shakisha ko ukunda umwana atera amatsiko, kandi kumuhaza - neza, kurugero, kuki ibipupe umukobwa akusanya cyangwa adakora izuru. Bwira inkuru ishimishije kandi nta nkuru yigisha mubuzima, hari ukuntu usubiramo ibyabaye kumwana ... ukuri, gusa niba uzi neza ko utitwa "kurambirana". Noneho nubwo hamwe na anecdote birakora cyane. Ikintu nyamukuru nukubona umwanya wo kuganira buto ntabwo ari kubintu no kugereranya buri munsi.
Imihango ihuriweho. Ikintu ukorera hamwe buri cyumweru. Reba firime kuwa gatandatu. Ifunguro rya mu gitondo kumeza imwe buri gitondo. Genda muri skisi cyangwa scooter ku cyumweru. Ingingo zerekana, hagati yumwangavu afite uburenganzira bwo kubaka igihe cyubusa, nkuko ashaka. Icyitonderwa, icya nyuma - byanze bikunze, bitabaye ibyo imihango izaba itarenze igikoresho gikurikira.
Inkunga y'ubuzima. Kwirinda Indyarya, gukora, kubura ibitotsi, kubura ogisijeni no kugenda. Nukuri, murugamba rwubuzima biragoye kutagendera muri hypereground ... ariko birakwiye kugerageza.
Ingaruka za Dosage. Ntibitangaje kubona inziba y'abana kurusha abantu bakuru mu rubyiruko rwose rwo ku mico yose yo ku isi gakondo zanyuze mu bigeragezo bikunze kurwanya umubiri n'umwuka. Ubugingo burasaba ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose. Gerageza gusunika ingimbi kubangaga nkiyi. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko umwuga utanga nta mikorere cyangwa utemewe. Benshi bahimba gutembera bafite inzitizi. Ibibazo byo mu mijyi birashobora kandi gutanga igipimo cyo guhamagara.
Akazi. Niba ingimbi ubwe yifuza kugerageza kwihasha amafaranga kandi wenyine. Noneho ntabwo byoroshye kubibona kugirango ari muto, ariko ugerageza kugerageza. Urashobora kandi gusaba gufasha mubikorwa byawe, niba ari ingimbi ku rutugu kandi icyarimwe utanga ikibazo kubwenge.
Ihererekanyabubasha. Ntabwo byuzuye. Reka nkwene, umwangavu kuva kuri ubu ahitamo ko umuryango wose urya kuwa gatandatu kugirango dusangire - hamwe nibibuza bimwe na bimwe byingengo yimari, birumvikana.
Kubona "isoni" amakuru. Nta rubyiruko rwiteguye kuvugana na mama kubyerekeye kurengera, umutekano wubuhanga bwimibonano mpuzabitsina cyangwa physiologiya yigitsina. Ariko hafi umuntu wese ushobora koherezwa yerekeza ku ngingo nziza itanga amakuru, nubwo itamenyekanye.
Firime zerekeye ibibazo. Ku byerekeye pedofili, hanze, kubyara abandi bana bo mu mutwe, gutwita kw'ingimbi, gukandamiza ku bantu bakuru, indwara ziteye ubwoba, udutsiko twangiza. Byumvikane biteye ubwoba, ariko hariho umubare munini wibishushanyo byerekana ibibazo bigoye cyane, bishimishije kandi byoroshye. Twabonye inshuro nyinshi guhitamo.
Urukundo. Ababyeyi hafi ya bose bakunda abana babo. Ndetse n'abana bagiye kwiyahura. Ikigaragara ni uko undi muntu adashobora kureba mubitekerezo byawe, nubwo ari umukobwa wawe cyangwa umuhungu wawe. Niba utizeye cyane ko ufite ikibazo gikomeye uzashyigikira, ariko ntuhe icyo umwana wawe ari ngombwa kandi komera neza, ko uzemera cyane, ndetse ukakureba mubintu - umwana Agomba gutekereza kumyitwarire yawe kuri yo mubyukuri ibyo bikaba bikomeje byumvikana. Kandi niba ari trample gusa niterabwoba ...
Nigute Umva ko umwana wawe ashobora kwiyahura?
Ubu kuri interineti yuzuyemo amakuru yizerwa: gukata kumaboko, ibishushanyo bya bale, imyanya yijoro kuri enterineti ... mubyukuri, ingimbi nyinshi zibiyahura ntukiyahura. Kandi kwiyahura cyane ntibikwega ibimenyetso nkibi.
Nibyiza cyane kumenya ibintu bishobora gutera kwiyahura. Kubwamahirwe, kandi aya makuru yuzuye kuri enterineti.
- Menya neza ko umwana wawe atababazwa no gutoteza cyangwa gusebanya urungano.
- Menya neza ko umwana wawe atitwara nkaho yafashwe ku ngufu cyangwa guhura nihohoterwa rishingiye ku gitsina ubu.
- Menya neza ko umwana wawe atababara numwarimu wa parabuja.
- Menya neza ko umwana wawe atari muburyo bwo kwiheba mu mavuriro cyangwa ku ndunduro yo guhagarika umutima mu mirimo no kwishima.
- Menya neza ko umwana wawe atababazwa n'ihohoterwa rya marangamutima, guhagarika, hyperteks kubagize umuryango, harimo nawe.
- Menya neza ko umwana wawe afite inyungu ahoraho, usibye umuziki wijimye - kurugero, kureba anime cyangwa gusiganwa ku maguru.
- Menya neza ko umwana adagizwe no gusiga.
Niba umwana ari muri kimwe mubihe bibi, kwemerwa ingamba. Bagomba gufatwa, nubwo utatinya kwiyahura.