Biteye isoni mugihe ababyeyi bazana natwe kurenganya. Undi kandi, iyo bahakanaga kose cyangwa ibisasu bikomeye, twabikoze. Kandi ntusobanukirwe, ufite intego witwaze cyangwa wibagiwe rwose.
Biragaragara ko batishimiye cyane urwibuzira. Twasabye abasomyi nabasomyi kugirango dusangire inkuru zacu zo kugongana hamwe no kwibagirwa ababyeyi.Nyirabayazana w'ubukene bwacu
Nyakanga, nibagiwe ukuntu nasabye kumuha buruse, ashishikazwa no kuba impano yanjye mu myaka 18 itarihenze kuruta uko yabiteguye.
Kandi mu cyiciro cya mbere, yahimbye ko yagabanutse n'umushahara kubera amanota yanjye mibi. Nagize ubwoba, kubera ko ntinya byoroshye kureka ibaruwa, kandi mwarimu yari afite uburemere kandi buri gihe mu magambo. Igihe nibutse, mama yaravuze ati "yego, birashoboka ko nakinnye nawe."
Kandi nibagiwe uko nari mfite imyaka makumyabiri, murumuna wanjye atera impungenge mu bwiherero, kandi ntacyo yakoze kugirango afashe. Wowe, bavuga ngo, Birasa nkaho uzashaka kukureba ... Umuhungu yari "mwiza," umututsi mu nzu yacu ntiyagaragaye.
Osteochondrose
Igihe nari mfite imyaka cumi n'ibiri, mama yari arwaye, ntabyuka - nta kuguru. BYOSE BAFATANYIJE KANDI Unyirukane kubiryo byose birambiranye. Byongeye kandi, yari afite ikintu mu mutwe we, yagenzuye byose kandi asuzumwa: niba idirishya ryarafunzwe, niba gaze yazimye, niba igitambaro cyazimiwe, nantwaye neza, nantwaye , Naranguruye ijwi kandi mfite ubwoba ku nzu yose. Igihe nahagaritse igihe cyo kwiruka mpita ntangira gutaka - "gufunga, kuzimya, ntangaza ko ntakiri umukobwa. Igihe cy'itumba cyari, ijoro, hanze yidirishya ryijimye, mucyumba cyijimye (urumuri rwarakaje). Buri gihe ryafunguwe neza kandi rirohama, ariko mbere yuko atabaza imivumo, nagize ubwoba cyane kandi nkabonwa cyane.Kandi nakuze, byaragaragaye ko ibyo atari byo, ntiyibuka. Nibyiza, osteochondrose yavuwe ... kandi nibyo.
Umururumba
Mama yamenye akazi nkako. Nta na kimwe hano. Rimwe na rimwe, ishusho itandukanye yisi iboneka ahantu hatangaje.
Kurugero, nakiriye buruse kuva 1986. Ubwa mbere, amafaranga atanu (umusingi yari 50), hanyuma ingano 25, noneho mfite akanama kamusuguti na Lenin. Noneho urangije amashuri, hanyuma uhite umushahara. Nabanaga n'ababyeyi banjye, mama yavuye mu mpera z'inyigisho zanjye (hanyuma nkora ku Nama Njyanama y'abasirikare, icyo gihe, mu rukiko), na Papa yahagaritswe kuva 1987.
Mugihe hariho buruse, nasize ibintu byose byari hejuru yibanze. Kandi aya mafranga yaguze ibitabo, imyenda, ibiryo hanze yinzu, amatike ya tram. Ibiryo murugo no gukodesha - hano nahaye ababyeyi 50 kuri 50. Kandi igihe natangiraga gukora, nahaye urugo igice cyinjiza. Niba usuzumye kuva kuri 8h00 kugeza 10 PM, nari kukazi kuva kuri 8 AM (ngaho kandi kagaburirwa - kuri kimwe cya kabiri cyumushahara) - noneho umugabane nagize mungengo yimari yumuryango birashobora gufatwa nkibisanzwe.
Natangiye gukora mu 1992, kandi mu 1997 nashyingiwe kandi amaherezo twagabanije ingengo y'imari - Nakoresheje umugabane wanjye w'ubukode n'amafaranga yakoreshejwe (nk'umugabo wanjye kandi namaze kugaburira muri firigo yacu. Mumuturo rimwe na rimwe barasa amafaranga, noneho mfite amafaranga 5, barabafite. Umusore usanzwe ukiri muto "Ababyeyi" ", ntitwagira, imikanda ya nyuma twihenze. Kuberako twembi dukora, ababyeyi bafite iki?
Kandi watekereza iki? Mama yibuka iki kuri mirongo itandatu, ni ryari nakoraga muri kaminuza gusa? Uratekereza iki, ni ubuhe buryo bwo kwitabira kwanjye kuguma mu kwibuka? Zeru.
Mu gitondo, yagombaga ku ijambo kandi hano:
- Ntabwo watanze ikintu na kimwe cya buruse n'umushahara. Yego? Cho, yatanze? Kimwe cya kabiri? Nibyo, niki? Yoo, birashoboka. Nibyiza ... birumvikana, birashoboka ... kandi natekereje ko ntacyo yatanze. Nibyiza, birashoboka ... kuva ubivuze, noneho birashoboka ...
Mfite ubwoba bwinshi ku buryo yatangiye kuniga. Mbega ukuntu ahari haracyariho, uhereye kuri urukurikirane "Ntabwo watanze ikintu cyose" - Ntabwo nzi ...
Arakurongora nyuma yibi?
Igihe nafashe icyemezo cyo guhura n'uwahoze ari umugabo, mama yahemukiye "Kuki ukeneye kurongora?" Babanaga numugabo we icyo gihe hamwe imyaka itanu nigice. Biracyahakana ko "byari ngombwa kurongora" kubera ko we ubwe yashimangiye: Amezi atandatu yo kubana na mama, muganira kuri terefone na mama (intera ndende, ntabwo igomba kugaragara, nta burebure bwa terefone) bwatangiye Kuri hysteri "kandi watanze amagambo?"Ntabwo rwose wifuzaga
Ku myaka 16, yashakaga bidasanzwe kuba umuganga, ndetse akora mu nkombe, kandi imirambo ntiyatewe isoni, kandi ko akazi katoroshye. Mu kigo cy'ubuvuzi muri Arumeniya, byashobokaga kwinjira gusa nyirakuru cyangwa umurezi yari abizi, nuko atekereza kuri gahunda: nuko atekereza kuri gahunda: mbere mu ishuri ry'ubuvuzi, na nyuma yacyo no mu kigo. Mama yasaga naho ashyigikiye, yavuze ko yafata inyandiko mu ishuri ubwayo, hanyuma akurura, kugeza igihe yatinze. Ku magambo yanjye "Ukuntu nashakaga kuba umuganga" kavuga ko ndimo guhimbwa kandi sinigeze kubaho.
Nibyo, njye bwose roho!
Igihe natangiraga ubuzima buhuriweho n'umukobwa, Mama Igihe runaka bwatangaje ati: "Cyangwa njye, cyangwa we." Nibyo ibintu byose byari bikomeye na nyogone. Soothe Mama yaratsinze, ariko biragoye. Noneho, ubu, karemano, akora ku kwibuka guhangana byambere byamaso manini akavuga ati "I? Nta na rimwe! Urabivugaho iki? "Ahari mugihe, naremera ko kwibuka mama bitameze nkibyanjye. Ariko kwigoha no kwinangira kwamagambo yanjye "Buri gihe, wahimbye ubuswa" - iyi ni igice cyiza cyumunyu mu gikomere ...
Umukobwa
Mama avuga ko njye, nubwo nize mu ishuri ryacumbitsemo, ryagumye mu rugo buri mugoroba, wagumye mu rugo buri mugoroba wagumye mu rugo buri mugoroba wagumye mu rugo buri mugoroba wagumye mu rubuga buri mugoroba, wagumye mu rugo buri mugoroba wagumye mu rugo, yagumye mu rugo buri mugoroba. Nyirakuru (mbere yishuri) yabayeho avuye ku mbaraga z'ukwezi. Kuva ku myaka ya 6 kugeza kuri 8, nabaga, mama yasobanuriye gusana mu nzu yacu. Byongeye kandi, ubwo nasubiraga mu nzu ya mama, ndetse na wallpaper yari umuntu umwe, wa parquet Otzkichell.
Ishuri ryinama ryari Hindi. Mama aravuga ko yampaye kubera impano zanjye ku ndimi, ku buryo nigisha Hindi, kandi naraye mu rugo buri joro. Ntarengwa rimwe mu kwezi kuri Papa, hanyuma icyarimwe ukwezi kwa nyirarubanda bombi. Kandi ndibuka ukuntu byinjijwe bidasanzwe mu bucuruzi bwo ku ishuri no kuryama kuri uyu muryango, uwushyira ku buriri, kuko bitabaye ibyo amasoko yamanitse, ntibyashobokaga gusinzira na gato.
Akhmatova
Turiho kuba atari mu Burusiya. Noneho Mama, asuzuma neza ukuri kubyerekeranye, ahora yishimira ko ibyo byose bitakiri imbere, ariko hanze. Ariko rwose ntashaka kwibuka uko dukeneye ku "bankeneye nk'urugero rwa Asmatov:" Avuga ko ari kumwe n'abantu banjye ... "yari kugenda." Kubwamahirwe, iherezo ryimvugo ryari ritandukanye. Kandi nubwo byagenda gute muri 1980.Shimira nyirarume
Nyirarume kuri Data ni pedophile. Igihe nabwiraga ibibaya bya nyina, Mama yavuze ko ntazahangayikishwa no kubiganiraho, cyane cyane data - yakwica murumuna we. Nyirarume nyuma ya Afgani, ku mutwe w'umurwayi, urashobora kwicuza gusa. Amagambo, yego. Muri rusange, ikintu kimwe nishimye - yabaga mu wundi mujyi maze araza cyane. Umunsi wari muto rwose, yari afite bihagije. Mwijoro, nigeze kunyura mu gitanda, ni urwitwazo rw'uko nagize ubwoko bw'igikinisho, yaje kubishyira mu gihome, afata ahantu hose. Kandi ntabwo nakwemera mama - kandi nasabye kandi ko ntazamura inkoni, nka, ntukonduke imbere y'abantu.
Hanyuma, igihe nari mfite imyaka 12, twagiye kubashyitsi gusura, icyumweru. Kandi twari mushiki wawe na mushiki we mu cyumba cye. Muri make, umwere yambuwe na nyirarume kavukire, munsi yumushiki wanjye uryamye - nanone hamwe n'ababyeyi be inyuma y'urukuta. Ntacyo nabwiye umuntu. Yari azi ko ntacyo bimaze kandi ntibyizera.
Nyuma, benshi, nyuma yimyaka myinshi, mugihe namaze kugira umukobwa wanjye, mama yagerageje kumbaza igihe natangiraga ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina. Nabivuze. Mama yari ahagije kumutima abaza impamvu nta kindi namubwiye na papa, mugihe ibintu byose byatangiye, ntibari kwandikira ubwoko nibindi blah blah bla. Nibyiza, navuze gute, ndasubije, naravuze, kandi inshuro zirenze imwe. Wowe ubwe namwe bavuga ngo, kuko isoni z'umuryango n'ibyo byose.
Muri rusange, nyina ntiyibuka ibintu nkibi. Kandi ntunyibuke - bivuze ko uko byari bimeze. Byongeye kandi, nongeye kubabwira nti: "Nibyo, nyuma ya Afuganisitani, umuntu urwaye, icyo yamwambura" ... ...
Beloruk
Nakoraga kuva kumyaka cumi n'itatu, kuva 1989. Papa mu mahugurwa yuzuyemo ibisigazwa kandi ameza akora umushahara. Papa yari umuyobozi, yirukanye ubwoba kumyabukire, Mama yahumurijwe, muri rusange, hari ukuntu abantu bose bitabiriye. Kuva ku ya 13, ntabwo nakuye mu mufuka amafaranga yanjye y'umufuka, kuva mu myaka 15 yahaye amasomo y'icyongereza yigenga, ngaho intangiriro ya 90s ... muri make, iyi nkuru yose yanzaniye hamwe numukobwa ufite inshingano uhora ufite amafaranga ye Kandi yishimiye kutaremerera ababyeyi be. Ibitabo byose, imyenda yose yo hanze, ice cream yose, naguze impano zose. Vuba aha haje ikiganiro n'ababyeyi banjye. Wakoze? - yabajije papa. Mfite? Yakiriye amafaranga 25? Tabel? Ntabwo yafashe amafaranga yo mu mufuka? - Mama yabajije, rwose ushaka ko nishimye neza mu bwana. Kuba nagiye mu tuntu ntakintu. Nibyo natekerezaga ko bagomba kwibuka. Biteye ubwoba gutekereza ko bafite muri rusange.Intebe
Igihe nari mbana n'ababyeyi banjye, twagize muri ibyo bihe, comp ya 286 ya 2. Kandi mu myaka hafi icumi, ababyeyi banjye banyuzwe n'intangarugero, ku buryo ntatekereje no kwishyiriraho gahunda, gutoranya muri glande ndetse no kwiga cyane umutungo - "Iyi ni mudasobwa! Nawe hto? " Kubera iyo mpamvu, natsinze ibicucu kuri uru rubanza. Noneho, nyuma yindi myaka mike, bibageraho ko "umukoresha wa PC" afite icyemezo cyamasomo - ni ubwoko bukonje! Batangira kuntema, ku buryo nagiye mu masomo, aho nigishijwe gukoresha Windows, ijambo no kuba indashyikirwa. Ibisobanuro nshobora gukoresha ayo masomo, nicyo wabona akazi numushahara wa 100.500 Dubbang 100.500 Dubbang 100,500 buri kwezi ntabwo nzamfasha icyemezo nkicyo, ingaruka. Mbere na rimwe kujya mu kazi nk'iyi mu myaka icumi (igihe habaye amarushanwa yari make cyane, kandi ubumenyi bwanjye kuri iyo ngingo bufite akamaro) ntibampaye, birumvikana ko batibagiwe.
Genda
Inomero yinkuru yashushanijwe igihe kirekire. Mama yari afite uburyo bwiza bwo guhagarika kugerageza byose gusobanura ibyo ntakunda ikintu. Amagambo yari yoroshye: uri muri iyi nzu - ntamuntu, ntukagukunda - nasohotse hano. Bivugwa ko ari ijwi ... neza, mu bucuruzi. Byavuzwe cyane. Ntabwo ari urwenya. Muburyo bumwe.
Nkigisubizo, namaze gutekereza kumahitamo muri batandatu imyaka itandatu: aho nzajya, niba rwose nkunze mumuhanda. Niba ku manywa. Niba ari nijoro. Niba mu cyi. Niba mu gihe cy'itumba. Ni he nshobora kurara - niba ugiye mu gicuku. Uburyo bwo Guhagarika - niba imbeho. Ndetse narwaye ikiboko - ubwitonzi butatu, kandi ryihishe hanze yinzu: nibabishyira hanze, kugirango ntabona umwanya wo guterana. Nari nzi aho hari ibintu byo hasi. Aho ushobora kwihisha imvura ...
Data ntiyari azi kuri Mama yeganaga koma. Igihe nagerageje kumubwira kubyerekeye - ikiganiro cyarumiwe kubabyeyi. Birumvikana ko yanshinjaga guhanga no kuvuga. Igihe nahinduye imyaka cumi n'itatu, iyi mite yasohotse "Oya." Kumyaka mirongo itatu, nahisemo kubaza ikibazo cya mama mu buryo butaziguye: Ni iki? Bite? Kandi yakiriye igisubizo: "Urahimba, nta kintu na kimwe cyari gihari. Nibura simbyibuka! "
Umuryango, by, by the way, ntabwo yari marginal.
Inkuru ya kabiri yari amayobera. Kandi nanone kuva murukurikirane "mwese mwahivuguriye!" Sinzi impamvu, ariko mama ntiyankunda. By'umwihariko. Niba kuko nari munzira nyinshi kopi ya nyirabukwe, haba kuko ndi umwana wambere - "yateye" amazu ye akoresheje impapuro, cyangwa ... Sinzi impamvu.
Ibi byagaragaye cyane cyane igihe murumuna wanjye yavukaga. Nibwo nishimiye ko mama ahamagara mukiganiro na Se muburyo butandukanye. Umubyeyi uvugira kuri njye, Mama yavugaga "umukobwa wawe." Kuvuga kuri umuvandimwe - "umuhungu wacu." Kuri kabiri na bibiri, nari nzi uko najya muri my nkimyaka itanu kugeza kuri itandatu. Niba ndi "umukobwa wasohotse", kandi umuvandimwe ni "umwana usanzwe", ubwo bivuze ko? Ibi bivuze ko mama adakomoka. Intambwe nashyiriweho. Kandi ntiyigeze ashaka. Nabonye agatsiko k'ibintu muburyo bwose bwa trifles murugo.
Imyaka umunani yabonye ubutwari kandi isaba nyirasenge mukuru - umubyeyi wanjye kavukire ari he, ari muzima? Nyirasenge (mushikiwabo mukuru, wamukumwa nyuma y'urupfu rw'ababyeyi be) yateguwe mushiki we umutwe uteye ubwoba, kandi umukwe wanjye (papa) yarashe ... igihe nibutse iyi nkuru mu myaka icumi - nabwiwe Ko ndimo guhimbana ubuswa, ntakintu, ntikishinja!
Ingingo yateguye Lilith Mazikina