Umva, iyo umuntu ananiwe, ntacyo ashaka na gato, usibye ko ari imbaraga zanjye zo kubeshya, soma kandi birashoboka ko hari. Ku mibonano mpuzabitsina, ukeneye imbaraga za dofig, niba, birumvikana ko tuvuga igitsina cyiza, kandi ntituvuga ku mibonano mpuzabitsina neza, kandi ntabwo tuvuga kunyeganyega. Kuba nta mbaraga zisanzwe zisanzwe, ntabwo bivuze ko yacecetse, yibagiwe kandi yiteguye kugenda!
Akazi ke kwa Zadolbala
Guhangayikishwa nakazi ntabwo bigira ingaruka mbi gusa kubikorwa by'ubwonko, ahubwo byongera urwego rwa Cortisol mu maraso, kandi urwego rwo hejuru rwa Cortisol rugabanya ibikorwa by'imibonano mpuzabitsina. Niba rero umukunzi wawe akora nka papa Carlo, birashoboka rwose ko adahuje igitsina.
Birashoboka ko uri umwitoto utaje kare kandi mugitondo cyuzuye imbaraga, kandi mugenzi wawe nyuma yo gukanguka yumva ari ururimi rubi kandi ntashobora na gato? Cyangwa, kurugero, nyuma ya sasita, witeguye kwitegura ubusambanyi, kandi arangaye byose? Muri make, tutitaye ku gihe cy'umunsi, kwangwa ku mibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo bingana no kuyitererana mu mahame.
Yumva ibibazo byumuryango
Nko kubijyanye nakazi, ibibazo byumuryango nibibazo birashobora gukururwa cyane no guhagarika umutima. Mama ntabwo yari afite ingeso, papa yinubira ububabare mu kuguru, akomeza gusabiriza gufata amaca masi ya veterineri - impamvu zirasubirwamo. Cyane cyane abashyigikira umubano wa hafi numuryango.
