Ibimenyetso 5 ababyeyi bakinga umwanya wawe bwite

Ababyeyi benshi bizera ko bafite uburenganzira bwuzuye kubana babo, hamwe nubuzima bwabo. Kandi rimwe na rimwe urugamba rwo kubungabunga ubusugire burambuye mubuzima. Nigute ushobora kumva ko ababyeyi bataguhangayikishije gusa, ariko imbibi zawe zirabangamiye - kandi ni ukubera iki atari byo, ahubwo ni umwanya uteje akaga?

Baje nta butumire

Igihe wari ufite imyaka 14, ababyeyi barashobora kwinjira mucyumba cyawe batakanze, kuko "yewe, ni ayahe mabanga ashobora kuba." Cyangwa "mubyukuri, iyi ni inzu yacu." Noneho ufite inzu yawe bwite, ariko ntakintu cyahindutse - ababyeyi basabye kubaha urufunguzo ("mugihe gusa") kandi baza aho uri kugirango usuke indabyo, uzane uko ubaho. Ntabwo biteze ubutumire kandi ntaho baburire aho bageze - ni ababyeyi! Nibyo, yego, kandi uri umwana, wambuwe uburenganzira bwo kwiherera.

Impamvu ari akaga: Igihe cyose udafite umwanya wawe munsi yizuba, ntabwo ufite amahirwe yo kubaka ubuzima bwawe ukazunguza icyari cyawe hamwe nundi muntu. Gutanga uburyo bwo kugera kubutaka bwabwo, ubyibushye uburenganzira bwo kuba ikintu cyingenzi murugo rwawe. Ibintu byose bizaba bibi mugihe wariye numuntu - hazabaho umuntu muri mwe, ni ukuvuga Mama wawe. Yahoraga yaje hano, kuki yahagarika nonaha?

Ugomba kubihisha cyane

Birumvikana ko ababyeyi ntabwo ari ngombwa kumenya ko ukora imyitozo mu ruhare rwa Sabimisve, ukora nk'umukozi wibanga cyangwa rimwe na rimwe ku mugore mwiza. Umuntu wese arashobora kugira amabanga yabo. Bisaba kuba maso niba amabanga nyayo cyane kandi uhishe mama hamwe na papa nubwoko bwose - tattoo nshya (aho kuba, kandi ntabwo yavuye mubyangavu ?!), ikiguzi cyimyambarire (abantu bose ntiziga gukoresha amafaranga) n'amakimbirane n'umukunzi (kandi urakuburiye ko atari abashakanye).

Impamvu ari akaga: Niba ukomeje gutinya kubyitwaramo kubintu bidafite icyo bifitanye isano nabo, bivuze ko abavye abumva ko ari ingimbi, kandi nawe, nkingimbi, guhatirwa kubeshya, bityo nko kutabona atatat na 30-indogobe yumwaka. Mubyukuri, baracyaguhitamo, bishoboka, nibidashoboka. Kandi uriteguye kuvuba gusa mugihe ingaruka zacyo zishobora guhishwa. Ku bijyanye nikibazo aho bidashoboka guhaza - kurugero, ubutane numugabo we cyangwa kwimukira mu kindi gihugu - ntugatandukanya, ntushobora gukora ibyo mutakabije.

Babangamira gahunda zawe

Mumaze igihe kinini, ufite impamyabumenyi itukura, inguzanyo ya Permigage, abana babiri (cyangwa injangwe eshatu) n'umusatsi utukura, ariko mama aracyatekereza ko atari wowe ugomba guhitamo ubuzima bwawe. Ihitamo risanzwe nicyo gisabwa kubyara abuzukuru. Cyangwa abuzukuru benshi, niba basanzwe bahari. Ndetse birenze kubandi mugabo, kuko badakunda ibi. Cyangwa muribi, ariko nyuma yo kukugira umugore w'inyangamugayo kandi wigarurira ibiro byiyandikisha.

Mama na papa bari bafite gahunda nini kuri wewe, ariko hari ibitagenda neza kandi ntiwigeze uhindura kopi yabo. Ntabwo wabaye umunyamategeko, ariko ku rundi ruhande, yagiye mu rwigisha Yoga. Umugabo wawe ntabwo ari muburyohe bwa mama. Nawe ubwawe uri kure ya se wa se.

Impamvu ari akaga: Ibisabwa n'ababyeyi bakubise intebe hanyuma bahindukire umukobwa winzozi zabo ntabwo ari bibi. Barakara kandi bagusubiza mu muryango, kwangiza ikizere, cyangwa ngo bakomane mwese kandi wowe, mukobwa mwiza, mutesha umutwe muri galaxy, MVA cyangwa kurongora umuhungu mwiza Les .

Isuzuma ryatanzwe

Buri nama n'umuryango ari ikizamini, kandi hafi ya buri gihe ko ntanze, ntiyihutiye kandi bihutira kujya ku payati. Umuntu wese w'icyemezo cyawe yemejwe cyangwa ntabwo. Ababyeyi bafite igitekerezo giteye kijyanye nacyo kigusaba guca umusatsi cyangwa kutabikora, aho kujya mu biruhuko mugihe uhinduye akazi nibikinisho kugura abana.

Lokonov bemeza, na KARE - OYA. Umukobwa agomba kwambara imyenda. Crimea - Yego, Kamboje - kubusa. Birashimishije kubona udasaba Inama Njyanama, yego iyi ntabwo ari inama - ababyeyi bakomeje gusuzuma nibikorwa bidashobora gusubizwa inyuma, kandi biracyafite umwaka wose kuri wewe, nubwo waba wawe garuka ntibishoboka.

Impamvu ari akaga: Ababyeyi ntibiteguye kuvugana nawe ku kirenge kimwe, kuko nta bigereranyo, ni uburenganzira bw'abayobozi. Kandi deuse ituma tugira ishingiro kandi tugerageza gukosora, ariko icyarimwe kandi twumva dufite icyaha kubwibyo wahisemo - ni ukuvuga ko kwiga gutekereza kumutwe wawe. Mu bihe nk'ibi, birashoboka guhitamo ko ari byiza kuba imbata no kudakesha ikintu cyose, kuhageza kubakomeye.

Uri munsi ya hood

"Mama arahamagara!" - Iyi ni siren iteye ubwoba, kandi ugomba kureka byose hanyuma uhita usubize. Ababyeyi batekereza ko uba ahantu hashyushye munsi yimyenda itapi kandi guhamagara bidasubirwaho birashobora gusobanura ikintu kimwe - wapfiriye mu mwobo. Wicaye muri iyo nama, uryamana, ntumva terefone, uhindure diaper, uryamye? Birumvikana ko atari byo. Nigute ibi bishoboka.

Niba udasubije ako kanya, uzategereza inkuru yerekeye kwemeza hamwe ninyuguti za Morgo. Aho uri hose, ugomba gutanga raporo buri munsi kubyerekeye ubuzima bwiza, isupu yagiye, ingofero zashyizwe murugo saa cyenda. Rimwe na rimwe, ababyeyi basubiramo amakuru, bahamagara umugabo we kandi murayongereye.

Impamvu ari akaga: Ni amazi meza kuri manipulation, ivanze kumarangamutima, kandi intego yacyo ni ukukwambura uburenganzira bwo guta igihe cyawe no kuvuga oya.