Imigani 5 kubyerekeye abana mama wenyine

Mu gihugu cyacu, buri mwana wa karindwi ukura mu muryango utuzuye, kandi mu manza 94% - hamwe na mama, naho 6% bagwa ku miryango aho ba papa na sogokuru bareba abana.

Imiryango ituzuye igenda iba myinshi, nkimigani yukuntu abana bakura, bambuwe umwe mubabyeyi. Igihe kirageze cyo kujugunya bimwe muri ibyo byishimo.

Ikinyoma Umubare 1. Abana b'ababyeyi barera abana ntibazashobora kurema umuryango wabo

Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe muri kaminuza ya Michigan bwerekanye ko abantu bagera kuri 43%, barezwe mu miryango yuzuye, banyuzwe rwose n'ubukwe bwabo cyangwa umubano w'igihe kirekire. Kandi ni bangahe bakuze b'ababyeyi - abahuriye bashobora kuvuga kimwe? Gutungurwa, 43%. Abanza kubimenya, nkuko bikwiye, uwa kabiri ubizi, kuko bidakenewe, ariko ibisubizo ku munaniro ni kimwe.

Ikinyoma Umubare 2. Ababyeyi b'abana barashonga cyane

Birasa nkaho byumvikana - kubareba hari umuntu cyane cyane ntamuntu numwe, kuko umubyeyi wenyine ahuze cyane numugati ukomeza, hano bajugunywe mu mva yose kuva mucyiciro cya munani. Mubyukuri, mu Burusiya, nta tandukaniro riri hagati yimyaka yimibonano mpuzabitsina mu miryango yuzuye kandi ituzuye - ugereranije ni imyaka 17 kubasore.

Ikinyoma Umubare wa 3. Abana mumiryango ituzuye ntiziga ibibi

Ubushakashatsi bunini bwakorewe mu bihugu bya Aziya bwerekanye ko kubera impamvu runaka mu Buyapani gusa, abana b'ababyeyi b'abaseribateri bigaga nabi. Mu bihugu byose bisigaye nta tandukaniro riri gukorwa, no muri Indoneziya na Tayilande, abana mumiryango ituzuye bahabwa ibigereranyo byiza kuruta abo twigana.

Ikinyoma Umubare wa 4. Kumwana, byibuze uwo muryango uruta utuzuye

Ibibazo byabana bafite ababyeyi batanye, atari mugihe ababyeyi bakiriye icyemezo cy'ubutane, ahubwo mbere. Kare cyane. Abashakashatsi b'Abanyamerika babonye imiryango ifite abana bafite imyaka 12. Birumvikana ko batazi, ababyeyi bagabanijwemo ejo hazaza cyangwa ntabwo. Ariko muri iyo miryango gutandukana nyuma yuko byose bibaye, ibibazo byimyitwarire yabana rimwe na rimwe byatangiraga imyaka 12 kugeza kumasaha! Ni ukuvuga, ababyeyi baracyabana, kandi abana bari basanzwe batishimye. Kubaho kw'ababyeyi byuzuye ntabwo ari ngombwa cyane nk'uruhiro rukwiye mu nzu.

Ikinyoma Umubare 5. Ireba ababyeyi n'abana gusa

Ubushakashatsi bwasesenguye intsinzi nimyitwarire yabana muburyo butandukanye bwimiryango bwerekanye uburyo bushimishije cyane. Abashakashatsi bagaragaje ko abana bava mu miryango yuzuye kandi batuzuye, aho abana bazanye na basogokuru, kandi ku bwoko - ubwoko bwa 10 gusa. Bifatwa nk'ibibazo n'imyitwarire - kunywa itabi, kunywa inzoga n'ibiyobyabwenge, gutwita kw'ingimbi no gukuramo inda - n'inzara.

Kandi byaje kugaragara ko abana bo mumiryango yuburyo bumwe bari imbere yabandi - abana benshi batsinze, batuje kandi bahujwe nababyeyi, burigihe bahoze ari uburirwe. Ku mwanya wa kabiri - Abana bo mumiryango yuzuye, ku wa gatatu - abana b'ababyeyi batanye babana na mama (cyangwa papa) na basogokuru. Isano rero hagati yibisekuru ntabwo ari ngombwa kuruta umubano hagati yababyeyi.