Igitangaje, ariko Ukuri: Abamaze igihe kinini mubucuti nabo bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina! Ntabwo birumvikana, uburyo bwo gutangira igitabo, ariko nibyiza cyane ... cyangwa ntabwo ari byiza? .. Twabajije abantu bahitamo ibara ryica ibitsina byose kuri umuzi?
Ubu ni inshingano
Mubyukuri, iyi ni ibyiyumvo bidasanzwe - gushaka umuntu ubona buri munsi atari mubihugu bigaragara. Ni ukuvuga, amafaranga yanze rwose, ariko ubwiza bwarushijeho kuba bwiza. Icya mbere, amaherezo twari twenyine kandi ntitugomba guhangayikishwa nibyo umuturanyi ashobora kuza, Mama cyangwa undi muntu ushobora kuruhuka rwose.Byongeye kandi, nibyiza ko ushobora gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina igihe cyose usanze kuruhande rumwe. Kumenya ibyifuzo byawe, ubujyakuzimu. Tugomba kugerageza cyane cyane kandi byoroshye cyane.
Kurundi ruhande, ibihe bitoroshye ubu byerekana neza - nta mibonano mpuzabitsina. Nibyiza, ibyo "guhuza imibonano mpuzabitsina" byagaragaye, nkumunsi wa valentine - niba utabikora, noneho urashobora gushira umusaraba ku mibanire yawe. Ngomba kuvuga imibonano mpuzabitsina neza, ngomba kuvuga.
Umubano wubusa ni buzz
Twakoze ubundi buryo: batangira kubana mbere yuko umubano wacu utangira. Natekereje kumusumari kumukikije kuri sofa mucyumba nkabaturanyi, kugeza igihe nzabona ubwanjye imiturire, ariko hari ukuntu nahise rigoramye, nuko mparanira guhitanaho icyumba cye. Twari bato cyane, twatakaje imitwe, ariko iyo ubusaze bwa mbere bwanyuze, ibintu byose byabaye byoroshye kandi byurukundo.
Nyuma yimyaka 2,5, ibintu byose byarahindutse: Ibitutsi byagaragaye, kuko tudashobora kubana nkuko dushaka kubera abasazi kandi ntabwo buri gihe duhuza ingero zubuzima. Imibonano mpuzabitsina yahindutse gahunda irambiranye. Ariko twarokotse none turaryama gusa kuberako byombi bifuza, kandi atari ukubera ko ukeneye cyane kandi tubana.
Imvugo yacu ni umubano wubusa. Nibyo, ntibyari byoroshye kumenyera imiterere nkiyi - cyane cyane umukunzi wanjye, ni urukundo ruteye ubwoba, ariko, nubwo byarafashaga. Twabaye hafi, twimukira kure bishoboka.
Tuba mubyishimo byawe
Twasonera hafi ako kanya, kandi byari byiza: Twagize igitsina cyane uko twabishakaga. Inkuru zose zerekeye ishyaka ryubusazi, iyo ukoze imibonano mpuzabitsina inshuro 7 kumunsi, hanyuma nijoro, - kuri twe. Oya, birumvikana ko atari byinshi, ariko hariho imibonano mpuzabitsina myinshi.
Ntabwo dukunze kuba hamwe - akazi kerekana guhuza byinshi - rero iyo duhuye mugihe numwanya, burigihe hari ikintu kidasanzwe kuri twe. Sinzi icyo bizarangira, niba tutarabana, birashoboka cyane ko twatandukana vuba, bityo bisaba urukundo rwinshi mumibanire yacu.
Birumvikana ko twari dufite ibihe kandi bikomeye, ariko, kubyumba byimibonano mpuzabitsina ntibyagize ingaruka kumibonano mpuzabitsina: Ndi Umwigisha wanjye, kandi umukunzi wanjye ni acrobat mu basizi, ntizishobora kuba mbi!
Ubushize kwacu kwari ibyiza
Ntabwo twateganyaga kugenda, ariko nyirabuja w'inzu yanjye yanshyize mu muhanda nta nteguza, nuko mpita mmwimukira. Twabanaga mu gihe kirenze umwaka kandi burimunsi twandukuye byinshi kandi byababaje. Twari dutegereje kugeza handi guhinduka, ariko ntacyo yakoze kubwibyo.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina yarashyingiranywe cyane kandi nta gaciro yari ihari. Byongeye kandi, natangiye gukoresha imibonano mpuzabitsina mu rukurikirane: "Ndarakaye, kuguma mu mibonano mpuzabitsina.". Noneho ndumva ko ibi ari amahano.
Ingingo ya nyuma ni uko yatukwemereye mu minsi ibiri i Amsterdam "gutwika urumuri", ariko nta kintu na kimwe cyabaye, kandi nararakariye gusa, kandi naje Hamwe nibyiza rwose mfite abantu.
Igitangaje ni uko ariko tukimara kugwase maze duhitamo gutandukana (nimukiye muri sofa mu cyumba), igitsina cyateye imbere. Kandi igihe cyanyuma cyari igisasu na gato: yampamagaye kureba inzu ye nshya, kandi hari indorerwamo mu iterambere ryuzuye. Yampatiye rero kuryamana na we, kandi na we areba mu ndorerwamo. Byari bishyushye cyane! Ndetse nicujije gato ko twatandukanye. Ariko bike cyane.
Ubu dufite ubuhungiro
Nabanaga nabaturanyi hafi yinzu, ubu, ubu, iyo tubana natwe dushobora gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina yo guhanga: nkubukonje ushobora gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina (nkubundi ushobora kuza) gusa), ariko niho Ubwiherero, mu gikoni, hasi muri koridor na muri rusange ahantu hose.
Tugenda cyane, niko duhurira munzu yacu, kumva ko turi hafi yongerewe imbaraga inshuro nyinshi, kuko nikihe gihe cyihariye nahandikira bibiri.
Gukora hano, Lysni ngaho n'ubucuruzi mu ngofero
Twahuye imyaka 5. Amezi atandatu yambere kure, kuko babaga mu bihugu bitandukanye, hanyuma arankorera. Ntekereza ko umubano wose utangirana numubare munini wimibonano mpuzabitsina, wagabanijwe bitewe nukubahwa cyangwa atari. Ubu bwari umubano wambere ukomeye numukobwa kandi byari bishimishije kureba uko gahunda yacu yubakiye kuri: icyumweru cyose mumahoro atuje, hanyuma - abana! - Ku wa gatandatu mugitondo! Igihe cy'imibonano mpuzabitsina!
Imibonano mpuzabitsina yamye ari nziza, ariko nyuma yigihe, yahinduwe inshingano, gahunda. Andika ndagukora ubu, uri hano, kandi turangiza. Ariko twabonye uburyo bwo gutandukanya imibonano mpuzabitsina, ubushakashatsi bwimikorere ya tintric, bwari bushimishije.
Ikintu nyamukuru - ugomba kwegera inzira ahanga kandi ntugafate nkumukunzi nkikintu runaka.
Twatandukanye, ariko amaherezo gusa kubera ko yimukiye, kandi yaratugize ibihe. Kandi nta mibonano mpuzabitsina hano.