Birashoboka kuva kumwana wishuri murugo rwumwe? Kuki? Kandi bangahe? Twasabye ibisekuruza byabagore byakuze "nurufunguzo rwo ku ijosi", tubwire ibitekerezo byabo.
Basaba kwifatanya na buri wese. Harimo umwe wahoze umugenzuzi w'abana bato - ku ishusho yuzuye.Muri icumi - yego, cumi na batatu - oya
Mu Budage, mu mategeko, imyaka igera kuri 12 ntishobora gusigara, urugero. Ntacyo mfite cyo kuvuga ibintu bifatika. Ibintu byose biterwa numwana ubwe. Umuhungu wanjye mu iterambere nk'akagaswa ryarimo kandi amacakubiri muri 10 ashobora kugenda, kandi ku ya 13 natinye kureka. Asa nkaho ari mu bwonko ikintu gifunze, kuva mu misemburo n'imihangayiko, ubumenyi bwinshi bw'imibereho bwarazimiye igihe umuhanda warengana, ntanubwo yarebye hirya no hino. Ni ukuvuga, mu munani, yagurutse mu iduka ubwayo, kandi mu myaka cumi na batatu papa yacukuye hafi.
Wigwam
Buri gihe bemeza batuje gusiga umwana murugo wenyine. Yabaye nabi cyane ubwo namenyaga inkuru y'umukobwa w'incuti: Yasize Murugo Umukunzi w'imyaka cumi n'ine muto, kandi mwishywa ategura Wigwam wo mu kigo kuri Sofa, kandi i Wigwam yatwitse umuriro. Umukobwa yashoboye gukuramo umuhungu gusa akabura mu nzu, ibintu byose byafashwe.Kuva muburambe
Ndavuga nkuwahoze ari umwana, papa na sogokuru. ABANA, Ahari, ntibikwiye, kandi abakiri bato - kubera iki? Niba, birumvikana ko bafite ubwenge kandi ntibazitwika hamwe ninzu.
Umugore yavuze uko yazanye na murumuna we na mushiki we bava mu fatiro ya mbere, nyina yagiye mu rindi shuri, yiga mu mpinduka ya kabiri. "Bana! .." - "Yego, Mama, ntabwo yegera amashyiga."
Nko kubura igihe kirekire, ibintu byose birahari kugiti cyawe. Ariko icyo nava mumwana iminsi itatu, nibyiza kumwiyumbura umuntu.
Ariko abana bagomba kumurikirwa neza. Nkuko ndibuka: Nyuma yimyaka itanu nakinnye muri vacuum ya vacuum nkoresheje uwashizeho. Babishyira muri sock, bafashe amaboko abiri. Nibyiza, voltage yari 127 volt. Mama wa mama yari. N'ububa kabiri, na kimwe, ku kigero kimwe - wasangaga amatara ya BEngal. Yaka wenyine. Yamanutse hasi. Kandi nahisemo gusuka amazi ya mbere yaguye munsi yukuboko - Cologne. Icyakora, igihe byaturutse, umuriro wuzuye kandi wuzuye. Ariko subpaline kuri parque yagumyeho. Iki gihe nta wundi uri murugo.
Umuhungu wita ku
Umukobwa wanjye imyaka 3 n'igice. Umuntu ntazazamuka ahantu hose ntacyo akora. Ariko irashobora kugira ubwoba ... ndetse no kurwara kuva mubyabaye. Kandi kuri kiriya gihe byarasigara byoroshye. Mucecekeye yicara, nari mwiza murugo kuruta ahandi.Murumuna wanjye yasigaye hakiri kare. Izi nkuru zombi zari mbere yo kuvuka, bivuze ko atari imyaka 2 afite imyaka 8. Yahisemo kwita ku muryango no gushyushya amazi yose yo gukaraba (hari amazi akonje gusa mu nzu) ahindukirira imitsi mu ndobo irimo ubusa ... mu kindi gihe nahisemo kureka kuki zose. Inzira. Yatwitswe, mu gikoni hari amahano, ariko kuki, ukurikije amagambo ya mama, yari aryoshye.
Ikintu cyanjye mperutse imyaka itanu, ntakintu kitinya, kandi umwe aratuza. Ku myaka 6 ku nshuro ya mbere inzu imwe yagumye nijoro. Mama wo mu basaza yagiye "ijoro ryose mu nzu ndangamurage," kandi nto yari mu rugo, ntakibazo. Ntarengwa ishobora kubaho - iyi ni amagi akara ikaranze. Ariko ngaho amashyiga afite uburinzi buhebuje, kandi umuriro ntuzabaho.
Pugs
Data yavutse muri 38, byabaye uko byari bimeze mu ntambara. Cyangwa no mbere yo kwimuka, Data - Ugushyingo. Uwa nyuma yasobanura impamvu nta muntu warebaga - ibindi bibazo. Muri rusange, mu myaka itatu yasigaye wenyine. Nyirakuru yari afite akazi mu buryo bunyuranye, abona idirishya hamwe n'umuhungu we mu idirishya. Umwana asigaranye buto, aricara arabamura. Ndetse naragaragaye mu Maleaslavets, aho iyi madirishya zombi yari ...
Foromaje
Yatangiye kuva mu mukobwa kuva ku myaka 9 (ubu ni icumi). Iminota yambere muminota 15 - kububiko ninyuma. Afite impungenge cyane! Hanyuma buhoro buhoro mugihe kirekire kandi birebire, muri Amerika, amategeko yacu, ntibishoboka kugenda igihe kirekire, ariko harashoboka rwose murugo - kandi amasomo abikora ndetse no kurya no kurya no kurya Njye! Ijoro, ntabwo nari kugenda - nta bwoba. Ntekereza mu myaka 15 bizashoboka, ariko nzareba ibihingwa.Kuva mfite imyaka 4 ahantu igice cya kabiri kumunsi, umwe asigaye. Imwe mubyibuka neza mu bwana - nka mama mbere yo gutabaza no gusobanura ko iyo iyo kurasa cyane ari hano, ni ngombwa kwegera firigo no kurya foromaje.
Inzu imwe
Umukobwa w'inshuti zanjye mu myaka 12 yicaye wenyine murugo, aryamana na Angina mugihe abantu bose bagiye kwishimira akazu. Yarebye mu makarito yigitanda kuva kuri terefone mu mwijima na terefone imwe. Umuntu yaje ishyami, kandi yahisemo bwa mbere ko abo babyeyi bagarutse, ariko nyuma naje kubona ko hari umuntu wundi. Yanditse SMS kubabyeyi, afata Katana nziza ku rukuta yihisha. Igihe igisambo mu cyumba cye kirageze, kuva kuri Duri ntakiruhuko cyo kumukubita kugendera ku gihe yahagaritse kugerageza guhaguruka. Muri rusange, umugabo yiyeguriye abapolisi batewe n'ababyeyi. Niki gishobora kuba iyo umukobwa yari asinziriye cyangwa ntiyabibajije cyane, urashobora gutanga gusa.
Igitekerezo cyinzobere
Anna S., umwarimu, uwahoze ari umugenzuzi w'ibibazo
Abana bose baratandukanye. Umuntu arashobora kuguma mu rugo neza, umuntu asigaye hysterite, asigaye nta mama mu cyiciro cya 1 Nzeri, ku munsi wa mbere w'ishuri. Mu minsi y'ibyabaye (80-90s), ubwigenge bw'abana bwarezwe, bumaze kugaragara mu muco rusange (reba igitabo "Imbwa n'imbavu" cyangwa kwimura "radionai" , "fasha Mama"). Bana ubwabo kuva ku wa kabiri, n'umuntu n'uwa mbere bagiye ku ishuri, bajyana barumuna bawe cyangwa bashiki bacu bo mu kigo cy'interaniro, bafasha gusohoka mu gihugu, bajya mu iduka, bajya gushyiraho amashuri yinyongera. Noneho ibintu byarahindutse. Mu ruziga n'ibice by'abana ba rubyiruko ruto, ndetse no ku ishuri, ni "amazi". Ikintu kimwe, igihe kigana ku rundi ruhande rw'umujyi, cyangwa nimugoroba, ku mwijima. Ibindi - Iyo ishuri riri hafi yinzu, hamwe nurugo rwo guhanga abana cyangwa umuziki ni uwuhagarara batanu, nuwo mwuga kumunsi.
Ubwigenge Bwamize ni ikintu gikenewe cyuburezi. Ubwigenge buremewe gusa imbere yubuhanga bumwe bwo kwerekeza no kwikorera. Niba ufashe umwana ufite ubuzima bwiza mumutwe, udafite gutandukana muburyo bwumubiri nubwenge, hanyuma imyaka igera kuri 8-10, agomba kumenya izina rye, amazina yababyeyi, inzira yo gutwarwa nyabyo, inzira Kuva aho twigana kugera aho batuye. Ugomba kuba ushobora kwishyura mububiko, kubara hamwe nubufasha bwa calculatrice, kugura itike yo gutwara abantu no kuyikoresha (ahantu umuyobozi yabuze).
Ugomba gushobora gukoresha microwave hamwe na keotle yamashanyarazi kugirango ususuruke ifunguro rya sasita mugihe amazu ashaje. Kuri gaze n'amashyi yamashanyarazi, ibintu byose ni umuntu ku giti cye, kuburyo ntari gukora ibyo wanditse cyangwa ibitekerezo hano. Azi uburyo - neza, ntabwo azi uko - atari ikibabaje, gikura, kizakwiga, ikintu nyamukuru ntabwo ari ugutinda.
Undi mwana agomba gutunga byimazeyo ubumenyi bwisuku, ntabutsa koza amenyo, gukaraba no kurwanya. Nibyo, umukobwa ashobora kuba atazi uruzitiro rurerure, abazwa nabandi, ariko bakuramo umusatsi mumurizo byatuza. Umwana agomba kuba ashobora kwambara mu bwigenge, gukubita imigozi yose no guturika buto zose.
Kandi umwana agomba kumenya aho ahamagarira niba ibintu byihutirwa byabaye. Terefone yo kurengera umuriro, ibyihutirwa, abapolisi bagomba guhora bafite umwana kwibuka, cyane cyane ubu umubare ni umwe. Kuri iyi ngingo hamwe numwana ukeneye kuvuga, ntabwo uteye ubwoba, ariko uvuga mubyukuri, aho isi tuba kandi ibishobora kubaho.
Kubyerekeye kugenda murugo. Niba mama yagiye ku kazi ijoro ryose, ntabwo nakugira inama yo gusiga umwana uri munsi yimyaka 14. Iyaba gusa kubera ko umwana ashobora kugira ubwoba, kandi akeneye kumva umutekano. Nibyiza gusaba umuntu ukuze. Niba mama aje atinze, erega, niba izahamagara hanyuma utange raporo aho ari, kimwe nizo zizaba murugo.
Urashobora kugenda, nkuko ntekereza, amasaha kuri 5-7 atuje. Asiga nyina w'umwana umwe ku ishuri. Tumaze gutaha, umwana agomba kuzayo kurya.
No ku bwigenge. Ibintu. Mama yakomokaga ku kazi saa 11h00, yicarana n'amasomo yo gukora, kugeza saa tabiri za mugitondo. Niki Umwana afite umwana kwiga, Mama? Ntakintu cyiza amaherezo. Ndi mugihe cyo gushinja umwana kugirango nkore amasomo wenyine, kugirango ababyeyi babigenzuye kandi bamfasha, kandi bose ntabwo bakorewe burundu hamwe nigihe. Noneho usige kimwe.
Tekereza kandi kumwana azakora mugihe udahari. Nibyiza, amasomo azakwiga, azatuma sandwich atwika ibintu, reba TV, hanyuma? Ibi bimaze kuba ibyawe, mama, ubushishozi. Uzi abana bawe neza.
Usige abana bamwe hanyuma usige mu bundi buryo bwo gutuza ntangarugisha. Ibintu byose birashobora kubaho ikintu cyose. Ni ikintu: abana bakunze gutinya kuba bonyine. Hanyuma biragaragara ko mama arabareka, ariko aragenda, akore ibyo ushaka. Byagenda bite se niba ambulance izakenera? Kandi mu buryo butunguranye, umwana azahatira ku bw'impanuka abaturanyi babo (guca intege umuyoboro wenda, urugero), uzakenera kwinjize byihutirwa inzu ya serivisi zitangwa - kandi icyo gukora noneho? Tekereza ubwoko bwoko ki wenda umwana? Izi ni ingero zikomeye.
Kandi kumurima kugirango uve mumipaka yumvikana kandi ukeneye. Nubwo igice cyumunsi.