Nyina. Ubwato, akuramo ubutaka munsi y'ibirenge bye. Umugabo upfa. Guhindura hamwe no gusuzugura shobuja. Umuntu uturuka kuri aba bantu birashoboka ko udafite uburyo bwo guterera ubuzima bwawe ... byibuze kubagore b'Abarusiya, ishyano, ibintu bisanzwe.
Igitabo cya Noruveje rero, umunyamakuru Aud Dalsegg n'abanyamategeko ingengabihe, yasohotse mu Burusiya mu gihe gikwiye. Byongeye kandi, kimwe mu bihe byashize na byo byaba ngombwa, kuko ibibazo bivugwa mu gitabo "ku nkoni" bitatakaje akamaro.
Kandi nyina yakomeje kugora ubuzima bwumukobwa we. Kuri we, NicClene inert Solweig ntiyashoboraga kwita ku bana. Umubyeyi yamufashaga mu bibazo byo mu rugo, ariko rero, noneho kwerekana ububi bw'umukobwa we ku byiringiro byayo.
Tukikijwe na psychopaths, abanditsi baraburira, kandi ntanubwo ukeka, kuko mubyukuri, imitekerereze idashobora kuba yica abantu. Byongeye kandi, dukikijwe nabantu badafite imitekerereze, ariko bitwara neza ibyo ntibiza. Bafata abahohotewe kandi bafata ifuni imyaka myinshi, nkaho abo bafatanije, bonsa umunezero w'ubuzima.
Badutera abandi nabandi bizera ko ibibera nibisanzwe. Ariko, umubano aho imiterere ibiranga psychopathic birimo kutureba bidasanzwe. Ni uburozi. Ni akaga.
Yafatwaga nk'umugabo mwiza, witabira, na SAGRID ukumvise ko afite amahirwe.
Yabaye umunyarwanda mu rugo. Sigrid n'abana bagiye muri Tiptoe muri ibyo gihe se w'umuryango atagiye ku nyanja. Batinye kurakarira - kuko aha hahari gake. Niba nta mpamvu igaragara, ashobora kumuhagarika.
Kubashobora kuba, kandi na we ntiyizera, ariko yumva ko yafashwe n'imibanire ya psychopath, kandi igitabo cyanditswe.
Ubwa mbere, kugirango dusuzugure gushidikanya, birimo ibihe bisanzwe bitera imbere hafi ya psychopaths nabahohotewe. Ingero zivanwa mubuzima bityo byoroshye guhuza nubunararibonye bwabo.
Urugendo rw'ubukwe ntirwari rushimishije cyane. Henrik yakunze kwerekana ko atanyaguzi: hoteri, ibiryo, umujyi - byose byari bibi.
Abanditsi bavuga uburyo bwo kumenya umubano utameze neza, uburyo bwo kumenya niba umufatanyabikorwa (cyangwa umuvandimwe, cyangwa umuvandimwe) yerekana ibintu bya psychopathic yumuntu, ukurikije ibintu bishobora guhitanwa na psychopati bikura nuburyo bihuye nudufungo. Igitekerezo gishimishije kandi cyingirakamaro, ariko icy'ingenzi, abanditsi bavuga uburyo bwo kubona imbaraga zo kuva mubucuti butari bwiza, uko byakagombye guharanira nyuma - nyuma yuburyo bwa psychopath bukomeye bwo mumitekerereze gukiza mu buryo bw'igitangaza gusa kuko wakijije iki.
Ukuri no kwiryoshe kuri Dalsegg na vesza birashobora kugaburirwa gusa. Umusomyi wu Burusiya amenyereye cyane kwemeza kandi agera kuri tractions ya reseppesiyo ya psychologique ". Kwita byimazeyo abanditsi bishyura neza kugirango birinde abahohotewe (ibirego by'uwahohotewe hamwe no gutembera kw'ibitero), abahanga mu by'ishuri rya kera bakwirakwijwe ibumoso n'iburyo.
Ntabwo wumva uburyo bwiza cyangwa bubi - nikureba wateye? Nubaha cyangwa wanga? Aba bantu biroroshye kwivutira, berekana impande zitandukanye za "I". Imwe - urugwiro, nziza, nziza. Undi niwe abantu bonyine baturutse ahantu hegereye bakunze kugaragara - urwango, rwuzuye kandi rwuzuye.
Mubyukuri intambwe ku yindi, umurongo inyuma yumurongo ni wizeye, bafasha abasomyi gufata umwanzuro no kuva mubihuriza hamwe nigihombo gito.
Wabonye inshuro nyinshi icyaha kubera ko umubano utabitswe. Wibwiraga ko ugomba kwitwara ukundi: kwerekana byinshi byo kwizerana, gushobora kumva, kubyemera no gushaka ubudacogora no gushaka kwihisha. ... Ariko ntushobora kandi ntugomba gukiza umuntu ukuze udafata inshingano mubuzima bwabo, ibyiyumvo nibitekerezo. Ugomba kwibaza niba wizera rwose ko uwagavye azahinduka.
Muri make, turi amafaranga akomeye afatika byabaye ngombwa kuva kera kandi cyane, kandi turizera ko bizaza kubasomyi be.
Impamyabumenyi: "Ku ifuni. Nigute ushobora kumena uruziga rwumubano utari mwiza "AUD Dalsegg, Inger Vesse, Ubusobanuro Nargis Shinkarenko. Inzu yo gusohora "Alpina Umwanditsi", Moscou, 2016.