Bumwe mu gutinya guhoraho kw'ababyeyi ni ibyaha by'imibonano mpuzabitsina birwanya abana. Nigute Umva ko umwana yahuye nacyo cyangwa ashobora guhura nigisimba?
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Hariho ibibazo mugihe abafatamari (abasinzi, maniail bakurikiranye, abangavu, nibindi.Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, kenshi ni ukundi umwana abaho igitambo kivandimwe, inshuti yumuryango, umuturanyi cyangwa umwarimu. Byongeye kandi, niba umuntu yinjiye muruziga rw'itumanaho ry'umwana, azagerageza asa naho yizewe kandi akundwa. Uhereye kumuntu usanzwe wizewe kandi wishimye kugirango ubitandukanye.
Kubwibyo, birakwiye ko twitondera ko umwana arumiwe no kugaragara kwa mwene wabo cyangwa inshuti, yirinda kuvugana na we, kandi yerekana kandi imyitwarire iranga abana bahohotewe cyangwa gufata ku ngufu, ijoro, ijoro Urerekasi cyangwa ubwinshi bwo gusetsa mu buryo bweruye n'imikino.
Ba se bakubise abagore, inshuro zigera kuri esheshatu inshuro nyinshi zikunze kwitoza kuryamana
Imwe mu mpamvu zituma biteje akaga kuguma hamwe n'abigome, basezerera - ibyago byo kongera ihohoterwa cyangwa ibihingwa ku bana.
Abapasizi ba se-bafata abanyamahanga barashobora kutagira ikinyabupfura cyangwa mwiza, uko byagenda kose. Abo n'abandi bahuza imyumvire ku mugore we n'abana bafite nk'ikintu cyabo, ndetse no gushaka gushinja umuntu ababo.
Ababyeyi-bahura nihohoterwa kenshi, ariko nanone baranga uburakari, ubukana, imyifatire ku mwana nkumutungo.
Kuva kubangamira kwababyeyi bagize ibitsina byombi bikaba bafite abakobwa benshi kurusha abahungu.
Umuhigi w'abana mu mbuga nkoranyambaga azatangizwa n'ingimbi
Kugoreka Gukina mbere ku cyifuzo gishishikaje bw'abana badakunda kugira ngo babone, amaherezo, inshuti na firime na firime, hanyuma bakatinya igihano.Bagereranya abana, nk'ubutegetsi, imibonano mpuzabitsina n'imyaka imwe, vugana mbere "ku nyungu .
Noneho gukaraba amabanga kugirango wohereze amafoto yambaye ubusa, kandi urashobora gusangira umwanya wo kurwara muri Skype (nkuko amategeko ari mato yose, kuko ubwicanyi bwamafaranga buri muntu bushobora kuba ubutunzi), gufata wambaye ubusa. Video yo muri Skype yongeye gukoreshwa kuri Blackmail, kandi umwana yanze kugirango yemeze ko yatangiye gutanga serivisi magara mubuzima busanzwe.
Muri rusange, ibisobanuro birambuye kubikorwa birashobora gutandukana, ariko gukaraba n'amafoto yambaye ubusa bizahora bitabira.
Kwirinda neza ni ikiganiro hamwe nabana kubyerekeye umutekano wumuyoboro. Ntibishoboka guhagarika amakuru yihariye, kuva kuri aderesi yo kubaho, hanyuma wohereze amafoto yawe yambaye ubusa, ndetse no kugereranya uburyo wabuze cyangwa ukuze.
Umuntu akimara gutangira kubitsa mu mabanga, ibintu byose bizunguruka bizihuta cyane kuruta igihano cya nyina ku itabi. Buri mwana agomba kumenya neza.
Abangavu bavuguruye porunogarafiya
Kwiga umuhengeri w'ibyaha by'ingimbi mu Bwongereza byerekanaga ko icyifuzo cyo kwigana porusogisi - intego nyamukuru y'ingimbi (kenshi mu baterankunga ku bana bato bato. Akaga gadasanzwe k'ibyaha nk'ibi ni uko, gusobanukirwa bike ibyo imibonano mpuzabitsina nyayo isa, ingimbi zifata icyitegererezo cy'amashanyarazi kugira ngo zigacikemo kandi rimwe na rimwe zikomeretsa abantu benshi, zisubiramo, amayeri y'umwuga.
Uwahohotewe nk'urwo arashobora kuba umwana wimibonano mpuzabitsina, bihagije gusa nkaho atagira kirengera vuba imbere ye.
Ababyeyi b'ingagi bagomba kwitondera kwirinda ibyo byaha, baha abana babo kumva ko porunogarafiya ari iyobora igitsina ari akaga, ndetse no gushaka gusobanukirwa neza nkibintu bikenewe byibitsina guhuza.
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