Abahanga mu bya siyanya b'Abanyamerika bemeje ko twe, nk'urugero, turakekwa. Kwishyiriraho ababyeyi "uri mwisi y'ibirometero byose" ntabwo ari byiza kwisi kandi bikangisha ikibazo cya karcissistic cyakabwo.
Dukurikije ubushakashatsi, ibisubizo byacyo byasohotse mu kinyamakuru cyemewe cy'Igitabo cy'igihugu cya siyansi ya Amerika, abana bafite impano n'imico bivuguruye neza kuva mu myaka 7 kugeza 11, nyuma bazabona amanota menshi ku rugero rwa GRSISsism. Muyandi magambo, yazamuye ibintu bimwe, yizeye ko ibintu byose birashobora gukorwa kandi byose bigomba . Umutoza wumuryango Sarah aratanga amategeko 7 azafasha ababyeyi kuzana ibyiyumvo byiza byo kwikunda mumwana, mugihe batabihindura bito.Kunda abana uko biri, hamwe namakosa yabo yose
Kwiyongera kwabantu - Narcissus nuko mubugingo bumva ari bato cyane kandi bababaye, kandi basa n'abishaka bikomeye na nyirakuru. Iki kibazo kirashobora kuburirwa niba umenye ko abana bawe uburenganzira bwo guhanga nibibi kandi ukabakunda hamwe nibikoresho byabo byose. Guhamagara abana, nta mpamvu yatewe na genine na ba nyampinga, ababyeyi bahura ninza ukura umuntu ukunda gusa, kandi ntabwo ari.Ishimwe neza kandi byumwihariko
Ibyo Youm yakunze cyane: "Umnitsa, Twishimiye" cyangwa "Mwese twateguye ibintu byose, ariko ni ngombwa nakoze, bizakenerwa gukomeza gukora ukurikije gahunda yawe"? Ishimwe rifatika rihabwa agaciro hejuru kandi ritera gukomeza mumitsi imwe. Abana ni bamwe.Shima abana kubyo bakoze uyu munsi
Amagambo yubwoko "uhorana neza" cyangwa "umukobwa wanjye ntiyigera ahaza akajagari" kudatera inkunga cyane umwana uko bayashizeho. Byongeye kandi, bashishikariza agaciro k'imanza bikorwa nonaha. Nibyiza kuvuga: "Wow, wowe, ibintu byose birabagirana, uko wakoze isuku neza!" Furray, ikintu nyacyo cyabonetse.Dushimire kuri uru rubanza, ariko ntucibaze ishimwe
Mubyukuri, abana ntibakeneye buri ntambwe guherekezwa namashyi. Kugenza cyane kuzamurwakaza imbaraga. Cyangwa, nibyiza, umwana arashobora gutangira kwegera ibihembo bishya kandi bishya. Ariko ntibishoboka gusiga abana na gato udafite "uryoshye" - abantu bakuru badahuye bazangiza muri psychoanalyst. Iyi niyo ngingo igoye - Kurikiza uburimbane.Dushimire ikintu kitoroshye
Ababyeyi bakunze guterera "neza", badatekereje ko basuzumwe. Nibyiza kureba ibibazo byabana. Reka tuvuge, dusingize kuri buri suzuma ryiza ntabwo ari iri hejuru, ni ukuvuga ko umwana yashyize ingufu.Igisha Abana "Itegeko rya Zahabu"
Amategeko azwi: yitware nabandi bantu nkuko ushaka ko bitwara nawe. Iki gitekerezo kizafasha umwana ntazakura mumuntu wemeza ko isi izunguruka. Koresha iri tegeko mubihe bitandukanye, usenywe imyitwarire yabantu kuva kuriyi ngingo.Igisha abana kwishyira mu mwanya w'abandi bantu
Kubabarana, ubushobozi bwo kwishyira mu mwanya wundi, bumva ububabare bw'undi, akababaro, umunezero - ubushobozi, ntabwo bufite daffisis. Ibyiza dushobora gusobanurira abana uko ikintu gisa mubitekerezo byabandi, niko bigoye kurushaho gutsimbataza kumva abantu batameze neza kuruta abantu. Isi yuburengerazuba ihinduka kugirango igaragaze umwihariko w'umuntu gusa, ahubwo ni isano nzima muri sosiyete, ni ukuvuga, ntabwo yizera inyenyeri ye gusa, ahubwo yumve aho ubushobozi bwabo bugarukira. Niba ugitekereza ko uhereye kumwana ukeneye gusunika "umwamikazi muto" ku isi yose, ni igitekerezo kigeze ku giti cye.Ukurikije poste ya wameigton.