Ibyifuzo mubinyamakuru byabagore birayobewe. Kuri buri kibazo mumibanire hatabwa diametrically ibyifuzo, kandi buri gihe - kwisi yose.
Cyangwa gusobanukirwa byose, cyangwa guhita ujugunya - kwiyongera kwimpande zituma wumva urujijo? Nibyiza, dore umuyobozi muto ushobora gufasha.
Hano haribintu bine iyo poroji yumugabo irasudi.
Ntabwo azi amagambo y'urukundo - ariko avuga imvugo y'ibibazo
Hano hari abagabo bisa nkingora. Ntibazi konsole, ntukavuge amagambo yuje urukundo, ariko "Ndagukunda" muri bo kugirango bakure amatiku. Mu manza zikomeye, ntashobora kuba uwambere guhobera, akabona umutwe, kugirango azunguze ukuboko ku gihe.Birashoboka ko atabyitayeho kandi kubwikintu cyose gikoresha. Cyangwa birashoboka ko afite ibibazo akoresheje amarangamutima - hanyuma ibintu bizamubwira byose.
Umugabo wuje urukundo ntabwo asohoza byibuze inshingano zinshuti n'abavandimwe ku bijyanye no guhurira mu gitondo kuva muri gari ya moshi cyangwa ngo ashyikirize icyayi gifite ubukonje mu buriri. Azahora yita ku bitutsi, muri bo umwuka wo guhumuriza utera imbere. Azakwibuka icyayi ukunda, kugura mugihe cyuburiganya ukunda, udafite ibyifuzo byo kugura inkweto nshya (cyangwa byibuze gusana).
Hafi yawe nkaho igihe cyose gikora neza? Urashobora kwizera neza urukundo rwumuntu wawe.
Ntishobora guhagarara kuruhande rwumuntu mumakimbirane yawe na nyina
Niba utuye na nyirabukwe, kandi umunsi wose arakuzanira ikiganza, umunsi wose utuye ibintu byose bitutse cyangwa isupu bicamo, birumvikana ko, mu bugizi bwa nabi. Mubutaka bwabandi ntushobora kwikingira byuzuye, umugabo wanjye agomba kuguha umutekano, byibuze aragusagura gusa.
Ariko niba ufite ibyo mutumvikanaho na nyirabukwe udafite ibikorwa byubugizi bwa nabi cyangwa muri rusange ubeho, hanyuma ukaba umugabo, nkumuntu uwo ari we wese, mubisanzwe ugerageza gukomeza umubano mwiza nabantu babiri bamureba. Harimo kwanga gukwega amakimbirane yabo. Birangwa cyane numugabo niba asaba buri mubundi amashyaka kutatuka uruhande rwa kabiri imbere ye.
Ariko niba ubwishingizi bwe bukoreshwa kuri mama gusa, ishyano, uri umuntu wundi.
Yasinyanye n'abantu barazimiye
Kurugero, kubera ko ari ibitsina, abavangura cyangwa banti-semite.Mwisi itunganye, umugabo wawe ararengana impande zose, ariko mubyukuri ntashobora kuba umwirondoro kandi yishimira ibintu byose bimenyerewe, ibyo ari kumwe byose kuva mu bwana cyangwa n'ubusore bwe, ndetse n'ubuhanga bukomeye kuko badashobora gukura ubwonko kuri Ikinyejana cya mbere.
Ikintu gisobanutse, ntituvuga kubibazo iyo umugabo yakuyeho abo bantu bose biterwa nubusabane rusange nicyerekezo rusange nibitekerezo byabantu mubimenyetso byavunitse.
Ntabwo afite abatishoboye mubuzima bwa buri munsi
Abahungu benshi mumiryango nkana cyangwa inturtia ntabwo bigisha ubwigenge. Mbere, igitekerezo runaka cyo gucunga ubuzima byahaye ingabo, ubu benshi ntibakorera cyangwa, bitewe n'imyaka, bakorera nta kudoda nyirurugo no gusukura ikigo.
Niba umugabo nyuma yo gusobanura ko ifunguro rya nimugoroba ridabitse, amavuta ubwayo muri firigo ntigagaragara kandi amasogisi ubwayo atazagira isuku, mutangira kwigira neza gukora urugo, noneho urashobora kwigira umuryango. Niba azi neza ko ikaraba, kandi umubano numugore urakenewe kugirango umuja nigikoni azengurutse isaha hafi yisaha mumuntu umwe, hanyuma ukavuganaga na parasite hanyuma hazaba itorero gusa.
Kutabyumva muri ntakibazoHariho ibihe bibabarira - wumva biteje akaga kubuzima nubuzima mugihe kizaza.
Yagukubise
Ko yavuze nyuma yibyo, menya, uburambe bwumugore hafi ntabwo azi imanza iyo umugabo wasanze bishoboka gukubita rimwe, ntabwo byabaye noneho birashoboka noneho birashoboka kubisubiramo. By'umwihariko niba ubikeshe imbabazi, azi icyakwishyura, I.e. Mukubite ikintu kimwe na serivisi ihembwa ishimishije.Abagabo benshi basa nkuyuvuye ku mutima iyo bateguye ubuki, ariko ni ukubera ko basohotse babikuye ku mutima ibyiyumvo bityaye, bivuye ku burakari, birangira n'amarira meza yo kwihana n'ibyishimo mubyo yakugezeho. Na none, akunda neza byose, kuburyo nta gice cyo gukubita, ntazongera kubisubiramo. Ntugasubiremo ntuzaba.
Aseka amakuru yo gufata ku ngufu
Kandi akunda gutanga ibisobanuro kumakuru yerekeye ubwicanyi cyangwa gukubitwa abagore mu Mwuka "Nigute wagombaga kuzana umuntu?" Ni ukuvuga, abona igitekerezo gisanzwe mugihe umugabo we adakunda ikintu mumigore ye, atari ugutandukana, ahubwo arabica cyangwa kuyica. Ibyo atekereza kubyerekeye gufata kungufu, uracyakeka. Ijambo rikomeye ku cyaha nk'iki mu magambo ye ni "ubuswa."
Urashobora kwigira icyizere ko uri Nesakaya kandi uzahora witwara neza, ariko Nadezhda ntabwo yakijije umugore uwo ari we wese.
By the way, witondere ko abagabo b'ubwoko bakemuwe kubera ubwicanyi cyangwa gukubitwa cyane iyo bamenye ko umugore arabasiga. Ntibishoboka rero kuba inyangamugayo nabo. Kureka a) vuba, b) nta gusobanura no kuburira. Nyuma yo kwita, gerageza ntukengere ahantu. Mugihe icyaha kidakorwa hejuru yawe, Amategeko ntakurinde.
Yashenye ibintu mu burakari
Kandi, niba ureba, burigihe ibintu byawe (cyanemubyo bye kuri wewe, ibyo akomeza gutekereza numutungo we).Ubwa mbere, ni nko gukora igitugu murugo nkigikorwa cyiterabwoba. Icya kabiri, benshi ntibahagarara kubintu, nuko muri kimwe mubitero byuburakari bwe burashobora gucika izuru.
Cyangwa azi imyitwarire ye ibitemewe nta rwitwazo no kwangirika kwangiritse (kandi ntakisubiramo ibintu nkibi), cyangwa ateganya gushyira mubikorwa byuzuye nkumunyagitugu murugo kandi nta "ibishya" ntibizihangana.
Abifata agace k'umugati
Umugabo kuva mu ntangiriro yavugaga ko yakurasambire neza (cyangwa wowe n'umwana), kandi yemeza kureka akazi, none rero witaye ku nzu - kandi azagutekereza neza ku bijyanye n'indima amafaranga yo muririma , ingendo, gasike nibindi tri bikenewe kandi ntuzibagirwe kukwibutsa ko urya gusa kubwubuntu bwayo? Urimo umutego wateguwe mbere. Yabagiriye n'ubutware bwe, kandi kuri we imbaraga ni ibiyobyabwenge.
Waba uzi umutungo wibiyobyabwenge? Kure cyane, dosiye nini irakenewe. Umuryango wa Rulaturearcoman rero azashakisha uburyo bwo kukumva hejuru yawe (n'umwana) imbaraga ndetse no kurushaho, kandi inzira zizarushaho guteza akaga.
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