Urashaka ko abantu bakuru cyangwa batabikunda, barabikunda cyangwa ntibabikunda, abangavu bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina. Kandi ntacyo ushobora gukora kuri yo. Ariko urashobora kubigisha gukingirwa no gusaba uruhushya rwa mugenzi wawe. Ariko burigihe ni imibonano mpuzabitsina yingimbi - Bijyanye nigitsina? Impamvu zigihe cyumwangavu erotic?
Reka tugerageze kubimenya, usibye ibitsina byibasiwe, ibyifuzo, icyifuzo cyo kwishimira no kwifuza kumenya ibishoboka byumubiri wawe, usibye urukundo no kwishima kubabwira umuntu runaka, bigatera igitsina mubyangavu.
Ibiri hejuru
- Icyifuzo cyo kwemeza itsinda ryerekana - inshuti, abakobwa bakobwa, itsinda, abayobozi. "Nturi gute? ..." "Kandi ufite abakobwa bangahe?" "Biracyari isugi ?!"- Amatsiko.
- Kuri sosiyete. Niki? Wigeze ukora ikintu na kimwe? Ntabwo yizita nijoro? Ntiyanyweye? Ntabwo wanyweye? Ntabwo yagereranije igitaramo cyangwa kuri rally? Ntabwo yasekaga nkumusazi? Kandi ntibahahize cyane, barashobora kandi kuryamana kuri sosiyete (gukusanya umwangavu mubirori bishobora guteza akaga, reka reka / agakingirizo ke kuri sosiyete yose).
Niba kandi ucukuye cyane? Niki gisunika ingimbi muri "Amashyirahamwe yimibonano mpuzabitsina"?
Kubyifuzo byo kwemerwa na bagenzi (no kutaba uwigeze mu rwego rwacyo) akenshi habaho guhangayika rwose.
Umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze ya Tatschololog Tatychova: avuga ku maganya ajyanye n'ingimbi, avuga ko mu ingimbi TatyPana:
"Ingimbi zikura. Bakura kumubiri, mumarangamutima. Muri iki gihe, imisemburo "yoherezwa n'imbaraga ziteye ubwoba." Impinduka z'umubiri, gutsinda ibyiyumvo bishya bitamenyerewe, ndashaka ikintu. "Feri ntabwo ikora." Ibi biherekejwe numunaniro wumubiri no kurenza urugero icyarimwe. Ingimbi elementary ntizihangana nabo.
Birasa nkaho basanzwe bumva bigenga, hamwe nabo bakurikirana gutinya amakosa, ubwoba bwo kwishyura.
Kandi ndashaka kwemerwa, kuba "kurwego", ndashaka kuba "nkabandi."
Kandi ababyeyi bafatwa nkigihe gito ...
... kandi ntabwo biteguye kubaha ubwigenge bwinshi, ariko bakeneye, ariko kubera gutinya abana mbere yo guhinga abana (kandi bafite ubwoba mubuzima bwabo) kongera kubagenzura, cyangwa kwanduza hamwe no guhangayika.
Nibyo, ababyeyi bakunze gutera abana imibonano mpuzabitsina kare: ubwoba bwabo mbere yo gutwita hakiri kare, mbere yo gutwita hakiri kare, mbere ya sida, hamwe no kubibona, kugirango bavuge kubijyanye no kugerageza guhuza igitsina.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina ikunze kuba imbarutso yo guhangayika. "
Igitsina rero nka Gutandukanya amaganya bisobanura.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina nko kwiyemeza: "Abantu bose barabwirwa, ariko nta burambe mfite, nk'imyaka myinshi asanzwe yegera, ariko simbizi."
Imibonano mpuzabitsina nkikimenyetso cyo gukura.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina nk'igitugu. Turimo kuvuga amakimbirane binyuze mu mibonano mpuzabitsina.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina nka psychostimulator . Ijambo ryerekeye indege uva kuri ukuri binyuze mu mibonano mpuzabitsina: umuntu anywa, umuntu afata ibiyobyabwenge, umuntu agira uruhare cyane mu mibonano mpuzabitsina.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina no kwanga ibintu byose kandi byose nabyo bikora akazi kabo.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina no guhora mudahuje igitsina mumico rusange no kwamamaza (niyo mibereho nyamukuru) itangwa nkubwiza bwingenzi bwumuntu. Kumenya imibonano mpuzabitsina byabo biba urugero rwubukode, ukubaho numubare wimibonano mpuzabitsina - urugero rwo gutsinda.Kwifuza no kwitegura imibonano mpuzabitsina bingana nurukundo. Umubano nu mva ahateganywa ntabwo wabujijwe nta mibonano mpuzabitsina ukagabanya.
Imibonano mpuzabitsina ifata itandukaniro ryigenga. Hamwe n'ingaruka zose zakurikiyeho, nk'intego, I.e., ugereranya abagore n'abakobwa ku mubiri nk'imibonano mpuzabitsina, kimwe no kugereranya n'abagabo n'urubyiruko rwibinyabuzima kandi "imbaraga z'imibonano mpuzabitsina. Niki, na we, kiganisha ku kubaha no kuba mubucuti.
Kira Weber, Anddagog, umutoza, umuhuza w'amakimbirane:
Ati: "Ingimbirs zo Guhimba hakiri kare zisunika cyane cyane icyifuzo cyo gushyikirana, ubumwe, icyifuzo cyo kwisanga muri urwo rwego. Ibi nibyo bikenewe cyane guhaza imiyoboro rusange, kandi haribyinshi. Mu bihe by'igitutu cyo guhuza ibitsina ndetse no kumvira, ingimbi ziragerageza guhaza ibi ntibikenewe "ntabwo ari ahantu."
Ni iki gishobora kuganisha kuri? Imibonano mpuzabitsina ni uburyo bwo gutumanaho (kugena imitekerereze mikhail LitVaka). Ni ukuvuga, hejuru, byuzuye, kandi ni ubucuti bwo murwego rwinshi. Iyo imibonano mpuzabitsina ibaye hashingiwe ku cyizere kandi yubatswe umubano, atari ku cyifuzo cy'imitekerereze, ihagarika - aho guhuza. "
Imibonano mpuzabitsina nkumusimbura wurukundo nubucuti
Inyota yubushyuhe, uruhare - Ubucuti bwamarangamutima - burashobora kunyurwa kubera kurera umubiri. Kandi turimo tuvuga umwana muto - wororoka mumuryango, kandi kumitekerereze itagaragara ijyanye no gutandukana kwabangavu bisanzwe.
Urwego rukabije rwinzara cyamarangamutima ni irungu, mugihe umwangavu adafite inshuti magara, "arashobora kumusunika muhongereranya umuntu watanze igitsina.
Kudashobora kuba inshuti kandi muri rusange gushyikirana muburyo bugoye hamwe nigitsina nabyo birashobora gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina isigaye.
Kudashobora kuba inshuti nikibazo rusange cyabana bagezweho. Amasomo menshi y'abana (bose kubwiterambere nuburere bwiza), kubura imyidagaduro n "" gufunga "ubuzima mumijyi minini byatumye umubano usanzwe wuje urugwiro udahambirizwa hagati yabana.
Ibyiza byitumanaho hagati yabana bibera mubyiciro rusange kugirango bikoreshwe, kandi bidashingiye ku mpungenge no gukundana cyangwa gusa ku bucuti busanzwe (iyo abana bafite imyaka myinshi).
Iyo abana bakuze, bigaragaye ko umukobwa akenewe, kandi icyo akora kuri we, umuhungu ntazi ...
Ibiranga gusabana
Muri icyo gihe, abantu basanzwe bigishijwe ko agomba kugeraho, kugeraho, gutsinda. Guhora duhangana, intambara, Intambara nimwe mubyingenzi byo gusabana kwabagabo. Imibonano mpuzabitsina kubahungu nayo ni intambara, Arena kugirango ibyo bigerweho.Umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze, Harry Colman:
"Abahungu bavuga ko ubugabo bwabo binyuze mu mubiri, kandi kuva hamwe n'umwanda muri sosiyete yacu cyane, noneho ibintu byose bimanuka ku mibonano mpuzabitsina cyangwa ibikorwa byegeranye, kandi ni umuntu wifuzwa, hanyuma -" ntabwo ari umuntu. "
Abakobwa baracyakunze gutegekwa kwihangana, ubwoko, bwubahiriza. Kugeza ubu, abakobwa benshi bagenda bakura ubwabo, no ku bantu, kuboneka k'umuntu mubuzima bigena ubudahuza imibereho.
Kandi umukobwa yamenyekana kubahungu, hasi ... cyangwa ntazi kunanira igitutu. "
Umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze Tatyana Abramova:
"Ndetse no ku batekereza rimwe na rimwe bibaho kuba ihishurwa ko kurenga imipaka y'ihohoterwa ari urugomo. Baratangaye, batekereza ko ari ibisanzwe - igitutu gihoraho no gutotezwa. Hejuru yabakobwa bazamenyesha ibikenewe kugirango habeho imyumvire imwe. Ubujurire bwo hanze niyo mbaraga nyamukuru yo guteza imbere nubumenyi. Kubwamahirwe. "
Niki cyabikora - Nukuri ko abana bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina?
Nta na kimwe. Umwana yarakuze. Urashobora gusa gutanga agace k'agakingirizo hanyuma tubwire ingaruka. Hanyuma ushireho amategeko. Ihangane, muganire. "Shyira" hamwe n'abangavu ntibazashira.
Ni izihe ngaruka?
1. Ingaruka zo gutwita udashaka.
2. ibyago byo kwandura indwara zandurira mu mibonano mpuzabitsina.
3. Ingaruka zo kwandura virusi itera SIDA.
Inshingano kuri izi ngaruka zose ni abafatanyabikorwa!
Kimwe na:
1. ibyago byo gufatwa kungufu kubakobwa.
2. ibyago byo gufatwa kungufu kubahungu.
3. ibyago byo kuba umufata kungufu umuhungu.
Inshingano kuri izi ngaruka zihora uhinduka umuzimu!
Ni ayahe mategeko ashobora kuba?
1. Agakingirizo, kabone niyo haba ubundi buryo bwo gukumira bukoreshwa.
2. Kwemera amajwi. Gusobanukirwa no kwemera ko "oya" atari. Kandi ko kubura "yego" ni "oya". Ibi ni ukuri cyane kubahungu.
3. Kandi na none kubahungu - ntukemeza, ntutange, "Oya" ntabwo.
4. Niba udashaka, niba bidashimishije, niba ufite ubwoba, niba udakunda umwanya, niba atari mugihe, vuga oya. Ibi ni ukuri cyane kubakobwa. Niba umuhungu yarababajwe nawe "Oya" yawe - ntabwo ari we nyirabayazana w'ibyiyumvo bye. Niba akangisha guhagarika "kuba inshuti" nyuma yo kwanga (cyangwa akangisha ikindi kintu) ni ugukarandika, kandi gusebanya ntibishoboka. Kandi nta mutekano.
5. "Oya" irashobora kwerekeza muri rusange mu mibonano mpuzabitsina no gutandukanya abigana imibonano mpuzabitsina.
6. Byaba byiza, igitsina gusa kumutwe mwiza. Umuntu uyobowe ninzoga ari mubihe byahindutse byubwenge, ntakibazo cyo kubyemezo bifatika kandi byumvikane neza bishobora kugenda. Umukobwa yanyweye - ntukoreho. Nanyweye - vuga oya. Yinyoye - ntukomeze. Inkoni z'umukobwa wasinze - vuga oya.
7. Imibonano mpuzabitsina gusa muburyo busanzwe - hamwe namaboko meza n'imigi yimibonano mpuzabitsina munzu isukuye kumabati meza.
Urashaka cyangwa oya, Abangavu bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina. Kandi ibyiza ni imyifatire yawe yumvikana kuri ibi. Nkaho kuvugurura bisanzwe ububiko bwudukingirizo-burebure mumufuka cyangwa igikapu mumwana tukaganira kumategeko asobanutse kandi yumvikana yimyitwarire yimibonano mpuzabitsina.
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