Umufotozi Gabriela erman mu myaka itanu ishize, amashusho ya Shorats yababyeyi babo ababyeyi, bombi cyangwa bonyine, bonyine, bonyine, batanga icyitegererezo cyabo. Asigura ati: "Mama ni lesbiyani. "Ariko nari nkeneye umwanya munini wo kubivuga mu ijwi riranguruye." Kuri Erman, inzira yo kumenya nyina yari "igihe kibabaza kandi kitoroshye."
Ntiyari amenyereye undi muntu wese wazanywe nabahuje igitsina cyangwa lesbiyani. Agira ati: "Ingingo yari irari ya kiratu ndetse no mu muryango wacu udasanzwe kandi uhungabana." "Ibitonyanga bito byahuye n'ibyiyumvo nk'ibyo, ariko twirinze ikiganiro gifatika." Amaherezo, Erman yavuganye na Colage, umuryango w'abana b'Abanyasinye y'Abanyedahuka n'abahuje igitsina, kandi usanga abantu baho, ubwato bwayo bwari bwo bwo guceceka no kwitandukanya, kurengera icyubahiro cy'ababyeyi mu bibuga. Amafoto n'ibiganiro byatanzwe muri ERSMAN Erman "Aba bana" bagerageza kwica guceceka. Abana b'ababyeyi ba "icyerekezo kidasanzwe" ntabwo ari "hypothetical", ni ukuri, kandi nibisanzwe.Ibyiringiro, Roza i New York mu muryango wa ba se babiri
Nashoboye kubona imiryango y'incuti zanjye na nyirarume na nyirarume, kandi nari nzi ko abantu bafite ikintu cyitwa Mama, ariko sinigeze ntekereza cyane. Nashimishijwe n'umuryango wanjye kavukire, cyane cyane mama, ariko, nita ku buryo nakuze, sinumva ko nababaye. Ntekereza ko ababyeyi banjye bakoze umurimo utangaje, bakura umugore ukomeye kuri njye, naho kubibazo, aho naturutse - rimwe na rimwe ndacyashishikazwa, kandi ikindi gihe ni ubwoko buba udafite akamaro.
Allison, gukura muri connecticut na vermont hamwe na mama na mugenzi wacyo
Nkimara kubona ko ubucuti bwibihero nuburyarya bushoboka mumashuri yanjye nshya, njye gusa ... byari bitangaje, kugirango tumenye ko hari abandi bana banjye ... kugirango babone ko bashyigikira LGBT. Ntabwo ninjye wenyine wari uzi Lesbiyani nabahuje ibitsina, kandi ntabwo byari bikiri ibanga ryijimye, rigomba kubikwa.
Kerry, yazanye muri Mama wa New Jersey na Mama, wamenye icyerekezo cye mugihe umukobwa afite 11
Ndibuka ikiganiro na mama igihe yavugaga, nkuko nshaka kurema umuryango nundi mugore. Igihe nari muto cyane, nashakaga kurongora n'umukobwa mwiza, navuze gutya: "Yoo, tutwa twe na Sara?" Na we: "Oya, ntabwo umeze nkawe Sara."
Zack, Rose i New York ayobowe na ba nyina babiri
Mu muryango wanjye, bose barakira. Nagize ibibazo byinshi cyane kuburyo mama arimbi kuruta kugirango usange kandi, urabizi, hamwe n'amoko nubwenegihugu.
Ibumoso: Paloma, yakuze muri Newton, Massachusetts, mu muryango wo kuri se na nyina, bamenye icyerekezo iyo Paloma yari afite imyaka 13
Iburyo: Aroni, muri Berkeley, muri Californiya, yakuze afite mama babiri, nyuma yo gutandukana kwabo, na yo na papa
Aroni: Mama yanjye yarahunze igihe nari mfite imyaka irindwi, kuko umubyeyi wanjye wabayeho akundana numugabo. Nari nzi ko umuryango wanjye utandukanye nabandi, ariko ntabwo byari itandukaniro ribi, byari ubwoko bwihariye bwumuryango.
Zach, Yakuriye muri Iowa muri Mama babiri
Ntekereza ko umuryango wanjye wasobanuwe neza ntabwo ari LGBT, ariko nkumuryango. Nureba uwaba mama, cyangwa umuryango wanjye wose, noneho uzamenye ko mpamagaye mama wanjye Lesbian ntarenze abafana ba pasika cyangwa abakozi bashinzwe ubuzima. Ibi bisobanuro byose bya bagenzi banjye ni ukuri.
Jamie, yakuze i Chicago hamwe na nyina n'abafatanyabikorwa bayo
Mama n'abafatanyabikorwa be bararezwe, kandi benshi mu bafatanyabikorwa be n'abakobwa bakobwa gusa bari mu buzima bwanjye, ko numva ndi nk'aho nantaye abagore benshi.
Mariko, yakuriye muri Pennsylvania hamwe na Mama na Data, wamenye icyerekezo cye mugihe Mariko Yize muri College
Data arahuje igitsina. Mubyukuri, biracyari muburyo bwo kumenya ibi. Nkunda gutekereza ko data yari gay kuva kera. Nahoraga nzi ko ndi Quir, kandi ifasha. Kuva akiri muto nabonye ko data ahisha igitsina cye nkuko nanjye, bisa nkaho bigerageza kutambuka amaguru kandi ntugashinge ibiganiro.
Elizabeth yakuze i Boston hamwe na Mama na Data, bamenye ko kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina iyo yize muri kaminuza
Yavuze ati: "Igihe igihe kirageze ngo duhure imbona nkubone," ndabaza nti: "Namwe murabaza uti:" Narahuje igitsina? ", Maze aravuga ati:" Nibyo, ntabwo nari mfite uburambe nk'ubwo kugira ngo tumenye neza. " Kandi, birasa nkaho amagambo akurikira, natangiye, ni: "Papa, nzi neza ko nzi neza ko mu gayuhuke."
Yohana, yabaga mu Bwongereza bushya na Mama no kwicaranye na papa, wamenye icyerekezo cye igihe Yohana yari ananiwe, kandi umufasha wa se
Ubwa mbere ubwo bavuganari n'iyi ngingo, igihe mama yaguze iki gitabo, "ubana na papa hamwe."
Ibumoso: Moshe, Roza muri New York hamwe na Mama abiri
Iburyo: Louren, yakuze i Kansas, muri Missouri, hamwe na Mama na Data, bamenye ko kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina igihe yari afite imyaka 7
Moshe : Mama yanjye yamye hafi cyane, ariko, byanze bikunze, hari icyiciro nk'iki cyagatijwe mu bwangavu, iyo nanze mama. Ubu ari uwanjye - inkunga nyayo, burigihe hafi. Ndamukunda.
Lauren : Kuri njye, shimangira cyane ni uko ababyeyi banjye barezwe kuruta kuba data ari abaryamana bahuje ibitsina. Ntekereza ko ari byiza ku mwana wanjye, akura hamwe na bagore babiri kandi ntazi ko hari ikintu kidasanzwe kuri cyo. Data ntarushaho kuba mukuru kuruta mugenzi we, umuhungu akura haba, kandi angana rwose mubuzima bwe nka ba sogokuruza.
Vanessa, yakuriye muri Virginie hamwe na nyina na papa, bamenye ko kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina igihe yari afite imyaka 28
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Kuri twe na mushiki we, ibyiyumvo ntibyari bishimishije ku buryo twaryamye igihe kirekire kuruta icyerekezo cya Data.
Darnel, Yazanywe muri Manlo Park, California, Mama na Data
Ndashobora kuvuga ko nabayeho uzengurutswe na lesbiya igihe cyose kandi kuri njye byari bisanzwe rwose. Mfite ububiko budasobanutse, nkuko numva umuziki kuri radio hanyuma nkamenya gitunguranye ko umuhanzi asa nkaho aririmba kuri bimwe mubitsina bimwe.
Mccen, yabaga mu kiyaga cy'impeshyi, Michigan, mu muryango wa Mama ebyiri
Abantu bazahora bambaza bati: "Niki? Bisa bite? ", Kandi meze, neza, ni abantu bamwe gusa. Ntabwo bafite ibendera cyangwa ibendera ryimvura murugo. Twebwe kuri iyo myumvire.
Diana, yakuriye muri Osining, New York, hamwe na Mama na Papa, bamenye ko kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina igihe yize muri kaminuza
Papa avuga ko niba nanjye ubwanjye ntimumaze ikiganiro, yaba abazima banjye bwose, yihisha icyerekezo. Birasa nkaho yatekerezaga ko atazigera abwira umuntu.
Lucas, yazanywe i Qubyesville, Floride, yatandukanije se na nyina, bamenye icyerekezo cye afite imyaka 15
Kuba mama ari umutware wa lesbiyani, nahoraga noroheye, kuko narezwe cyane ku buryo nafashe abantu bose. Ntibyari bisanzwe, ariko ntabwo ari amabati. Niba ibintu byari bibi kuri mama, niba lesbiyani yari arushijeho kuba kure cyane, ndatekereza ko natwitaye cyane ku rugamba rw'uburenganzira bwe.
Karen, yakuriye muri Oregon yepfo hamwe na se na nyina, bamenye icyerekezo igihe Karen yari afite imyaka makumyabiri
Uburambe bwubuzima muri New York byanteye kubakira. Byanyoroheye kubiganiraho. Aho nakuriye, ntamuntu wavuze kuri ibyo. Ariko hano hafi ya bose, uwo namenyanye, abaryamana bahuje ibitsina kandi bose bavugaho kandi byose birakomeye.
Inkomoko: Theatlantic.com.