Umukunzi wacu, Ana majyaruguru, yasangiye natwe ibitekerezo byayo kuburenganzira nubwisanzure bwababyeyi, kimwe nubunararibonye bwo gusohoka (cyangwa ahubwo, kutagwa) mubucakara bwabahungu.
- Nibyiza, byose, umudendezo wawe warangiye. Guhera ubu, nturi uw'awe, - wambwiye ko unyuzwe na bene wabo (cyane cyane abavandimwe), igihe nari ntwite umuhungu wanjye.- Noneho ubuzima bwawe bwose buzaba porogaramu mubuzima bwumwana wawe. Mama wa Bene - Gukorera, Kwanga wenyine. Ibyo ari byo byose, guhatirwa imyaka itari mike kubyerekeye ibyifuzo byawe. Barakomeje byose ku mwana, barakomeje. Yongeraho. - Abana ni umunezero.
- Abana ni ubucakara, "bafitanye umuturanyi, umuturanyi, wananiwe na nyina w'abahungu babiri b'abanyeshuri.
Nizeraga rwihishwa ko nzagira ikiremwa gifatika, kandi hamwe no kubaho neza birashobora kumvikana. Nubwo ari ikiremwa gito. Sinifuzaga imbata. Ntawe. N'umuhungu wawe bwite.
Nta bunararibonye bukomeye mubana bange, mfite umuhungu umwe gusa. Ariko nabikoze bisa nkaho ntaba imbata cyangwa ngo mumugire imbata.
Mama Yambere-Icyifuzo
Abana bose baratandukanye (nka Mams), ariko buri mwana arabizi vuba, aho a Magic Mama ahamagara buto. Nibyiza, mbega umubyeyi utagira umutima atagomba kongera kwitwara kuri buri skeak, gutaka, gusaba ijambo nibisabwa umwana, biga byose! Mubyukuri, biragoye cyane kwihagarika wenyine. Ariko rimwe na rimwe birakenewe.
Birakwiye gutangaza cyane cyane kurenza iyindi, ijwi - hamwe nijisho rya nyina riteye ubwoba rigaragara hejuru? Nyizera - azabyibuka vuba, abana byibuka byoroshye. Kandi gukoresha bidafite akamaro. Bamwe bashoboye gukoresha ibi kugirango bazenguruke. Ntabwo kuri mama - wenyine. Noneho, gerageza kuba hafi, kugenzura ibintu byose, ariko ntugafate umwana amasaha makumyabiri nane kumunsi. Reka yumve ko algorithm - Nahamagaye - kandi mama yahise agaragara imbere yanjye, ategereje amabwiriza - ntabwo buri gihe akora mugihe urenga amezi atandatu.
Umutwe Wange
Oya, ntituzakina umupira nonaha, kubera ijoro, kandi ibikombe birarwana. Ariko turashobora gukuramo umupira. Kandi yongeye gushushanya, na none. Noneho umupira uzakura amatwi manini, amaguru akomeye nigituba - kandi bizabona inzovu. Oya, ntabwo nzakugura iki gikinisho, kuko usanzwe ufite hafi, ariko ntamafaranga mfite. Oya, sinshobora gukina nawe mucyumba, ariko urashobora gukora ikirayi mu gikoni, aho ndimo gutegura ifunguro rya sasita.Ntibishoboka, ntabwo ari ngombwa, kandi ntibishoboka ahora kwemeranya numwana. Ariko buri wakwaga arashobora guhindurwa interuro. Noneho umwana azumva ko Karnivali yose ya Karnivali, ariko iyi injangwe ikunda kandi yiteguye gushyikirana na we. Ntiwibagirwe ko umwana akura, kandi byihuse. Kandi iyi ni yo muganiraho amahugurwa, kandi mumyaka mike uzakenera kuganira kumafaranga yumufuka cyangwa parashute asimbuka. Niba kandi wahoraga wemera umupira, no muri gari ya moshi, no ku gikinisho gishya, hanyuma mu buryo butunguranye baravuga bati "oya", umwana ntazakumva.
Ireba mu mufuka - no mu muka we. Ni ukuvuga, Mama
Iyo umwana avutse gusa, wowe kuri we - isi yose. N'isi yose niwowe. Ariko, ndabutse, umwana arakura. Kandi isi ye iragenda. Ntugerageze gufata isi ye yose. Agomba kugira imfuruka ye, umwanya we aho utajega. Kandi hariho fantasy ye, imikino ye, amahirwe yo gutsindwa no gutsindwa (yego, no gutsinda!)
Iyi ni trite, ariko umwana ntazakura, niba umwanya wisi ye ukoreshwa na yakunzwe, witaho, umubyeyi uteka, niba ahora atuye munsi yijwi rye, niba ahora atuye munsi yijwi rye, niba ahora atuye munsi yijwi rye, niba ahora aba aherekeje ijwi rye, niba ahora aba aherekeje ijwi rye, niba ahora akurikiza yijwi rye, niba ahora atuye munsi yijwi rye, niba ahora aba aherekeje ijwi rye, niba ahora akurikiza yijwi rye, niba ahora atuye munsi yijwi rye, niba ahora aba aherekeje ijwi rye, niba ahora aba aherekeje ijwi rye, niba ahora akurikiza yijwi rye, niba ahora atuye munsi yijwi rye, niba ahora aba aherekeje ijwi rye, niba ahora atuye munsi yijwi rye, niba ahora akurikiza yijwi rye, niba ahora atura munsi yijwi rye, niba ahora aba aherekeza. Abongereza bavuga ko abana bagomba kugaragara, ariko ntibabyumva. Ababyeyi rimwe na rimwe ntibagomba kumvikana. Kandi rimwe na rimwe ntabwo bigaragara. Ba imana nto, abantu bose babizi, ariko bake barabonye. Kugenzura intera. Bitabaye ibyo, urashobora kubona ifoto narebye hamwe nimwe mu nshuti yanjye. Umuhungu we w'imyaka itatu yakinnye mu cyumba kimwe twari kumwe na we. Kandi igihe kimwe, adahinduye umutwe, arambura ukuboko abwira ijwi risanzwe - imashini yubururu! Nyina yarasimbutse ashyira imashini yandika mu ntoki! Nyuma gato, yabwiye ijwi rimwe - ibinyobwa! Azana ikirahure cy'umutobe. Kandi ntiyari yarahindutse. Kandi ntashimira.
Agace k'Inshingano - Zoney
Ndetse n'umwana arashobora kuba inshingano. Byoroshye cyane. Kurugero, gukusanya ibikinisho byawe. Ukuboza, niko ibintu bigomba kugaragaraho ashinzwe kuri we. Kandi aho we ubwe afata icyemezo. Agomba kugira imbaraga nke, ariko imbaraga.
Ntamuntu ukunda gutanga imbaraga. Kandi umwana ntari munsi ya byose. Afite kandi bike cyane (neza, usibye imbaraga kumutima wawe nubwenge bwawe, kandi muri rusange, ubuzima bwose). Niyo mpamvu rero imirimo, idasanzwe irahagije, ituma umuntu yishyira hasi. Kandi nawe icyarimwe.
Ibanga ry'abakuru
Ariko ibanga ryingenzi ryuburere ni uko nabaye kare cyane gusoma umuhungu wanjye. Imyaka itatu. Imana ishimwe, yakunze uyu mwuga. Kandi kuri ubwo burere bwanjye, muri rusange, byarangiye, kandi nari mfite igihe kinini cyubusa, natanze kandi ahanini. Umuhungu yagerageje kugerageza kunsunikira. Gusa igihe cyose cyasabye ibitabo bishya. Ariko ntakibazo cyibi.
Hanyuma akura.