Ubuhemu bwumugabo we nikintu kibi gishobora kubaho mubuzima bwa buri mugore. Iyi ntambwe Ejo niko umuntu aganisha ku gutandukana no kurimbura burundu. Byasa nkaho ari ubuhemu - inanga rya nyuma mubucuti, kandi ntizishobora gukomeza. Imipaka yo kwizerana, urukundo, umubano ni ugusenya kandi haza igihe cyo gutangira ubuzima bushya.
Ariko, birashimishije, mugihe cacu, bimaze kuba karemano, ubu buzima bushya nyuma yububabare bwose nibibabaje, gutongana, no guterana kwabashakanye byose ni umuntu umwe. N'imibare ivuga ko abagore batangiye kubabarira ubugambanyi burenga 20, 10 ishize. Kuki ibi bibaho, buri mugore afite igisubizo cye, ariko ikintu cyingenzi ni ... uburyo abagore bashyikirizwa ibyabaye kandi ntibasubiza kimwe.
Reka tugaragare ...
Ubuhemu, abahagarariye igice gikomeye cyabaturage bijyanye nabagore babo batekereza ko ubuswa. Abagore Iki gikorwa kibonwa mumarangamutima cyane, kuki reaction ahora iherekejwe n'induru, hysterics n'amarira. Kubagore bafite imyaka iyo ari yo yose, ubuhemu ni ubuhemu bwakoze umuntu wa hafi kandi kavukire. Kubwibyo, umujinya n'inzika bigaragara, bihakanye umugore. Kandi ni bo, hamwe n'ubwenge bwose bw'umugore n'ubushishozi, ube mu mutima kuruta ibindi byiyumvo n'amarangamutima.
Kugaruka ku mugabo we ndetse no kubyara abana ntabwo buri gihe bahanze kuvumbura ibyiyumvo nkibi byiyumvo byashoboye bigorana numugabo. Kandi nibyo, abagore barashobora guhambwa iteka, gusa. Ahari ubu ntabwo aribwo buryo bwiza bwo kubyutsa umuryango, ariko rimwe na rimwe ni ubuhemu bw'umugore bwo kwihorera bugufasha gusubiza urukundo rukonje mumuryango.
Kwihorera k'abagore biteye ubwoba
Iki kintu kigenda kiboneka mubuzima bwa none. MStim abantu mubisanzwe basubiza amagambo cyangwa ibikorwa byose. Urugero rwiza rwo kwihorera ni igisubizo kuri ubuhemu bwumugabo. Mu bihe nk'ibi ko kwihorera bigaragarira mubwiza bwayo bwose. Umugore, ubabaza, uhindukirira umunyamayeri, kubara uwo duhanganye kumugabo wishyira igitego - kumuzanira ububabare bwumwuka. Kandi, ntakintu kibi kirenze iyo maryoshye kandi gishimishije ndetse n'umujura, ubu ari igituba.
Kugirango umugore ahitemo intambwe nkiyi hanyuma utangire kwihorera, ukeneye umugabo rimwe gukora ikosa rikomeye.
Umukunzi nkintwaro yo kwihorera
"Cyangwa birashoboka ko mbona umukunzi?", "Abagore bakunze gutekereza ku rwego rw'umugabo we. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bemeza ko ubuhemu bw'umugore bushobora kugirira akamaro umugore ubwayo mugihe
- Bizasubiza umugore gukunda ubwabyo no kubaha;
- Yibwira ubuhemu nk'igitsina kidashoboka;
- Umugore asobanukiwe ko ubuhemu nkibi ari kwihorera gusa, kandi ntabwo bitegura gutangiza umubano wurukundo.
Niba ibintu bitandukanye, noneho umubano nk'uwo uzakomeza igihe gito. Niba wemera imibare, noneho abagabo basubiramo ubuhemu, bamenye kwihorera k'umugore we, n'abagore bihorera cyangwa batinze cyangwa batinze muri ubu buryo, ariko bazajya mu mukundwa.
Niko bikwiye kubabarira no kugaruka? N'ubundi kandi, birahagije gutekereza gusa mugihe gito ko buri munsi uzabona umuntu wagukomeretse, umutegure amasahani ukunda hamwe nishati yinkoni yaka, yibuka urwo rubanza rwica. Ntabwo buri wese azihanganira ibizamini nkibi.
Kandi wibuke: Abagabo ntibababarira guhemukira!
Kuri bo, gusa igitekerezo cyuko umugore wabo ashobora byibuze hypothetically abahemukira - yamaze guhungabana. Kandi rero, ubugambanyi bwabagore kenshi kuruta abagabo kurangiza hamwe no gutandukana na couple. Nyuma ya byose, kwihorera no guhemukira hamwe nababuranyi bose basenya ibintu byo gushyingirwa.
Kubwibyo, mbere yo gukora intambwe iganisha, ugomba gutekereza neza, waba ukwiye gushishikarira no gutukana, ushyira ejo hazaza h'umuryango wawe ku ikarita.
R.S. Kandi nyamara ... Wahinduye umugabo wanjye? Ntabwo bikwiye. Nturi wenyine. Kandi na Hollywood ubwiza ntibushobora kwishingira ko bategetse abagabo bakundaga nabakunzi.