Hanyuma, umubano wawe na mukundwa wahinduye kuri stage "ibintu byose birakomeye," kandi birashoboka ko wigeze kumva urugendo rwa Mendelssohn. Ntabwo kure y'imisozi izira ababyeyi, nyirabukwejo hazaza, cyane cyane. Iyi nama ni imbere yawe kandi ntiguha amahoro? Cyangwa uratuje, usuzume wizeye ko "atari abavandimwe bashakanye no gusohoka"?
Ikintu nyamukuru ntabwo ari ugukora imyumvire yambere kandi nyuma, kuko nyuma, nkuko imyitozo ikaba, biragoye cyane gukosora stereotype yashinzwe, biragoye cyane.
Rero, hari ibinezeza bimwe bishobora kukwereka mubibi.
Uragerageza gukinira ubuzima runaka kuri wewe kugirango utsinde ubuyobozi
Muyandi magambo, ntabwo uri wowe. Nkumbuye nkubwira ko nyina akunda guteka kandi akibaha ba nyirubwite. Uzahita ujugunya umutsima ujya mu mashyiga hanyuma ukoreshe imyumvire igoye cyane y'ibikoni bitandukanye. Mubyukuri, ntukunda rwose guteka, kugura ibicuruzwa byarangiye kandi uhitemo gutumiza pizza murugo. Ariko ni byiza gufatanya muri keke kugirango ugaragaze ko uzamubyeyi uzaza ko uri igicucu cyiza kandi gishimishije.
Abantu bose kurwego rwintara bumva ari ibinyoma, kandi niba mama ari umutware, mubyukuri, uzakuzana amazi meza mumishinga y'amategeko abiri. Birumvikana ko bidakwiriye kuva ku rubingo "gabanya ukuri - utanga ukuri" kubyerekeye amakosa yawe, ariko nanone guca, kwitirirwa impano z'ibitekerezo, ntibikwiye. Nibyiza gushimangira imbaraga zawe rwose, birashoboka, hariho. Niba uguze cake yakozwe kumeza, ntakintu kibi kizabera.
Ntugaragaze ibitekerezo cyangwa icyubahiro nyirabukwe.
Ntabwo ushishikajwe n'insanganyamatsiko yo kororera chinchillas, kandi ntubihishe. Muri umuntu ugororotse, ufunguye, vuga icyo utekereza ko udakunda, reka atavugane.
Uzagomba kwivuza gato. Umuntu wese akeneye kumenya akamaro ke, ko wubaha umuntu we. Erekana akamenyero gato. Ubuyobozi no kuba inyangamugayo ni byiza, ariko mubipimo byumvikana. Ntakintu kibi kitazabaho uramutse ushizemo ibibazo bibiri ibibazo bibiri byikugeraho kugirango ukunda ukunda. Bizerekana ko utitaye kuri we. Nkuburyo gakondo, nyamuneka kandi ugaragare nacyo hejuru yamafoto yumuntu wawe ukunda mumyaka yoroheje. Kuri iyi ngingo, birashoboka ko uzagira icyo uvuga kumukunzi wawe.
Wibagiwe gushimira nyirabukwe ufite amatariki y'ingenzi
Ntabwo ari ikimenyetso cyiza cyane, mu buryo bwikora kigabanya amanota yawe. Amavuko, amatariki ya kalendari atukura, amatariki afite ireme, byumwihariko, kubwabayobozi b'ejo hazaza - ntabwo utanga agaciro. Birashoboka ko kuri nyina mukundwa, ishyirwa mu bikorwa ryimihango imwe n'imwe ikomeye. Niba uzi ko nyirabukwe mubihe byashize yari umwarimu, na n'ubu azaba yumvikana kugira ngo amwishimire ibiruhuko by'Umwuga. Azifata ibyo wibuka.
Andika ntabwo matariki nyamukuru gusa muri diary hamwe na marikeri itukura kandi ntiyibagirwe guhamagara "Mama wa kabiri" Ndabaramukije.
Urutonde rwicyubahiro cyawe ruzashyira umukino wongeyeho. Kandi kuba nyirabukwe bigutera "dossier" ntibishobora gusakurwa.
Winubira uwo ukunda, nk'amahitamo, Frank hamwe na we
Wabaye hafi y'abakobwa beza hamwe na nyirabukwe uzaza, basangira amabanga, genda guhaha hamwe. Kuki utitotombera umuhungu we? Ntabwo bizimya muburyo bwihariye, ariko kubwamahirwe. Wibuke, ibibazo byose byumwana we ni kirazira. Kuguhariza ku zuru, umutima w'abana wapfa gapfapfa ushishikarira kunegura abana bawe. Uku nuburyo yazuye umuhungu utagira inenge, utunganye. Niba witotomba cyangwa kuvuga ijwi, uzahita winjira mubyiciro byabanzi.Ntagushinyagurira no gusohora "Vladik, mu nda," n'ibindi biri kurutonde. Nyirabukwe uzibuka ibi kandi wibuke ku rubanza rwiza. Cyangwa birashoboka ko utekereza gusa ko uri inshuti, kandi bakusanya kutwumvikanyeho. Ihitamo ryakunze kuboneka cyane iyo nyina w'Abakundana k'umuntu wakundaga umugabo we, kandi akunda "komeza abanzi hafi kuruta inshuti."
Urashaka ko ukunda, wize kuri urwenya rwawe cyangwa umubare wabafana?
Nibyiza kuzirikana ururimi inyuma y amenyo ubaza nyirabukwe, muburyo bwose utera inkunga, urareba, azaguha ibintu bishimishije.
Uragerageza kugerageza gushimisha, mubyukuri "Kuruhu" urazamuka "
Nyizera, imyitwarire nkiyi iragaragara kubantu bose hirya no hino. Uriteguye gusubika inama yubucuruzi kugirango ufate ibyemezo byawe bivugwa ko uri nyirabukwe mu iduka, uwambere yajugunywe mu guhobera, niba nyina agaragaye muri uru rubanza. Kuruhuka amaherezo. Birakenewe ubufasha, ariko niba bidateye imbere inyungu zawe.
Niba witeguye kuba umukobwa ku mpande, kubaha nyirabukwe kuri wewe urashobora kwibagirwa. Nuwuhe mubyeyi ushaka kubona iruhande rw'umuhungu we, umugore mu muriro utagira umuriro kandi woroshye-indabyo? Ahari umuntu azakunda igipupe kizima, ariko umunezero kuri wewe mu mibanire na nyirabukwe ntuzazana. Tuzahora dufatwa nabantu bakomeye, badahwema kuvuga ko, mubyukuri imico yubaha, nubwo umuntu atemera kubyina umuziki wibintu byacu.
Muri rusange, ingingo y'i Rigeon na nyirabukwe ihangayikishijwe n'imyumvire myinshi mumyaka myinshi. Iyo ikibazo kiza mubucuti hagati yabagore babiri, gake ushobora kumva inkuru zishimishije. Ugomba kwigaburira nyirabukwe kubyerekeye uwo uriwe. Imyitozo ntoya yamakuru yabo yemerewe, umukungugu muto wumukungugu mumaso, ariko siko. Niba nyirabukwe uzi ubwenge n'umugore wihagije, azagushimira neza, akakumenyesha uburenganzira bwose.
Niba udafite amahirwe, ntugomba kurakara, kuko umukunzi wawe yagukunze neza, kandi nyirabukwe ni, inyongerewe gusa, ariko ntabwo yikunda umugabo we.