Iyo abantu babiri, imitima ibiri yuje urukundo, bahitamo kwinjiza umubano na Uzami ya Uza, gake bamwe mubashakanye barashobora gutekereza kubuzima bwumuryango. Birasa nkaho umubano mwiza wurukundo uzahoraho. Ariko naranyosheje Mendelssohn, urugendo rwubukwe rwegereye imperuka. Abashakanye bandika ibintu bishimishije kandi bitangaje, bitwa gushyingirwa.
Niba ushaka ko umubano wawe wageragejwe numuriro n'amazi, ubuzima busanzwe bwa buri munsi, ugomba gutegura inyuma kuri iyo mitego ishobora gusenya ishyingiranwa ryanyu cyangwa ngo ubuzima budashobora kutihanganirwa. Ntuzongere kugenzura ishyingiranwa ryawe imbaraga. Yoo, nkuko imyitozo irerekana, ntabwo abantu bose bashobora guhangana nubuzima bwumuryango. Reka dukemure amakosa asanzwe.
Umubare w'amakosa 1. Niba wifuza ko ishyingiranwa ryanyu ritandukana, ntuzigera uganira mubuzima bwumuryango wawe hamwe na Haweri.
Kuki guta umwanya muganira kubibazo birambiranye. N'ubundi kandi, ibintu byose bizaba nkuko ubihisemo. Byongeye kandi, ufite telepathic ikomeye numugabo wawe uzaza, kandi ibitekerezo byawe bihuye na 99, 9%.
Kubwibyo, birashoboka ko utazatungurwa mugihe umenyesha umugabo mushya gahunda zawe zo kujya kukazi, kandi ukaba usubiza umwumve umukayi umugore we agomba kwicara murugo, atanga ubuzima no kubyara abana. Kandi akazi nubucuruzi bwigitsina gabo. Cyangwa ntuzababaza igitekerezo cy'uko ubukwe uzagomba kubaho imyaka 10 kuri nyina, nyirabukwe. N'ubundi kandi, umugabo akubona umuntu ufatika.
Kubwibyo, niba udashaka gukonja no gutukwa, uhereye kuri urukurikirane "neza, muganire ku biti, byarangiza ibintu byose, reba kumvikana, kugirango utagwa.
IBITAMO RYANZA 2. Ntabwo ufite ubutwari buhagije bwo kuganira kubyerekeye imari. Ntushaka gusa nkaho ari umukene kandi urinda bidasanzwe.
Imiryango ingahe irahira buri munsi kandi yisaha kubera amafaranga, kuko yasanze gusa gukemura iki kibazo ako kanya. Hitamo mu nsanganyamatsiko ebyiri ako kanya no gushiraho amafaranga buri wese muri mwe azahabwa intego rusange, ni bangahe kugirango ukoreshe imyidagaduro nibindi.
Inomero ya mbere 3. Uwo mwashakanye ntabwo ari umuntu utunganye, bityo nyuma yo gushyingiranwa ugomba gusa kubikora, bimaze igihe kinini bicaye mumutwe wawe.
Mubujyakuzimu bwubugingo, utekereza ko wabuze gutungana. Parufe kukurusha, birashoboka, ntizibaho. Ahari nyoko gusa, kuko namurega igitangaza nkiki. Ariko umugabo wawe aracyakurira kuri wewe. Kubara ubwawe ko abantu badahinduka kandi baruhuka. Gusubiramo umuntu ntabwo byumvikana, birumvikana kubyemera hamwe nibibi. Nibyo, biratondagura mu nzozi, ntuzigere uhindura umuyoboro uva amenyo, kandi ntushobora kubona isogisi ya kabiri atabifashijwemo. Wakundanye nuyu muntu, ngwino urweme hamwe namakosa yayo, uzigame imitsi yimpande ebyiri.
Ntunemere, ariko witonze. Rimwe na rimwe, ijwi ry'ibisobanuro ku muntu ni ituka, guterana gukora ibinyuranye n'ibinyuranye.
Wibagirwe kuvuga ko "amazi akarishye." Umubano wawe rwose uzahinduka icyuma gikaze.
Wibagirwe amagambo atwara scandeal ingwate "wowe ..." na "Ntuzigera ..."
Ahari umugabo azagerageza gukosora ibibi. Ntabwo ibintu byose bizaba bitunganye, ariko ingofero yo muri paste izaba ihari.
Ikosa nimero 4. Niba ushaka gusenyuka hamwe nababyeyi bawe nabandi bantu, babana. Ntugapfushe ubusa amafaranga nigihe cyo gushakisha amazu kugiti cye.
Benshi muri twe, icyaha cyo guhisha, kubona ibyiza byinshi muburyo bukomeza kubana nababyeyi. Kurugero, kuzigama. Ku kwishyura byingirakamaro, ibiryo. Ntibikenewe guha amafaranga yawe nyirarume cyangwa nyirasenge. Nibyiza kujya mu nyanja kugura inkweto nshya cyangwa zimwe. Wibuke, ubuzima buhuriweho hamwe nababyeyi burambye bugenda bukomera umubano wubukwe.
Hafi. Gusohoka rero. Shakisha amahitamo kugiti cye. Bihenze, kure, ntabwo ari amafaranga ahagije? Niba ufite ikibazo rero, hanyuma utekereze kumpamvu winjiye mubufatanye, niba wowe ubwawe wasize kurwego rwabana badashoboye gutanga amazu, ndetse babanza gukurwaho.
Ikosa nimero 5. Ntabwo ukunda nyina kandi ntubihishe. Iyi nyito yangiza irakwiziritseho igihe cyose, cyarababaje, ariko, ni ngombwa gushimangira.
Ingingo ya nyirabukwe n'umukazana ni ndende cyane. Birahagije kwibuka ko bidakenewe kwihatira gukunda nyirabukwe. Ubuswa abo bagabo bashinja abagore kubura urukundo bakunda nyina. Wubahe nyirabukwe azagomba. Cyangwa kurema bigaragara ko wubaha. Mwaramutse nshuti, shimira mu biruhuko. Byibuze.
Itegeko rya Zahabu: Ntuzigere utuka nyina w'umugabo wawe, ntukambure iyi ngingo. Nubwo umugabo wawe ubwe abivuga ubwayo, nubwo ishishikariza ibiganiro nkibi, irinde amaboko yawe. Impamvu iroroshye. Azabyibuka, kandi hamwe no gutongana bimwe birakwibutse kugirango wumve icyaha. Ntureke ngo intwaro ikomeye, kuko ubukwe bwose butageragejwe kubwimbaraga mugihe nyirabukwe agaragara.
Inomero ya 6. Intego yawe ishyirwa mubikorwa. Urashyingiwe. Urashobora gusiba maquillage, shyira kuri barbell ukunda kandi ukore bundle ukunda kumutwe. Nta hantu na hamwe uwo bashakanye atagenda.
Isi izwi cyane ivuga ko abagabo "bakunda amaso" basa nkaho bahagaritswe. Kubwamahirwe, abagore benshi bararuhutse kuburyo bibagirwa iri jambo. Ntamuntu uguhamagara burimunsi kugirango wambare inkweto ndende kandi yihutire byihutirwa "ibara ryintambara". Ariko ni umuswa kugirango wemere ko isura yawe itazagerwaho. Ntazagumaho. Hanyuma gushakisha amashusho n'amashusho bishya bizatangira.
Nibyo, arashobora gutangira hanyuma mugihe uri mwiza. Gushakisha ibitekerezo bishya bishobora kubaho muburambi, uburakari, kwihorera. Impamvu zishobora kuba uhuze. Byaba ari bibi kwishinja muri byose. Ariko nibyiza kubuzwa, gukuraho iki kintu kuva kumakosa. Nkuko, abagabo ntibakeneye kuruhuka. Reba uwo mwashakanye mumyitozo ngororamubiri irangiza ubuzima bwumuryango. Witondere isura yayo.
Inomero ya mbere 7. Ufite umwana, ibitekerezo byawe bikurura ifoto: Uragaburira umwana, uzirikane ucecekere kandi ujye gukora ibintu byawe, kurugero, muguhobera uwo ukunda.
Mubyukuri, abashyingiranywe benshi ntibategereje ibizaba mumuryango wabo hamwe no kuza mukirembo gito. Umunaniro, kubura ibitotsi bidakira, nta gihe cyubusa kubintu byoroshye. Ibi byose bizabera uburakari kuburyo usunika neza. Nyamuneka menya ko umwaka wambere wubuzima hamwe no kwita ku mwana mumuryango wawe nicyo kigoye cyane. Muri iki gihe, imiryango myinshi iramanitse mumisatsi. Byasaga naho igitangaza gito kigomba guhuza umuryango wose, ku buryo abantu bose baranditse, maze muganga Kombarovsky ubwe avuga. Mubyukuri, ibintu byose biratandukanye rwose. Gerageza kurokoka uyu mwaka wambere hamwe nigihombo gito. Ibindi bizoroha.
Mubuzima bwumuryango hari amabuye menshi na mabuye ishobora kwangiza ishyingiranwa, arimbure na gato. Gushyingirwa nikintu kitoroshye. Ntazagusuzuma ku mbaraga zirenze imwe, udatinya gufata urugamba. Gusa ntabwo ari hamwe nuwo mwashakanye, ahubwo ni kumwe nanjye. Ntibikenewe guhindura umuntu, ni ngombwa kwiga guhindura ubwanjye. Niba ushaka kwiga ibi, ishyingiranwa ryanyu ntirizatera ubwoba mumazi.