Niba ufite umukobwa ukundana mubihe byiza mugihe abagabo bari ababaye kandi babunganira abaterankunga nyabo, naho abagore bakeneye kwambara gusa, ariko bakaba bazi ko bambara gusa urukundo rwabo, kumwereka iyi nyandiko.
Ku ishyaka rya Inoversu - Bonfire
Kode y'ikinyejana cya XIII yitwaga igice kirindwi, yakusanyije ku mwami wa Alfonso X umunyabwenge, yabuzaga abagore kugira ngo bahindukirwe n'abarinzi, cyane cyane hamwe n'Abayahudi n'abaturage. Ubwenge bw'umwami, uko bigaragara, byagaragaye ko igihano cyaterwaga n'umugore. Umupfakazi cyangwa umukobwa wicyaha cya mbere yambuwe igice cyumutungo. Erega uwa kabiri yatwitse (hamwe na Mauru cyangwa Umuyahudi, urubanza rugaragara). Ntakintu nakimwe cyo gukuramo icyesipanyoli cyubatse, ibintu byose bikundwa umugabo we, igihano cyahawe uwo bashakanye. Yashoboraga kumwirukana umugore we niba nashakaga. Hanyuma, indaya ya mbere bakubita ikiboko, naho ku wa kabiri, yego, baricwa.
KUBYEREKEYE hamwe nabaturanyi - Isoni na Mamania
Mu gihe cyo hagati mu Burayi, imyitwarire mibi y'abagore, yitwaga Communis Rixatrix cyangwa gusudira, yaramenyekanye. Niba umugore yarahiye cyane abaturanyi be, yakatiwe ku ntebe iteye isoni. Abantu bahise bakunda kwinezeza, kureba igihano, ku buryo umugore aboshye ku byishimo abantu bose bakururwa binyuze mu gutura. Hanyuma batangira gutera hejuru amazi basohoka inyuma. Bamwe bapfuye bazize ubwoba. Mu mategeko y'icyongereza, iki gihano cyarokowe kugeza mu 1967! Kandi bwa nyuma bwakoreshejwe mu 1817. Nibyo, ngaho icyuzi cyagaragaye gutunga, kandi umugore yagombaga kurekura. Nk'uko amahitamo, ku cyumba cyo gutungana ushobora gushyira ingofero iteye isoni - mask y'icyuma ifite gag. Gushakisha umubano nabaturanyi kubera parikingi, tekereza ku byishimo bimwe, kuvuka mugihe cacu.
Kubihemu - Guca izuru hanyuma ufate amafaranga
Guhimba igihano cyabagore kuburiganya, abantu bashize bagaragaje ibitekerezo. Mu bihugu bimwe na bimwe, barafashwe, mu bandi bamanitse. Aristocrata yashoboraga koherezwa ku kigo cy'abihaye Imana, kandi hagomba kwemerwa aho, kurugero. Hamwe na Federica II, abagore b'incuti za Sicilian baciye amazuru (ndetse no ku bantu - mu nzira, ntibatemye). Kandi ahantu hose, barimbuwe umutungo ndetse nabana bose. Niba rero byabaye hatabayeho igihano cyurupfu, noneho ubugizi bwa nabi bwakomeje kuba bibiri: ubujura cyangwa uburaya.
Kudasohoza umwenda wumuryango - Umwanzuro
Mubisanzwe, abagabo barebye inshingano zabo zo murugo imirimo yabo. Ariko niba umugore yahuye niragarutse, leta yihutiye gufasha umugabo. Urugero, muri Barcelona, mu kinyejana cya XVIILI. Hariho inzu yo gukosora kubagore babi. Yarimo amatsinda abiri y'abagore muri yo. Umwe mu bajura n'indaya birimo, ku bandi bagore, abo abashakanye batashoboraga kwigishwa mu nzira yabo. Kurugero, babwiye umudamu umwe kuva mumuryango munini, hari ukuntu wasinze kandi bidashoboka - umuryango wamutuye gukosorwa. Mu nzu ikosowe, abagore biyirije ubusa, basenga, bakora kuva mu museke izuba rirenze kandi bakorerwa ibihano bya feri.
Kutemera ubwanwa bwumuntu - gukubita inkoni
Amategeko yo hagati ya Wales yavuzwe ko umugabo yari afite uburenganzira bwo gukubita umugore we imyitwarire ye mibi y'imyitwarire itangaje: igitutsi ku bwanwa, igitutsi ku bwanwa, icyifuzo cyo kwanduza amenyo n'umutungo we. Kandi nk'uko amategeko yakubita umugore we, byashobokaga gusa inkoni yonyine n'uburebure bw'ukuboko kwe. Byafashwe kugirango dukoreshe ibihuha bitatu ahantu hose, usibye kumutwe. Ubushize kuri iki kibazo cy'amategeko rusange, umucamanza w'Ubwongereza yamwinjije mu 1782, mu nzira, hanyuma yitwa "Umucamanza w'intoki" kandi asebya ubwo yapfaga.
Kubwicanyi inzara - gufata ku ngufu ibiryo
Sulfuru y'Ubwongereza mu ntangiriro ya Xx. Guverinoma yagerageje guturika umwanzuro. Muri rusange, batewe abagore igihumbi. Abaharanira inyungu barabarwanira bafatwa nk'abagororwa basanzwe, ndetse n'imfungwa za politiki, kandi iyo babihabitse, bigaragambije amahoro - bategura inzara. Ubwa mbere, bararekuwe, hanyuma bahita bapfa. Ariko rero bahisemo kujya mubundi buryo. Abagore batangiye kugaburira imbaraga. Byari iyicarubozo nyaryo (mubyukuri, Loni ubu ni iyicarubozo kandi imenye). Iperereza ry'ibiryo ryatangijwe nk'ubutegetsi, binyuze mu zuru. Abagore barabitswe, imitwe ntiyigezeyo, yihutira kujya mu mutego wa mucous, benshi babaye umusonga cyangwa dini. Yakomeje kugeza mu 1913, igihe inteko ishinga amategeko yemeje Amategeko, yemerera kurekura uwo mugore muri gereza akanagisubiza iyo atangiye kurya. Iri tegeko ryitwa abantu "umukino mu njangwe".
Kubwurukundo rwabana be - Ifu hamwe numugabo we
Igitekerezo cy'uko abana bameze neza na nyina, amateka mashya mashya. Mbere, abantu ntibatekereje ku mibereho y'umwana, ariko bakwiriye kuba mu mutungo w'agaciro muburyo bw'umwana. Ubucuruzi busobanutse - Data! Umugore muremure cyane, nubwo umugabo ataba atari ukuvuga ko yakiriye ubutane bwo gutandukana, abana barambuwe. Mu Bwongereza, umugabo ntiyajyanye abana gusa, ahubwo yanashoboraga kubuza umugore wahoze abegera. Abagore benshi, ibyiringiro nk'ibi bibera mu rugo, nubwo umugabo yarwanye, yasinze, afata amafaranga anabirukana nyirabuja. Mu 1839 gusa, Amoko yatumye bishoboka gusiga abana bari munsi yimyaka 7, nabakuru - gusura. Kandi ko niba umugore yarabonye uruhushya rwihariye rwa Nyagasani Cancellor kandi rukagira umujinya mwiza. Umuco wo gutandukanya ababyeyi batandukanye nabana bimukiye mu mucyo mushya, kandi nabwo bagombaga gukora amategeko arengera abagore.
Kubitwita bidasanzwe - Gutandukana numwana, inzu yumusazi
Abongereza hamwe n'Abanyamerika ntabwo bari mumyaka myinshi iriho, kandi hashize imyaka igera kuri itandatu kandi hashize imyaka 70 batwite ntamagenda. Birababaje, nkaho kubwinyungu zabo bwite guhisha "isoni", zoherejwe mubitaro byihariye byo kubyara. Nta mpamvu yo kwiyumvisha ibitaro bigezweho. Muri ibyo bigo, gutwita, ku ngero za buri munsi, ingazi za buri munsi, zogeje intambara yose, zogeje amasengesho yose, barwanye amasengesho ku mavi. Niba abagore bayoboye itorero, bashoboraga kugira amagare ahendutse kugirango bashimangire. Ariko ntiwumve, bari bazi byose kandi bagaragaza urutoki: hano turi, abakobwa babi. Abana bafashwe kandi boherejwe kurerwa. Niba amahirwe. Niba atari amahirwe, umwana ashobora kurimbuka kubera ibintu bibi. Abarwayi bakennye cyane bakunze kwita ku bitaro byo kubyara igihe kirekire, kubera ko basabwaga gukora serivisi zayo zifite akamaro. Bamwe mu myaka myinshi bimukiye aho ngaho basazi mu rugo, kubera ko imitekerereze yo mu mutwe yatangajwe ko ba nyina batashyingiranywe bahanganye n'abantu bahowe bakeneye kwivuza.
Kubikorwa byabagabo - byiza
Ntibitangaje kubona abagore benshi bafite ishyari kureba abantu. Kandi ntabwo ari ku bakire cyangwa abanyacyubahiro, ahubwo no ku musunga, abasirikare cyangwa abakusanya ibikeri. Rimwe na rimwe, jane cyangwa Juliet byaje gutekereza ku gitekerezo cyo guhindura imyenda mu gitsina gabo no kwiyandikisha, urugero, mu mato. Kandi ntiwumve, byari bibujijwe. Bahannye abagore nkabo kubwimyitwarire iteje ibintu, kuburiganya, kuko kwambara imyenda yabantu. Ariko igihano cyari cyoroshye: abagore batandukanijwe nubuhane nibisabwa kwambara neza. Birashoboka cyane ko ikintu cyabakozi, abasirikare n'abasare muri bo basohotse neza. Gukora cyane, gukomera no kurangiza gukora.
Kugirango ivuka ryumwana ufite ibiranga - gutandukanya umwana, kashe ya fashiste
Kugira ngo udahitamo ko izi nkuru zose zifite umugani wa kera cyane, vuga ibirego, muri iki gihe kitaravaho burundu. Muri 50 mu kinyejana cya 20, abahanga bo mu munyabwenge b'Abanyamerika babisabye muri Authisi na Schizoféniya, ababyeyi bafite icyaha, cyane cyane ba nyina. Igitekerezo cyashyigikiwe cyane nindwara izwi cyane kandi ya charismat bruno betettemheim. Yashinze ikigo i Chicago, cyashyizwe ku bijyanye no kuvura abana turanga, kandi yasohoye igitabo cya Faliziya, yagereranije ababyeyi b'abarwayi be binjira mu kigo cyakoranyirizwagamo imfungwa. Imyaka 30 yakoraga ishuri rye. Igihe cyeramutse cyakoze mu buryo butunguranye, byaje kumenya ko ubuzima bwe budashidikanywaho, umwuga wa siyansi ntabwo wemezwa neza, icyorezo cyari gishingiye ku manza zabo bwite, kandi ikintu cy'ingenzi, ni cyo cyateye ubwoba, kandi yateye ubwoba.