Imyaka magana abiri irashize, umubyeyi mwiza yafatwaga nkurera umwana kugirango abone ubwoba bw'Imana kandi yumvire. Imyaka mirongo itanu irashize - Umwe, wagaburiwe, afite ubuzima bwiza kandi yambaye neza. Muri iki gihe, umubyeyi utunganye afatwa nkumubyeyi mwiza.
Umubyeyi mwiza niwe ufite umwana, ufite ubuzima bwiza, yambaye neza, yiga neza (akemuke kubitera gutuza no kwitwara neza kandi yizeye, ashobora gutsinda. Uyu niwe ukurikirana kandi igihe icyo ari cyo cyose ari urugwiro, wuzuye imbaraga n'ubumenyi mu bigezweho muri psychologiya na pedagogy, kandi - mu mahoro mazima, amaganya, ubwoba, uburakari, kurakara, uburakari busomwa na abana kandi bamenagura ubugingo bwabo bwubwuzu.Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze barenze induru: Abagore babarirwa muri za miriyoni babaho mu byishimo, impuruza, kuroga ku byifuzo by'ubworoherane bw'icyaha no gukorwa n'isoni kubera ko ari ba nyina babi, ntabwo ari ngombwa kuzuza ibisabwa kurutonde. Hafi yabagore gusa barimo ubugingo bwumwana butuje, ndetse no gusohoza inshingano za babyeyi, bahangayikishijwe na bike.
Amafoto.ru hamwe naba psychologue intego irashaka kugushimisha namakuru meza. Mubyukuri, uri umubyeyi mwiza. Twabimenya dute? Kandi wowe ubwawe wisuzumye kubintu byacu.
Ugaburira umwana
Nibyo, ibi nibikenewe. Kandi yego, niba ubikora, uri umubyeyi mwiza. Kuberako ababyeyi babi batagaburira abana. Kandi niba udashobora cyangwa utazi gushimisha umwana ufite ibyokurya bishya kandi byingirakamaro cyane buri munsi, ariko ubundi buryo-ibirayi-byiza-mukimwe, umaze gukora, wowe 're umubyeyi mwiza. Mama mubi ntabwo afite ibyo bitero. Tuzabikubwira. Uri umubyeyi mwiza, nubwo umwana wawe "akunze" guhagarika chip na kuki. Ntibagize indyo nyamukuru. Ntabwo ari ukuri ko karori ifatwa kumiti yica udukoko, ibyo twahawe nkigikoresho cyubwana (kandi ibyo washyize kuba intangarugero nkicyitegererezo cyukuri cyinshingano zababyeyi) zari ingirakamaro kuruta chip. Kandi nyoko imeze ite kuri aya karoti - mbi?
Wambara umwana
Niba umubyeyi atambaye umwana, ni mubi? Hano. URI ibinyuranye. Kandi urambara iki nigihe amakuru aranga urwego rwawe kurwego ruturuka kumubyeyi mwiza kugirango utunganye. Niba kandi ubu wibutse abana bababaye b'abanywi bababaye mu mico igihe kirekire bitakaraba taks ntabwo ari ubunini, ibuka icyarimwe wambaye abana nabi. Hagati ya "Naho ikinyamakuru" na "nk'umuryango utishoboye" Hariho ibyiciro byinshi bitandukaniye hagati, ndetse na kimwe muri byo, ibyo uhagaze byose, bimaze kukurira nk'umubyeyi mwiza.Wongeyeho kwa muganga mugihe
Nibyo, birashoboka ko utigeze wiruka, umwana arasohoka, cyangwa ababaza, cyangwa ngo akureho ubwoko bumwe, cyangwa ngo atwike, cyangwa amena ukuboko. Mubyukuri, ibi bibaho buri gihe ndetse nababyeyi beza cyane. Ntibishoboka kuyobora ibintu byose na gato. Ntabwo ari ngombwa gusa ingamba zo gukumira impanuka cyangwa gukumira, ariko niba ubufasha bwawe bwagize ingaruka kumwana wawe. Umubyeyi mwiza ntabwo ari we wabonye ibintu byose cyangwa wahisemo kugenzura umwana aho kuba isanzure, kugirango adahangayikishijwe akajya ateza imbere iyi si iteye ubwoba, naho itwara neza Ibibazo byavutse kandi bizirikana amakosa yabo asanzwe. Turizera, ni ibyawe.
Usaba muganga wawe
Ndetse rimwe na rimwe ntabwo ku gihe. Ariko kugerageza. Kandi niba ntagerageje, byabaye kubera ko ntari nzi ko atari interineti n'intara n'imyanda y'agaciro, bigenewe umwana, ndetse no mu binyuranye, inkunga y'umubiri we kuri Leta ko ingabo z'agaciro zitatemba mu ntsinzi kandi zihangana, kandi wowe n'umwana. Muri rusange, cyangwa ujya kwa muganga, cyangwa watangajwe kubyerekeye kwikunda kwiyamamaza, hanyuma ntabwo ari amakosa yawe, ibisubizo byawe: Ufite motifike nziza. Ababyeyi bakennye bafite intego nziza. Ntabwo ari bo.
Urimo gukorana nawe
Mbwira, ndakwinginze, nigute ushobora kwiyumvisha kwikunda kuba mama mubi, bityo imirimo yo gukora? Niki? Ntabwo ukora buri munsi, kandi rimwe mu cyumweru cyangwa munsi yimyumvire? Kandi aho, birasabwa, byanditswe ko, nta masomo ya buri munsi, abana b'imyaka itatu bahinduka ibicucu kugeza ku myaka ine? Ijoro. Kandi uzi impamvu? Ntibahinduka.Ntabwo ukorana nawe
Urabona, ubwonko bw'umwana bwateguwe kugirango ahore kwiga - neza, niba ari byiza, birumvikana ko ari byiza, kandi ntibikemuke mubihe byiza. Iya kabiri bivuze ko bidakenewe gushyira umwana mu bakene bafite ibisobanuro birambuye ku cyumba, aho ntaho afite cyo gufata, usibye imfuruka y'umusego, kandi nta kintu cyo kumva kitari cyo guhumeka. Kuva mubindi byose, azambura byinshi. Uhari mumasomo ye mubumenyi bwisi cyangwa ntabwo, ikintu cya cumi, kuvugisha ukuri, byinshi kubyerekeye kwitiranya no gutumanaho kwawe kuruta iterambere ryayo.
Uramutakambiye kandi ntuhore wishimye
Nibyiza, reka dufate umwanzuro, uravugana numwana kumabara menshi cyangwa rimwe na rimwe kuruhuka? Iya kabiri hamwe na buri kimwe birashobora kubaho utari mubinini bishimishije. Nibyiza, kandi ntakintu giteye ubwoba cyo kwiyambaza amaso yumwana birababaje, yahangayitse, arakaye, nibindi. Mubyukuri, Mama ni umuntu muzima, bivuze ko afite ibyiyumvo, ibi ni. Kandi bibiri - nimpamvu nziza yo kwereka umwana, nkuko ushobora guhangana naya marangamutima, nkuko ushobora guhangayika, nkuko ushobora guhangayika kandi, amaherezo, urashobora kubana rimwe na rimwe, utabonye ikintu ako kanya. Ikintu nyamukuru ntabwo ari uko mama yarakaye rimwe na rimwe cyangwa atariho, ariko kuba no mubihe nkibi umwana akomeza umutekano kandi ashobora kubyemeza neza.Urayirwanirira
Kurugero, kurugero, filime z'amahano, imbuga za porunogarafiya, kwifuza ku mugoroba w'impeshyi, ingaruka zimyumvire yabo mbi - muri rusange, ibyo ubona ko ari bibi ku mwana wawe. Kandi niyo waba ubikora utuje kandi witonze, kandi ntukanguruke cyane kandi urenga T-ishati ya mugitondo mu gituza, uracyafite nyina mwiza. Kurugero, kuyobora mu kaga - nanone uburyo bwo kurengera.
Uyigurira ibikinisho bya supermodic
Potikay, kwishora, kuva no kwishyura indishyi zawe bigoye hamwe na cubes ziterwa no hasi - ko utavuga mu maso! Nibyiza, uko byagenda kose, ubu ni bwo buryo bwo gutera imbere no kugeza umunezero ku mwana. Ibyo hamwe nundi kwifuza nikimenyetso cyumubyeyi mwiza. No mu bikinisho bya supermodic nka ntawe wapfa.
Ntabwo uyigurira ibikinisho bya supermodic
Oya, kugerageza, gutatana ku mutego-undi cyangwa Kavayny Hollhouse ... yewe neza, mubyukuri, ndashaka kwinezeza ndetse nibindi byinshi. Wibuke - rwose warose kuri Babibore cyangwa ubwoko runaka, ariko mugihe cyumukino hamwe nabashinwa barbie cyangwa ngo bishimishe kandi bakishima na pony.Uravuga kandi ukine
Niba ubikora cyane kandi buri gihe, urangije neza. Niba gake, uracyakozwe neza. Igisubizo kizaba inyangamugayo, hafi kimwe. Kubwa mbere, umwana yishimira gato (kumenyera cyane nyuma ya byose), ariko kenshi. Mu rubanza rwa kabiri, nta gaciro ari gake, ariko niyo mpamvu cyane kandi yibanda. Kubwa mbere, umwana akuramo indangagaciro kuko ahora yumva. Mu cya kabiri - kuko byavuzwe mu minota idasanzwe, iminota idasanzwe hanyuma isaha y'umwana arinda nkumuriro ukomeye. Hamwe na kimwe, azakira ibye, kandi uzakomeza kuba umubyeyi mwiza. Umwana yumva yambuwe iyo nyina yishyuwe cyane avugana na we kenshi, hanyuma abonye ko ashobora kumuha umwanya, ariko kuki atabishakaga.
Urabigisha gufasha inzu
Iyaba umwana udashyigikiye aho kuba mubyifuzo byumuryango mugihe uri kumwe nikirahure cya Martini mu mucyo kandi utabizi, ibi bidakoreshwa, ariko kwitegura imiryango myinshi no gutamba umuryango n'abantu bakuru. Ninde utaguye ku buzima bw'ubuzima amaze kugenda muri icumbi ryabanyeshuri? Kuri abo bahungu nabakobwa bize gukomeza ubukungu murugo. Byongeye kandi, igihe cyasohoye gikemutsa umwana wumwana, urashobora kumarana kuvugana numwana, bimwe bihuriweho "n '" ingendo "(byibuze muri parike yegeranye). Umubare munini wabana bafasha hafi yinzu kandi nta byago bidafite impungenge. Ntabwo rero uhangayitse. Byose neza.
Ntumwigisha gufasha inzu
Ahari abanebwe n'abazungu bazakura. Cyangwa birashoboka. Ibi byinshi biterwa nuko umwana yagize ikintu kizengurutse inzu akiri umwana, kandi niba yari kumwemerera gutwara azengurutse akiri mukuru. Kandi yakundanye na we kubandi kugirango bagende. Umubare munini w'abasore na cyane cyane abakobwa bize bucece gukoresha sima n'amashyiga akuze, batandukana nababyeyi. Umuntu ntabura amahirwe yo kwiga, biragoye akomanga cumi n'umunani. Bitabaye ibyo, igitekerezo cyo kubona amashuri makuru ntabwo cyabayeho.Yitwara adatunganye
Akenshi, abagore bumva ababyeyi babi ahantu hamwe iyo abantu bareba hirya no hino, kandi umwana, nkuko byitwa kwanduzwa, ni ikintu gicucu, bizatangira kwiruka hafi yububiko ... kuko imihanda ari yuzuye abantu bararira na rivkanem. Rero, induru n'umugozi bikugira umubyeyi mubi kuruta ibisanzwe ku bana benshi, bihagije kandi ubujiji n'ubujiji mu ngingo zimwe na zimwe zemewe muri rusange. Ibi ntibisobanura ko ukeneye kubana n'iki gisenyuka kugeza ku iherezo ry'ubuzima "ndi umubyeyi uteye ubwoba, natakambiye umwana mu muhanda." Ibi bivuze ko ari igihe cyo guhagarika kubikora. Kuberako uri mama mwiza. Turakwizera.