Tumaze kumenya ubuhemu bwa mukundwa, abagore bitwara ukundi. Bamwe muzingo n'ibidashoboka mu hysteries, abandi bashaka biragoye Inyuma ya mukeba, ku wa gatatu no bahitamo gucecekesha ikibazo namba, ubwoba kuguma wenyine. Muri make, abadamu benshi muburyo bwamarangamutima bahitamo umurongo utari wo. Muri iki kiganiro, tuzakubwira uburyo bidashoboka kwitekiza ubwacu, kubona urwo rukundo rufite urukundo kuruhande.
Umumaritiri
Ubwoko busanzwe busanzwe bwimyitwarire. Umugore azi ko umugabo ahindutse, byongeye, ibibera - ninde nyirabuja, aho amanama akomeza guceceka no kwitwaza ko ntakintu kibaho
Kohereza, umugore rero asuzugura imbere yumugabo, no muri we. Nubwo nyuma wrongness umugabo we, ubukwe bazoba bakiri ribasha gukiza, bizaba ikiguzi imbaraga zikomeye runtu no igihombo mu umugore. Ntibishoboka guceceka muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose!
Akenshi abagore ubwoba ko igihe disassembly na Bihanije "Cyangwa jyewe cyangwa", "umugabo azasiga. Ariko, ukurikije imibare, niba umugabo adasize mumuryango mumezi 6 nyuma yo gutangira imibonano mpuzabitsina kuruhande, noneho amahitamo ya kabiri yatoranijwe muburyo bwa 8 gusa kuri 100.
Hasi imbaraga utinya impinduka y'ingenzi, ni ukuvuga, ibyo byumvikanisha ukuva mu muryango, aho byose yubatswe maze zigahera. Kwemeza izaba yose imibare imwe - n'abo 8 Ibumoso, 4 mu gihe kiri imbere ni agaruka inyuma. Kubwibyo, ntugomba gutinya ibi.
Nta gushidikanya, iyo, akeka uwo guhemuka mwashakanye ku, umugore atangira kotsa igitutu we, ivy'uko scandals na hysterics, uwo mugabo ashaka guhunga, ariko kuva umugore, ariko kuva neza buhoraho.
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Kenshi na kenshi, amakuru yerekeye ubuhemu bwakundwa kuva "mwiza" agera kubagore. Niba kandi ibi byabaye, ntugomba guhita utangira - utekereze uko umeze niba amakuru ari ayo kwizerwa? Kubaka ibintu bike mumutwe wawe - gerageza kudahuza amarangamutima. Uriteguye gusobanukirwa umugabo wawe ukamubabarira? Niba igisubizo ari cyiza, noneho reaction kubamaganwa no gusebanya kwamazimwe bigomba kuba bikwiye. Muri urwo rubanza, ariko ko atari ngombwa ngo insiguro umuntu ku ubwoba, kuko icyemezo igizwe n'ibyo bitandukaniye ubu, niba yari ikintu n'undi mugore cyangwa. Biroroshye cyane kubaho twigitekerezo cy'uko abo "bafite ibitekerezo-bose" batarenze kugirira ishyari, ariko ntamuhemukira na gato. Igihe kikiza - kandi kizibagirana.
Guhura nundi muntu
Kugira ngo utsinde icyifuzo cyo guhura na nkana kandi bigoye umusatsi, ariko birakenewe kubikora. Nta ngingo rwose muribi. Byongeye kandi, nyuma yibyo, hamwe nibishoboka byinshi, birashobora gufatwa ko umugabo azajya ahandi, kuko Azagira ibyiyumvo byo kwicira urubanza imbere ye. Muri ubu buryo, hasi gukomera itunganijwe - iyi myumvire yaba ibaha umunezero.
Niba umugore wuje urukundo aba murugo, buri gitondo abatse umugabo gukorana no gusomana, amagambo yoroheje no guhobera, noneho umuntu nkuwo azahobera nyirabuja yibeshye mu mugore we n'umuryango we. Ndetse ubuzima bwimbitse kuruhande buzababara kubera ibi. Kandi igihe cyashize, ibintu nkibi bizagera oya.
Amaze kubona mu maso he na nyirabuja kandi akumushikure mu maso, bityo mu maso ye uzayashyiramo intwari n'umunyongeri utagira kirengera, kandi nawe ufite isuku idasanzwe. Kandi utekereza iki muri uru rubanza uzahitamo ibyo ukunda?
Ijisho ryijisho
Imyitwarire nk'iyi isa n'imvugo: ugutwi kwe ku maso ya nyogokuru. Muburemere bukabije bwimanza, mugerageza kwihorera kumuntu, abantu bakora nabi. Ubuhemu bw'umukunzi wawe buri gihe bwama kubera ibyago, ariko mubyifuzo byumugore bwo kujya mu mva yose no kwigisha amahembe yose, impano ntabwo ifite inyota yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, kandi icyifuzo cyo kwerekana ko ashobora kuntera Afite igitsina kandi ikakira. Imbere ngufi ntabwo ikemura iki kibazo gusa, ahubwo irashobora no kumuhugura. Igihano kimaze gukorwa, kumva ko gusenya bizavuka - kumenya ko umugabo adakunda, kandi umukunzi akoreshwa. psychologie Female ni gahunda muri ubwo buryo ko nyuma y'ububisha gito gake kivuka igitekerezo ko yakoresheje umuntu, cyane akenshi igitsina. Kubwibyo, ntabwo ari uburyo bwo gusubiza ubugambanyi kubugambanyi.Kubabarira bigomba gukwiriye
Nubwo wabanje guhitamo kubabarira umusemuzi, ntugomba guhita ubikora. Niba ubabariye vuba - azumva icyakubereye cyane, ko ubaha agaciro, bivuze ko ashobora gukama, kandi nawe uzababarira. Oya, birakenewe kubyara kwicyaha, kandi kubwibyo ugomba gucuranga gato, gusa udafite hysterics na stondals.
Ushobora ivyara tw'ikoti mama, mushiki cyangwa umukunzi, hanyuma na wumva kwiha agaciro, kugira kumuha ubwawe kuza na ikintu ashobora gukora kuko ubucuti ufitaniye. Ibyo uvuga byose, ikintu cyingenzi nuko yongeye gutangira kugushaka. Gutangiza yose kabiri, wemera kandi gutumira we kwita mwe - byatumye mu maresitora, yafashe impano, kuririmba serenades munsi Idirishya, n'ibindi Niba byafashwe icyemezo cyo gutangira byose, noneho ibintu byose bigomba gutangira mbere - kuva mu mukandida no kugura igihe. Ariko ni ngombwa gusobanukirwa inshingano zose z'icyemezo nkicyo. Niba wababariye ubuhemu ukunda, nta na rimwe, nta kuntu na kimwe kandi utibuka ubutabera bwe, ndetse no munsi y'urusekejwe. Icyemezo gifatwa - nta kugaruka, kwibagirwa ibyahise, gutura muri iki gihe kizaza.