Iyo gutandukana, ibintu byose ni bibi kandi si-oya-nshobora-kuba ubuhanga, kuringaniza kuruhande rwikuzimu kandi ntugwe ku nkombe z'ibanga kandi ntugwe mu maboko adasanzwe y'ingirakamaro adufasha. Ifate mbere, hanyuma ntuzi icyo umenya icyo.
Mama
Mu bihe nk'ibi, mama uwo ari we wese ni ingirakamaro. Mama mwiza azafata ku mikorere na stroke. Kandi bizarushaho kuba umucyo. Umubyeyi mubi azashirwaho ati: "Navuze nti:" Kandi birashoboka kujugunya kurakara byahujwe (byagaragaye ko bigoye kwikuramo umugabo we, kuko yimutse). Kandi nazo biroroshye. Mama ni ngombwa, witondere mama.Inshuti nziza
Umukunzi mwiza nibyaremwe bibi bizagukurukiragura, byandika muburyo bumwe kandi, cyane cyane, bizagukurikira kujyayo. Igikorwa cyacyo kirakaze, ariko hari ukuntu bigaragaza ko utagura kilo makumyabiri, usiga umusatsi mubyiza, nubuzima bwawe, birahinduka, byuzuye ibintu bishimishije.
Umukunzi mubi
Umukunzi mubi ni ikiremwa cya kiremwa kivanze kizakuzanira brandi, kiguhemba ijoro ryose kandi bizakuyobora ikibazo cyubupfu kurubuga rwo gukundana. Na - yego - izagukurikira ngo ujyeyo. Hano haribintu bike byubaka, ariko intego ya tactique "reka ngende igice cyamasaha abiri" bizagerwaho neza.
Psychoconsultatt
Umuntu watojwe cyane uzagufasha cyane. Fata amadorari ijana kumasaha. Kubera iyo mpamvu, uzarakara cyane, uzahitamo ko bazakora neza badafite ishoramari ry'amafaranga muri psychososnikov, kandi bizakora. Uzakora neza. Kuberako nta cyifuzo cyatsi kizaba kiri mu ntambara ipfa na toas yumukara.Umushoferi wa tagisi
Uyu ni umuntu ubabaye ahatirwa kugutwara kuva aho agera kuri B. Kandi, niba gitunguranye jams, uzigama cyane kuri psycho-psycho-psycho-psycho-psycho-psycho-psycho-psycho-psycho-psycho-psycho-psycho-. Kuberako hamwe nitsinzi imwe yiteka ridahagaze, urashobora kubwirane nyirarume, kubwimpamvu zidashoboka komera amenyo. Ariko tuzagira ubuntu kandi tumubabarire iyi nenge duto, kuko yumva yitonze!
Abokorana
Abakozi bakorana ni bakonje kuruta umushoferi wa tagisi. Kuberako, bitandukanye numushoferi wa tagisi, ntushobora kugutera ubutayu kandi utange imyuka. Abakozi ba bagenzi bahatirwa kwicara amasaha yose kandi biga kubyerekeye ishyingiranwa ryanyu buri magana atanu kuruta uko babishakaga, kuva kuwa mbere kugeza kuwa gatanu. Byongeye kandi, muri bagenzi bacu, umuyobozi wo kugurisha gakomeye ashobora kuba, uzakorwa neza: "Nibyo, ndamushaka mu maso ya Naewo," bigaragara ko urera kwihesha agaciro.
Bana
Abana ntacyo bamaze rwose niba uri umubyeyi mwiza, kandi ntabyingenzi rwose niba uri umubyeyi mubi. Mugihe cyanyuma, abana barashobora kurakarira abana, birashoboka kubabaza, kandi barashobora gutorwa. Kubikorwa nkibi, byanze bikunze, byarakwiye kubabazwa no kubyara.Umunyamategeko
Umunyamategeko mu majyaruguru yacu ntabwo arikiremwa cyingirakamaro cyane, ariko rwose ashimangira imiterere. Mu makimbirane n'umugabo hafi ya Ex, impaka, guhera ku magambo: "Umwunganizi wanjye yizera ko ...", apima, hafi toni.
Inshuti magara
Inshuti nziza ni nziza, ariko icy'ingenzi ni umugabo. Noneho, urashobora kugisha inama ingingo amasaha amasaha menshi: "Kandi bizagenda bite niba ..." na "kandi uzabikora, niba mu buryo butunguranye ...". Byongeye kandi, hamwe n'inshuti nziza, biroroshye gufata umwanzuro: "hanyuma uze, niba tutahuye numuntu mbere ya mirongo itanu, barashyingiranwa." Bizaba ubwishingizi nkubwo busaza bwonyine, byabaye ngombwa gusimbuka mu kiraro nonaha.Umugabo umwe
Umuntu umwe numuntu ukomeye. Hamwe nawe urashobora gusinzira umva umeze nkumugore. Urashobora kugendana nawe kugeza mugitondo, uhimbaza umurimo kandi wumve nkumugore. Arashobora guhuza ubwonko bwose nafig kandi wumve nkumugore. Ihangane, umuntu runaka, ariko utari kumwe byatugora cyane gutandukana.
Ikintu cya cumi, mubitekerezo, byabaye ngombwa ko tujya kwahoze ari umugabo. Ariko ntabwo bikubiye murwego rwabantu bakeneye mugihe bahukanye. Kuberako nta muntu, ariko, birasobanutse, ihene.