Ibintu byose biri muriyi mucyo, ibibera hagati yabantu bisa natwe bidashira. N'ubundi kandi, mu kinyejana cya cumi na gatanu, umugore yakundaga umugabo, no mu kigero cya cumi na karindwi - Mama yakundaga abana, kandi mu bantu cumi n'icyenda bari inshuti ...
Mubyukuri, kwerekana, birumvikana ko ibinyoma. Ijambo urukundo ntiruhinduka, ariko we ubwe ameze. N'urukundo rw'imyaka ya Hayene ya Hayene yashoboraga kuguhungabana cyane mu kugongana na we. Ndetse no ku rukundo rw'ababyeyi none kandi nk'urugero, hashize imyaka mirongo itatu, hari ubwoko butandukanye bwumubano. Kubijyanye nibisabwa na leta kubabyeyi bashinzwe kwitabwaho. Ariko ntituzabikora. Twe, uko tubinyura, tuzakwibutsa umubare wa mom na papa ba mirongo inani - mirongo inani kubantu ba Zeru na cumi biratandukanye cyane.Umwana arashobora kubabaza!
Birasa nkaho ari ibintu bitangaje, ariko mugihe cy'ubwana bwacu kubwubuke bwuzuye bwabantu bakuru barira, bavuza induru yubuvuzi bwimikino ngororamubiri cyangwa urugero, kurugero, ukomoka ku ruziga rwabonaga ko ari ihaniko no gushaka gutsinda. Kubyo mukomeretsa, wari wuzuye! Kandi mugihe cacu, abaganga b'abana basekuruza bavuga n'ijwi rirenga, ko niba massage irababaza cyane, ntazafasha gusa, ariko, ku buryo, birababaza. Abatoza benshi banga imigenzo irambuye kandi bajye kimwe kubantu bakuru mubigo byimyitozo. Kandi ababyeyi amaherezo batangiye guhumuriza abana nyuma yo gutera inshinge cyangwa ubundi buryo budashimishije.
Tymiezochka
Twese tumaze kubaho neza mumyaka mirongo kandi twatsinzwe nubuzima bwumwe muri twe. Ariko ubusazi nkubwo buzengurutse ibintu byoroshye byumwana wumukobwa ntabwo byari mbere. Muri mirongo inani na Ninzotie ubwiganze bwa Tyshotos, ntibari bashyize imikino ngororamubiri kandi bateze imikino gusa, amatsiko yubumenyi, intambara yo kurengera icyubahiro cy'abakobwa, icyifuzo cyo kwambara ipantaro no kutitonda kwikinisha, Lilac n'indabyo za Lilac. Ku bakobwa bariho, bisa nkaho biruwe na corsenet itagaragara.
Imyitwarire ku buzima
Ababyeyi ku bigereranyo bababajwe cyane n'ubuzima bw'abana kandi bakomeza gutsimbarara ku bibazo bisabwa mu buvuzi, igihe abaganga b'abana bafunzwe batarabona ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, kandi nyina na papa na papa yamaze kubona ibintu bidasanzwe. Ahari impamvu yibintu nibidashidikanywaho ko iyo indwara yatangijwe, bizashoboka kubona ubuvuzi busanzwe. Ndetse no muri mirongo ya mirongo na Ninities kubuvuzi bwemewe byiringiro birenze ubu.Pelainka
Ababyeyi bacu bizeraga ko pelley zitagira imitambisiti igomba kunakora ku mwana. Niba azarwara, cyangwa ikindi kintu kiteye ubwoba. Uyu munsi ukurikizwa n'inama y'abakozi y'abana kugira ngo yirinde icyuma cy'imyenda yo hepfo no kuryama ku bana: Noneho, baravuga bati: Uruhu ruhumeka neza. Byongeye kandi, ibintu byo mu mato mu ngo zacu ni byiza kandi bikomeye, tubikesha icumbi ku budodo, nta kurohama nyuma yo gukama.
Gahunda y'Ishuri
Muri mirongo inani na mirongo inani, bari biteze ko ishuri ubwe azatanga ubumenyi. Nibyiza, birashoboka ko ugomba guha akazi umurezi, kugirango umwana azi ururimi rwiza cyangwa yiteguye amasomo yumwirondoro kwinjira muri kaminuza. Noneho kwishyura abarezi cyangwa uruziga ukurikije gahunda rusange yishuri (kandi ntabwo ari mubyimbitse byimbitse!) Bikubiye mu ngengo yimari myinshi, aho umwana ari Doros. Mubisanzwe, igihe n'amafaranga ku ruziga rw'inyungu bikomeza kuba bike. Abana bagomba kujya kuri abo bakundana bashobora kwigwa kuri videwo kuri interineti, no gufatanya mumisobe rusange kugirango basangire ubunararibonye kandi bikabye ibisubizo.Ibiryo
Intego ya mirongo inani - Umwana agomba kurya cyane. Muri mirongo itangira, umwana yagombaga kurya, no kudatoragura ibiryo. Noneho ikintu cyingenzi nugukoresha imirire. Chips mumaboko yicyiciro cyambere birashobora gutera inyanja nyinshi zikikije. Mu munota umwe, nyirabukwe wa nyirabu, kugaburira nyina umunota umwe urwaye umutimanama. Ishusho yingimbi, cholesterol yuzuye inkoko ikaranze, izatera ibitekerezo byuzuye. Ibiryo byabana (kandi byongeye, ntabwo ari kuri bose abana ba Nashelnoy), birakorwa, bitera kuganirwaho kuri enterineti. Ariko ntawundi utera bigoye.
Motifike
Benshi mu babyeyi bacu bahame mmesheje ntibatekereje ku buryo bwo gukorana n'umwana. Birakenewe - bivuze ko ari ngombwa. Uziga nabi - uzaba umugabo mu mahugurwa. Uziga neza - uzahinduka umwarimu kandi uzabona nka manitor, ahubwo uzakore ubushyuhe. Kandi ntushaka indogobe? Abana bacu bamenye bisa nkaho bakeneye gusa. Nibyiza, nibyo, birakenewe kumvisha ibikenewe mubyukuri, kandi mubisanzwe sobanura impamvu. Fata umwanya n'imbaraga nyinshi, ariko niba ikora neza kuruta iterabwoba ryiza - kugeza ubu kugirango ubimenye. Abahanga bavuze ko imihangayiko yoroheje agira uruhare mu kwiga ishyano. Twebwe tutara.Abana bafite igitekerezo
Ntabwo ari ngombwa kwemeranya na we, kandi benshi ntibahutira kuzirikana, ariko ntibikiri guhakana nkukuri. Ikibazo "Yego, wagira iki, mubyiciro bya gatatu?" - Inotire yabo, ariko, kubwamahirwe, ntabwo ari urubyaro rwacu.
Nta rufunguzo ku ijosi
Mu miryango myinshi y'abana ba mirongo inani - Ninietieth, yakuze ku ishuri, atontoma kandi mbere yo kuzenguruka umujyi cyangwa ngo yicare mu rugo wenyine, umukandara utuje utuje na Marwine n'isukari. Noneho kuri enterineti, ababyeyi bavuga ko abana badafite uburenganzira bwo gusigara badafite imyaka 12. Kandi mubyukuri, kugirango tubone cumi n'umwe, uhagurukira kumuhanda utuje kumuhanda, byaragoye. Niba amategeko ari ahari, niba byose bizera.
Umwanya wawe
Umwanya w'abana bwite uracyahungabanywa nababyeyi ubwabo, ariko muri rusange, byibura biramenyekana. Kubaho kw'icyumba cyawe cyangwa inguni ku mwana byatangiye gufatwa nk'aho gutegekwa - twatsimbaraye, twaramutse, kandi niba ari abishimye bari bafite umuvandimwe cyangwa mushiki we), hanyuma ababyeyi bazanye ishema badafite inkongoro n'imbogamizi. Inzu nyuma ya byose, isobanura, kandi nicyumba nacyo, twahawe gusa kuryama no kwicara. Niba dusanze ikarita yumwana tukareba muri yo, tuzahita tubabaza ifu. Ibishushanyo byacu byarebye byoroshye abasomyi kubiyandikishije.Vuga kubyerekeye umutekano wimibonano mpuzabitsina
Ababyeyi bacu basa nkaho batinyaga ko niba uburira ibya pedofili, urugomo, ruto rutabera, uko ibintu byose bibaho nuburyo bwo kubyirinda nuburyo bwo kubyirinda, duhita tujya hanze mundaya. Byongeye kandi, akenshi, niba ukuri kwishinyaguza cyangwa gufata ku ngufu, ku bakobwa bo mu gisekuru cyacu kandi bivurwa, ku bijyanye n'inyunga zumye, batitaye ku myaka, aho bakomeretse. Cyane cyane guceceka. Amaherezo twavuyemo kwibanda ku munyabitambo ku muvuduko w'ifata ku ngufu (byibuze niba uwahohotewe) kandi ashobora kuba umwana wawe) kandi, Mekay, akiri muto, akubitwa no kubirana, akora ibiganiro byo gukumira no kwiyongera.
Twarokotse dute?
Ikibazo cyakunzwe cyane kuyorora kuri enterineti kandi rimwe na rimwe ushaka gusubiza: Igitangaza. Ingingo ntabwo ari uko ababyeyi bacu batagerageje. Ikigaragara ni uko, mbere ya byose, pedagogy y'Abasoviyeti yatekereje cyane cyane cyane cyane nk'umuntu, ariko nk'imyiteguro yubaka ubukomunisiti. Ibintu byose byarangaye ku bikorwa byo kubaka umwubatsi byafatwaga nk'ibya kabiri, kandi amajwi arengera kubarura n'intege nke kandi afite ubwoba. Kandi, icya kabiri, ababyeyi bacu mubyukuri bari igihe. Mu myaka ya za 1980, ba nyina benshi basezeranye nibyo babonye. Oya, ntabwo ari jonas na kaserus bafata amajwi, ariko bitajugunywe kuri konte: inkweto, imboga cyangwa imbuto, impapuro zumusarani ... Yego, kandi ubuzima bwarakabije kuruta ubu. Inyuma yo gukaraba-Gusukura-Gutegura (byose mu ntoki n'ibikoresho bibisi!) Igihe n'imbaraga ku bana ntibizagumaho. Amaherezo, ibi byaturwaho kuri twe, twarafashwe tugaburirwa. Mu mazi, ababyeyi bakoraga ubuzima bwo kubaho. Ababyeyi benshi babaye ingaragu, kandi benshi ni "Shutt" no kubacuruzi ku isoko n'umunsi w'akazi udasanzwe. Twahawe uko bashoboye. Nkuko tubikora, dukurikije amahirwe dufite yo kongera hamwe ningorane nshya yigihe (ibibazo hamwe nuburezi, kurugero). Ikibazo ntabwo kigerageza cyane, birasa nkaho abapfu bazurwa ... n'abahanga mu bya siyansi batangiye kuvuga ko abana "basanzwe" bangaga ingaruka z'abana, urugero rw'ibigo byatanzwe muri kamere cyangwa amahirwe yatangaga ikipe, shakisha amahirwe mashya yo guhura. Birababaje cyane kuruta uko tutekereza. Ahari igisekuru kizaza kizabacyubaza "kuki ababyeyi bataduhangayikishije?", Na "Kuki watugoshe?" Hanyuma uve muri byinshi byintwari yacu hamwe nuburyo buteye ubwoba. Uzi.
Ariko, mvugishije ukuri, biracyari byiza ko ubu umwana afite ibitekerezo kandi afite umwanya.