Imwe mu itandukaniro ryiza mubagabo nabagore nuko aba nyuma bagaragaza amarangamutima yabo n'amarangamutima make, bityo hasi cyane biroroshye kumva ko mubyukuri bumva igice cyabo. Ariko nigute ushobora kubana nabagabo bakunze kwikomeretsa kwigaragaza? Nigute ushobora kumva niba umugabo akunda cyangwa afite akonje kandi yishimira umugore? Kandi ibi birashobora gukorwa mugusuzuma ibipimo 11.
Arashaka kumarana nawe umwanya munini
Nk'uko byatangajwe na psychologue, niba umugabo ahisemo kumarana igihe cyubusa iruhande rw'umugore - avuga ibyiyumvo bye bikomeye kuri Madamu. Ndetse ufite akazi gakomeye kukazi no kubibazo byo murugo, abantu bakunda rwose bazagerageza rwose kubona umwanya wo kuvugana nibintu byo gusubiza mu buzima busanzwe.Ashishikajwe nuburyo umunsi wawe wagenze
Uru rukundo ntirushingiye kubintu bizaza, ahubwo ni ugufashanya muri couple, cyane cyane mugihe ibihe bigoye bibaho. Kubwibyo, umugabo ufite ibyiyumvo bivuye ku mutima kuba umugore rwose azashishikazwa nuburyo yarenze umunsi we ko ari mwiza, kandi birashoboka ko atari byinshi.
Arakwiringiye
Nk'uko ubushakashatsi bwakozwe n'inzobere mu bijyanye na psychologiya, mu mibanire ikomeye, abantu bahora bashaka kumenya aho igice cyabo cya kabiri giherereye muri uyu munota. Muri icyo gihe, icyifuzo nk'iki kivuka na gato kubera ishyari no gukeka ubuziranenge, ariko kubera uburambe.Niba, nyuma yo gutinda kugaruka, nkunda ntiguhuye nibibazwa, ntibigerageze kuzamuka muri terefone no gusoma SMS - Ibi ntabwo bivuga kutitaho no gukunda.
Ifasha
Umugabo ningirakamaro cyane gukomera, ubwenge kandi ubutwari mumaso yibyo atitayeho. Kubwibyo, mugihe icyo aricyo cyose cyiza, ntazabura amahirwe yo kubigaragaza. Kurugero, niba ntacyo uhisemo mubuhanzi, kandi uwahisemo afite ubumenyi muriki gice, kandi rwose bizafasha kumenya ibitera ibikoresho byo murugo, kandi niba warababajwe, ntazamera rwose ko uzamuka uburiri kandi uzana imiti yose nkenerwa.
Yerekana ko wubaha amaso yawe.
Nubwo waba ufite umugabo ufite umuntu n'ibitekerezo kubibazo bya politiki mu gihugu ndetse n'isi - ntibikubuza kwishima hamwe. Ibanga ryimibereho riri mumahoro no gusobanukirwa numukunzi nigitekerezo cye. Urugero rero, niba uri umunyamwuga ukurikira, kandi icyarimwe wemera ko umugore agomba kumara umwanya muto murugo, azakomeza kumva ibihe byawe arabifata.Yumva ibyo uvuga
Muri verisiyo ya kera, ibibazo byose byo murugo muri couple birakemuka hamwe, ariko ibyingenzi buri gihe bihabwa abafite ubushobozi bwumuntu runaka hejuru. Niba, kurugero, ntacyo usobanukirwa mumasoko yimigabane, umugabo wuje urukundo azakomeza kugaragaza ko witabiriye ibiganiro.
Ashaka ubucuti
Gushimangira ubucuti amarangamutima, imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo byanze bikunze ari ngombwa, ariko biracyashoboka, niba umugabo agerageje kugukoraho - shyira ikiganza cyawe ku rutugu, kora ku kuboko kwawe, nibindi - Ivuga kubyerekeye icyifuzo cye cyo kwemeza hafi yawe, ibyo ubwe ubwe yumva.Arakureba
Ibimenyetso bitavuga rimwe na rimwe birashobora kuvuga ibirenze amagambo. Ibimenyetso, bitandukanye nijambo, ntukabeshye. Niba isura yumugabo ihora iguhagarara, kandi ntigazerera mumwanya, mugihe ushyikirana - bivuze ko bishimishije kuba hafi yawe. Kugira ngo wumve ibi, ntabwo ari ngombwa nyuma yamasaha atarebana, akenshi ujugunya mubireba.
Akunda kuvuga ibyahise
Nk'uko byatangajwe na psychologue, niko inshuro ebyiri zirimo kuganira kubintu bishimishije byabababayeho kera, umubano wabo ukomeye.Arahaguruka kubwunganizi bwawe
Niba hari umuntu unegura, kandi we, aho kwifatanya Krititan, arashaka kukurwanirira - bivuze ko afite imigambi ikomeye kuri konte yawe. Abashakanye aho abafatanyabikorwa bashaka kurengera no gushyigikirana, bityo bagakomeza umubano wabo kurushaho.
Iyo wowe na we mwiza
Iyo umugore aherereye iruhande rw'umugabo wuje urukundo, kwihesha agaciro kumwitaho, caress no kwitabwaho cyane. Byashyizwemo kamere dushaka kumarana umwanya nabatwitayeho. Byumvikanye kurwego rwibibazo. Ariko, ibi ntibisobanura ko mugihe kizaza bizakubera intonga. Niba uri iruhande rwumugabo, urizera muriwe, noneho ejo hazaza umubano wawe uzarushaho gukomera.