Byemezwa ko abagore bakoresha abagabo amarira amarira, hysterics kandi bagatera, kandi rimwe na rimwe hari umukara wimibonano mpuzabitsina. Ariko mubyukuri, abagabo ntibakoreshwa nabagore, ibyo birabikora, ntabwo ari amarira, ariko hamwe nibisagutse.
Ninde Manipulator
Kubwamahirwe, abantu nkabo ntibanditse ku gahanga ko ari aba Marike, ahubwo bakaba ari inzira yo gushyikirana nayo ushobora kubakuramo amazi meza. Ibyingenzi bitandukanya ibiranga Manipulator - afite ibitekerezo bibiri gusa - kandi ni bibi. Akenshi, umuntu nkuwo yafashwe neza numugore, asezeranya "imisozi ya zahabu", ariko icyarimwe ifite icyubahiro. Akeneye gusa kwemezwa numuntu ufite intege nke, kandi akenshi iyi "umuntu" azimya umugore uhora avuga kubyerekeye ubukuru bwe.Murwego rwa Manipulator hashobora kubaho rwose umugabo - bashobora kuba uwo mwashakanye, pickup cyangwa kumenyana. Nibyiza gusa ko umugore abayobora, biroroshye cyane, ndetse no kumuhungu wa Madienecian cyane, kwigira icyo ari byo bizazuka.
Ubuhanga busanzwe bwa Manipuation Abagabo
Psychologiya "swing"
Rimwe na rimwe birabura - ntabwo ifata terefone, ntabwo isubiza SMS, icecekeye kandi yerekeza kubintu byihutirwa. Arambura umukenyezi umugore kandi atumva ibibera, ariko, nyuma yo kwihangana kurambuye, aracyatanga "igihembo" muburyo bwo kwitabwaho bugufi.Gukoresha Gutesha agaciro
Ubu bwoko bwa Manipulator aho kuba ishimwe bubwira umugore kudatungana kwe haba mumico no kugaragara - yahoraga ayigereranya nabandi bagore ko aribyiza kuri we. Itanga ibigo byinshi mumibonano mpuzabitsina, kwigirira icyizere nacyo kandi birashimira umuntu nkuyu ko amukunda mubidukikije byose.
Iterabwoba
Niba umugore yagiye mu buryo butunguranye, atari uko umugabo yavuze, noneho ibitutsi byinshi bizamukubita. Kugira ngo ubutaha utarakaza inkoni, umudamu azahitamo gukora nkuwo ukunda avuga."Nyingiza"
ManicUlator akora ibintu byose kugirango yerekane ko adashaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, urugendo rwa Malidiya no gutembera muri resitora nayo ntabwo ashimishije. Ibi biyobora umugore mu rujijo - bishoboka bite? N'ubundi kandi, ibi byose bigomba kumushimisha. Kandi ishingiro ryiyi myitwarire ni ugufata uwahohotewe mubibazo, hanyuma tukabona byose ako kanya, ndetse nibyiza.
Imbeho
Mu gushyikirana numuntu nkuyu, umugore ahatirwa guhora amuhatira kwitabwaho, yinginga ishimwe nurukundo. Kugirango ugere kumugezi byibuze akantu gato, umukecuru agomba kugenda cyane, kandi yitwaza ko hari ikintu.Impinduka
Noneho abakunda cyane, ubwoko bwiza nibyiza, ariko noneho birakabije, nta mpamvu nta mpamvu ihinduka itandukanye na we. Ashinja umugore ibibazo bye byose, ariko noneho ni umweru kandi arongera.
"Ku Basish"
Ubwa mbere ntabwo, noneho agaragara cyane avuga kandi atangira kwandika mugufi cyane, kurugero, mumeze mute? ", Ariko icyarimwe ntibinteye. Azirinda ubucuti bwo mumarangamutima, nubwo akora ibishushanyo byo kuboneka kwe. Kandi abagore bake bafite iyicyubahiro bumva ko ibyo byose bitwuzuza rwose.Gukoresha no kumva ufite impuhwe
Aba Manipulator ni inkuru nziza zinkuru zivuye ku mutima, muri bo amarira mumaso arakomantaye. Nibyo kenshi nizi nkuru ntabwo birenze ibihimbano. Intego ye ni ukutera impuhwe mu mugore uzamureka, abakene nkabo kandi birababaje, kandi wenda bagafasha mu bukungu.
Kandi andikoresha manigulator araza, inyungu nini muriyo ni ikira. Ihinduka amatsiko, aho imipaka yubuyibano ...
Kuki Manipulet idayobora ikintu cyiza?
Mu mibanire nk'iyi, umugore ntagisobanukirwa nibyo ashaka - atakaza umuntu, ahinduka umukobwa muto, aho ibyemezo bifatwa kandi bigarukira muri byose. Ntabwo yumva agaciro kayo mubucuti, kwihesha agaciro kwacitsemo ibice. ManicUlator yamenaguye umugore kandi igihe cyose yahise gishidikanya: "Ikintu kibi kuri njye, ndibeshya ...". Umugabo akora ibintu byose kugirango atezimbere umubano mubintu bye.Kuki abagabo bakoresha abagore
Ibintu byose biroroshye cyane, bishyuye umugore, abo bagabo nk'abo bakusanya icyubahiro cyabo, batewe na manipulation, bumva imbaraga zabo n'imbaraga zabo. Ego yabagabo imaze kubabara, none agomba "gukurura umwobo", kandi biroroshye kubikora. Akenshi, mubagize abimenye hari abagabo benshi bahindura nyirabuja kwisi yose, kubibona, bakorora. Kubwamahirwe, ni mubyukuri abagabo abagore bakorewe Maipiter mu bwana, kandi ibi bibaho kurwego rwibibazo.
Abashobora Guhitana Abamigare
Mu itsinda rifite ibyago hari abagore badashobora kuvuga ko bikomeye "Oya", ntibashobora kwerekana imipaka bwite, basobanukiwe no kwihesha agaciro kandi ntibafite imigambi n'intego zuzuye mubuzima. Nibyiciro byumutekererezwa bibara abakoresha aba Manipulator. Ibi nibyo mubyukuri bivuye hano kandi bitesha ikibazo mucyiciro: "Kuki buri gihe nkurura abagabo bamwe?".Ariko ibyo sibyo byose. Uwahohotewe arashobora kuba abadamu batinya kwigunga, bashidikanya kuri konti yabo, ari ngombwa cyane kuba muri coup. Akenshi abagabo nkabo baza mubucuti nabagore ubwabo nka, I.E. Aba nabo ntibakurikiza umufatanyabikorwa wa manipulating - mwisi yose byose birahuza.
Uburyo bwo Kurwanya ManiGulator
Ikintu cya mbere gukora nukuza kwihesha agaciro. Niba umugore yizeye wenyine (yizeye gusa, kandi ntabwo akora isura yibi) noneho ntibishoboka kuyikoresha. Umugore wiboneye uzi igiciro ntikizagera ku mayeri ya pseudo bihendutse. No guhinduka nkibyo, ugomba gucukura imbere, shakisha ibibazo kandi ubikemure.
Ntugerageze kwiyobora, bitabaye ibyo uzakurura aba manipulator imwe.
Ntutange umubano kubikorwa - sobanura neza umwanya wawe, ibyifuzo byawe. Erekana "Ndashaka" na "Ndabishoboye". Niba umugabo agerageza gushyira igitutu kandi agakaze, yerekana ko utitabira uyu mukino.
Ntuzigere utsindishiriza mugihe ugerageje kugushinja. Kumva ufite impuhwe, isoni n'inzika - Nibyo maniporotor igerwaho, kuko ikomeje kuba uwahohotewe akwemerera gucunga byoroshye. Ntugatakaze umwanya wawe, imbaraga z'abagore ku muntu udakwiriye ibisobanuro, kandi ukwiye kubisaba kandi sibyo.
Amazi yose. Ntabwo byoroshye kubikora, muri ubu bucuruzi nibyiza gushaka ubufasha muri kaleist. Reka gutinya irungu no guta ibitekerezo mu mutwe nka: "Ntabwo nkeneye umuntu ...". Ibyo utangaza isanzure, noneho urabona, ohereza rero amasezerano meza.
Hanyuma, ibuka ukuri kumwe kwingenzi - abagore baragaragara na gato kugirango barwanye abagabo kandi bagire uruhare mu marushanwa, kandi mamipulation ntibashobora. Abagore baza kuri iyi si gutanga ubwiza ku isi, ubwuzu n'abagore, kwishima ubwabo, abana babo n'abakunzi babo. Sobanura mu byishimo by'isi, ntabwo bibabazwa, kandi ibyo bizagukunda!