16 Ugushyingo - Umunsi mpuzamahanga wo kurwanya anorexia. Birakenewe kwitegura! Ashley Tekereza kubwira byose kuri iyi ndwara.
Gusuzuma "Anorexia" Ashley yashyizweho afite imyaka 13. Noneho umukobwa atangira kurwana nanjye mubuzima. Noneho Ashley 16, kandi iyoboye blog ishimishije bidasanzwe kubyerekeye ibyerekeranye nibiryo byiza, byingirakamaro kandi byingenzi, byingenzi. Ibi biratangaje cyane, niba dusuzumye ko abaganga babonaga uruhare rwibipimo rusange byimwe mubitera iyi ndwara kandi babujijwe rwose numukobwa kugenda kumurongo.
Kandi mubyukuri, interineti yuzuyemo gusa ihamagarira gusa gutakaza ibiro no kwamaganwa umubiri wumugore - hari abafatabuguzi benshi, bahimbaza anorexia. Abakobwa muri bo batutse kuri buri gakuru y'ibinure munsi yuruhu, baterana inkunga ku ndyo zikomeye - intego yuburemere budashoboka, kurema amafoto yabo.
Ariko niba umuyoboro ugira ingaruka cyane, kuki utabikoresha kugirango uganire ningimbi kuri anorexia kandi nigute nshobora gusohoka ngo ndebe kandi ndebe nyuma yacyo? Kugira ngo iyi ntego, Ashley atangira blog ye.
Mubyukuri, ntabwo byoroshye cyane. Abakobwa barwaye Anorexia bahinduranya kuri enterineti - kandi ntabwo ari izindingavu gusa, ahubwo nabakuze - kimwe nabakobwa bafite ibiro byinshi. Kuvuga ubuzima bwawe hanze yumuryango wabandi bakobwa bafite anorexia, birasabwa. Ariko Ashley ntiyayifashe. Abakobwa b'ababyeyi, Jili, avuga ko Ashley yamye ari umuyobozi, kandi ku ishuri biratangira.
Anorexia yakubise umubiri ukura ndetse ugaragara cyane kuruta umuntu mukuru. Ashley afite imyaka 13 ntabwo yari ananutse, yakubiswe cyane mu mikurire no guteza imbere umubiri. Kugeza ubu, asa naho ari muto kuruta.
Umubyeyi yagerageje cyane guhindura indyo yumukobwa, ayihatira hari ibiryo byamavuta, ariko byashimangiye ko Phobiya ya Ashley. Amaherezo, ntabwo yashoboye kurya ibiryo, aho bitanditswe neza karori zirimo. Igitangaje, ntibumvaga ko baneghing hamwe nabakobwa mumiryango ya anorexia.
Igihe Ashley yatangiraga gufata amashusho kuri Instagram, ikintu cyose kirya umunsi, kandi umunsi urangiye kuvuka kumafoto y'ibiryo, we ubwe yatangajwe no kurya. Ibiryo byamuteye ubwoba, kuko byashoboraga gukora amatwi, ariko umukobwa ubwacyo imbaraga zo kwiga "umwanzi" kandi yatangajwe n'imyifatire y'ubupfu ku biryo yatwaye. Kurugero, Ashley yatekereje cyane ko imbuto zamabara akomeye ya karorier kurenza ayandi, kandi yashoboraga kwanga pome. Kumenya uburyo mubyukuri "bikora" ibiryo, Ashley yakundaga guteka. Amasahani yo gukora ni ubundi buryo buhebuje bwo gukoresha ibinure byatanze nyina kubera kutumvikana, kandi icyarimwe bafasha gukira nyuma yo kugabanya ibiro. Iragerageza kandi ibiryo byuzuye kubantu bakora inganda zikora ibirango bitaburanishwa nabakobwa b'ingimbi.
Ibihumbi n'ibihumbi by'abantu bitabiriye Ashley kubera Udukoryo. Yizera ko bidafasha gusa abashaka kujyana ibiryo byiza kugirango baringaniye, ariko ababazwa na anorexia. Afite abo banyarubuga benshi, yarahiye kandi arabashyigikira.
Abaganga bamenya ko akenshi impamvu yo guhindura abakobwa igitekerezo cyo kubahiriza ubuzima bwabo munanirwa kwabo, kubura amarangamutima na ababyeyi. Ntugerageze kugaburira abarwayi hamwe na anorexia ku gahato, ntabwo biganisha ku kintu icyo ari cyo cyose. Vugana nabo. Muganire ku buzima bwabo, menyana nabo, nkuko "byateguwe" ibiryo, kumarana umwanya, ariko ntabwo ari ibisebe no gutongana. Kandi utange umudendezo muto no kurerwa.
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