Inkuru zurukundo abantu bose babona kuri ecran nini irashobora kuba impamo nukuri niba ushyizeho umwete kandi ukore ibintu "byiza". Ibyo ari byo byose, inama zikurikira zirashobora gufasha umubano ntucike cyane.
1. Shakisha inyungu rusange
Nibisanzwe rwose mugihe abashakanye bafite inyungu zitandukanye, kandi ntibisobanuye ko barimbutse. Abantu bagizwe nubusabane buri gihe basangamo amasomo ashimishije kandi bagakuza inyungu nshya, bavugana nabafatanyabikorwa babo. Igisobanuro nukubona ikintu kimwe, kandi no kubona umwanya kubwibi.
2. Gukomeza amaboko kenshi
Kugaragaza kumugaragaro umugereka nibisanzwe niba biri kurwego ntarengwa - ntukeneye guhora ujya guhobera. Kugenda, ugomba kugumana amaboko gusa kugirango werekane umuntu. Iki nikimenyetso cyinkunga nurukundo, kimwe no kwerekana ko ubwitonzi bwingenzi kuruta byose cyangwa ibyo abandi bantu bashobora kuba baratekereje.3. Kwizera no kubabarira
Impaka zigize umubano, kandi imbabazi ntabwo ari ngombwa. Niba umuntu akunda umuntu, ntazoroherwa no kumwizera. Niba kandi umuntu ashobora kwizera umuntu wa hafi, noneho ntubabarire bizaba byoroshye. Kurakara kumufatanyabikorwa nikintu kibi cyane gishobora kuba mubucuti, bityo ubutaha mugihe cyo gutongana ntigikeneye gutongana kandi bikabe abizerwa. Amaherezo, ikizere ni ishingiro ryumubano.
4. Guma ku muhengeri mwiza
Ubwiza mu mibanire ni ingenzi nk'urukundo, tutayifite, umubano urashobora gusa nkaho ari ubusa. Ibintu byose biroroshye - ntugomba guhora ushimangira ko umufatanyako akora ikintu kibi. Nibyiza cyane gutanga ibyo bihe mugihe akora ikintu cyiza kandi ayisingize igihe cyose giteganijwe kubwibi. Ntabwo bivuze ko ukeneye kwirengagiza ibintu byose "igice" bikora nabi niba umuntu wa hafi atumva "Ntabwo aribyo," Ugomba kumusobanurira. Bivuga nabi, birakenewe kubona izindi mpamvu zo kudushima kuruta kubona inenge.5. kwishimira umufasha wacyo
Ibintu byose biroroshye - ugomba kumenya neza ko mugenzi wawe azi uko uri muri byose kandi uko umubano umeze nkawe. Ibikorwa bivuga cyane kuruta amagambo mumibanire, birakwiye rero gukoresha amahirwe yose yo kubwira mugenzi wawe ko ashimiwe kandi arishima.