Igihe cya Byihuta na mudasobwa byatumye urubanza rwe rurabura: mu Burusiya, hafi kimwe cya kane cy'abaturage bafite imyaka myinshi cyangwa umubyibuho ukabije. Ukurikije impuguke, mubindi, indwara iracyari muto. Nigute ushobora kuvugana numwana kubyerekeye uburemere burenze?
Ubwa mbere, wibande kubuzima, ntabwo ari muburyo.
Abana muri iki gihe bakikijwe ku ruhande rumwe n'amafoto menshi y'abantu bafite imibiri myinshi itagereranywa, no ku rundi - kwamamaza bihamagarira kujya gushaka ibiryohereye, umusaruro wihuse, umusaruro wa gaz undi.Ubu burengerazuba butuma abana benshi bumva batitaye kuburemere bwabo, bahangayikishijwe nibi kandi, ishyano, kuko iyi hari impamvu: Nk'uko ubushakashatsi bwimbitse bwo kugenzura no gukumira indwara zo muri Amerika, mu myaka 30 ishize, umubare wa Abana bafite umubyibuho ukabije wikubye kabiri, kandi ingimbi ryiyongereyeho.
Kugeza ubu, hafi kimwe cya gatatu cyababana ningimbi barwaye cyane. Kandi amamiriyoni yababajwe nikibazo gitandukanye: kurya ibigo bidahagije.
Kuvuga uburemere bwumuntu ufite imyaka iyo ari yo yose birashobora kuba ibishoboka. Niba kandi ari ngombwa kuvugana numwangavu kandi wakomeretse, noneho inzoga nini cyane - ijambo iryo ari ryo ryose rititonda rirashobora kubabaza umwana.
Nigute?
Ababyeyi ba mbere, nk'uko Dr. Sandra Hassink, umuyobozi wa Dr. Sandra Hassikms y'abahanga mu bahanga mu by'ikigo cy'ubwana buzirakuru, ababyeyi ubwabo ntibari kumva kandi bakemera ko uburemere bw'umuryango uwo ari we wese ari ikibazo cy'umuryango. Abana ntibahitamo uburyo bwo ku mirire cyangwa imyitozo - bafite ingwate mubihe bari bameze.
Ariko mbere yo gufata ikiganiro icyo ari cyo cyose, ababyeyi bagomba kureba imbere yukuri kwa ubuvuzi. Akenshi gukunda abantu bakuru ntibashobora kwerekeza ku mwana wabo. Ndetse n'abaganga bakunze kwibeshya.
"Urande, uri iki! Ntabwo abyibushye! Ameze gutya, mmmmm, binini! "
Ababyeyi rero bazagomba kuri Arma umubiri wimiterere yumubiri no kubahiriza ubuzima bwo gukura, kandi ntibushishikarize kubitekerezo byabo.
Uruhinja
Kuri iyi myaka, igikorwa ni ngombwa kuruta ikiganiro. Gusa ukure murugo ibitari bigenewe ibiryo. Kuva akiri muto, abana bakuramo ingeso n'imigenzo yumuryango wabo - bitondera cyane kandi biragaragara, kugirango bagukize ibyo ukora, niki wavuga icyarimwe. Ndetse rero na mbere yuko uganira kubyerekeye "ibice bito", "ibiryo byiza" n "" ingeso zingirakamaro ibiryo ", tangira zikoresha neza.
Amashuri yisumbuye
Abanyeshuri biga mu mashuri banyu bahinduka umubiri kandi rimwe na rimwe barumva neza ibintu byose. Ntushobora gutanga ibisobanuro kumiterere yumuntu, ingano ikabije cyangwa hoodobu irenze urugero - twese turakura kandi tugatera imbere muburyo butandukanye. Ariko ababyeyi barashobora gutangira kwiga abana kugenzura umubiri wabo nubuzima, baza niba bababajwe ninde mwishuri kubera umutungo mubi cyangwa uburemere burenze. Ariko igitekerezo nyamukuru gikomeza kuba kimwe - Iki nikibazo cyumuryango abantu bose bahisemo hamwe.
Ingimbi
N'ingimbi, birumvikana gukora ibiganiro bijyanye n'ubuzima nk'ikigize mu buzima, bizana ingero mu mateka y'umuryango, ubwira sogokuru, nyirakuru wari ufite imirire mibi ubuzima bwe bwose Kuberako yari afite diyabete ubuzima bwe bwose. Mubyongeyeho, urashobora kuvuga kubyerekeye ingeso yingirakamaro: muguhitamo ibiryo byiza mubirori kugeza isaha yinyongera mugihe cyo kwiruka imbere ya TV.
Igihe icyo ari cyo cyose ntigomba kuba kirego cyangwa inzika. Iki kiganiro ntabwo kijyanye nibyo umwana akora nabi, kandi amahirwe yo kumuhira kandi abimenya ni aba arya. Kandi wibuke ko ntamuntu utunganye. Niba biba bigoye rwose, ntucike intege, ushyigikire kandi ujyane intego.