Buri mugore ukiri muto urota amazu ye, ariko kuri byinshi bikomeza kurota. Uruhande rwimari rwikibazo akenshi ruhinduka igisitaza. Umusore atihatiye kubana n'ababyeyi babo, rwose birababaje, ariko ntushobora kubona ahantu hose. Ni ngombwa cyane kutiheba. Hariho amategeko yoroshye azafasha korohereza amacumbi ahuriweho.
Ikintu cya mbere cyo gukora nukugabura neza ingengo yimari. Bitabaye ibyo, uzafatwa nk'umwambanyi wimanitse ku ijosi ry'umuhungu wabo utababaye. Mubisanzwe mubihe nkibi byimuka bitanga kimwe. Gerageza gufata aya mafranga nkibigega bidashoboka. Niba wabuze ubwishyu, ababyeyi babanje kubabaza, ariko niba ibisimba bikavuka, byanze bikunze bizakwibutsa rwose ko wasiba. Rimwe na rimwe, ababyeyi ubwabo basaba kwishyura konti zose. Niba uhatiwe kwemeranya nabo, hanyuma witabe andi mafaranga. Ibi birashobora kuba, kurugero, kugura ibicuruzwa bimwe. Rero, ntugaragaza ko umudepite wawe gusa, ahubwo ugaragaza ubwigenge. Ababyeyi bazakubona neza, uzobereka kubikorwa byacu, biteguye ubuzima bwumuryango.
Kubabyeyi, uzahorana abana, ariko ntibisobanura ko ugomba gukora ibikorwa bishimangira ibitekerezo byabo. Rangurura kandi ugaragaze ko uri abantu bakuru - nta nzira yo gusohoka. Gusa abana bato gusa bagerageza kurengera igitekerezo cyabo murubu buryo. Garagaza ibikorwa byawe by'ubwigenge. Ntugahangayike, ubuzima bwo gutanga kubizamini. Hitamo ibibazo byawe wenyine, nkuburyo bwa nyuma, saba ubufasha kubabyeyi. Igihe kirenze, bicisha bugufi kandi ntibazabangamira ubuzima bwawe. Gusa ntubaha impamvu.
Niba ubana nababyeyi bawe, umwanya wawe bwite ugarukira mucyumba cyawe. Biragoye guhisha inzika, kuko bidahagije gutongana mubisanzwe imbere yababyeyi. Gerageza kudafata amakenga mucyumba. Shakisha umubano wawe mugihe abanyamahanga badahari. Nibyiza kujya muri parike bityo ugaragaze byose aho ngaho, gusa ntutegure amakimbirane kubabyeyi.
Niba waje gutura munzu yundi, ugomba kubuza amarangamutima yawe. Ntamuntu ugusaba guhindukirira imbeba, ariko mubintu bagomba gukora. Birashoboka ko nyirabukwe adashobora gukosora ibikorwa byoroshye kandi bitose mumwanya wawe bwite, ndagunegura, tanga inama zitakenewe. Ibikorwa byose byavuza amayeri ya nyirabukwe bazi neza kuganira n'umugabo we, gerageza ntugutegure hysteria. Niba urira kandi usebanya, nyirabukwe na we, azanywa Valeriya, ushyira umugabo wawe mbere yo guhitamo bigoye. Bizaba hagati yamatara abiri. Ntukabishyire mbere yo guhitamo, ukundi umunsi umwe ntashobora kuba muburyo bwawe.
Ugomba kumva ko wemerewe muri iyi nzu nk'umukobwa, ariko nyamukuru muri iyi nzu ni cooler hamwe na nyirabukwe. Ni ba nyir'iyi nzu, bityo ugomba kwihanganira ingeso z'uyu muryango, nubwo batagukunda. Niba ugaragaje ko hejuru yawe - uzababara fiasco. Gerageza kuba abaturanyi beza. Bizaba byiza niba uzaganira kumwanya utandukanye mbere yuko umwanya wawe ukoraho.