Abagabo n'abagore mu binyejana byinshi binjira mu mibanire y'urukundo. Kandi muri societe hafi ya buri muntu hariho ishyingiranwa rituma uyu mubano. Muri icyo gihe, abantu b'isi barema kandi bubahe imigenzo yubukwe budasanzwe.
Imigenzo imwe n'imwe iracika intege natwe, mubandi tubona bisa, naho icya gatatu kandi na gato bisa ninyamanswa kandi bidashoboka. Nibura kwiyumvisha, ni ibihe bihe bishobora gufatwa nkibidasanzwe, tekereza nk'urugero, imigenzo yo mu gasozi yubukwe bwa mbere.Bahuta, ubwoko bw'u Rwanda
Reka dutangire, ahari, hamwe numwe mubyifuzo kandi icyarimwe birahari. Mu muryango wa Bakhut imbere y'abashakanye batangira ku nshingano zabo bidatinze, bagomba gutsindana. Byongeye kandi, umugore afite uburenganzira bwo gutsinda umugabo mushya ufite ibintu byose bizagera ku kuboko kwe gusa. Intambara imaze kurangiza umugore asohoka kwa se. Iyi nzitizi zose zo gukubitwa kandi irasa na se irakomeza neza icyumweru. Kandi amaherezo gusa, amaherezo bifatanije nigikorwa cyurukundo. Ukurikije umuryango, uyu mugenzo aragufasha gukuramo amarangamutima yawe yose, nyuma yubukwe buba umunezero kandi burebure.
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Umuntu arasaze, ndetse n'ishyaka ribabaza, kandi umuntu nyuma y'ubukwe byose atuje kandi mu mahoro. Naho, nk'urugero, Filipine, wabujije ijoro rya mbere mu gusobanukirwa, aho twese dutekereza. Gusa ikintu cyemewe kuba abashyikirwaho ni ugusinzira. Televiziyo isigaye ntizaremewe kuba maso mu buryo bwa bene wabo ndetse n'abashyitsi. Ibi byasobanuwe byoroshye cyane kandi byumvikana no ku ntaro: gukumira gusama ku nzoga.Umufasha ukomoka mu bwoko bwa Banyankokol, Uganda
Niba ubonye umugabo wawe uzaza bwa mbere kandi ufite ubwoba ko hari ibibi bizakora nabi, hamagara nyirasenge. Nyirasenge wumugeni wimiryango ya Banyankokol azamugendekera. Nkubuzima, ibyazwi cyane, uburyo ibintu bimeze muburyo bufite imbaraga kandi bishobora no kumuha ibyamubayeho. Nyuma yibyo, umugore numugabo bifatanye nurukundo rufite ubushobozi buke kandi butanga kuri mwene wabo.
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Muri Kenya, u Rwanda no mu bindi bihugu, aho bavugana n'ikimwaro, kimwe na Banyankol, ntabwo bisaba bene wabo munsi yigitanda. Kugira ngo abashyi bashyinguwe batitiranya ahantu h'urukundo byose bahisha, munsi y'uburiri bw'ubuntu, bene wabo bakuru b'umugore we bararyamye. Ari ijoro ryose mu ruhare rw'umujyanama, kandi igitondo kigeze, kivuga abandi bavandimwe, abasore bahanganye nubu bucuruzi cyangwa ntabwo.Etiyopiya: Amaraso Yambere
Iyo umugeni nyuma yubukwe bwinjiye mubyumba, bigomba byanze bikunze gufata igitambaro cyera hamwe na we. Abashyingiranywe bahabwa gukunda umunezero. Niba amaraso agaragaye arangije ku nkota, umugore yerekanye ko ari umwere umugabo we. Niba nta maraso, umugabo afite uburenganzira bwuzuye bwo guhana umugore we cyangwa kumutererana na gato.
Ubushinwa: "Inkweto zawe zikunda inkoni cyangwa ifi?"
"Ubushinwa ntibuzahagarika gutangaza." Iyo ubukwe burangiye kandi umugeni akuwe mucyumba, kandi umukwe agumana n'inshuti, hano ikintu cyamayobera gitangira. Inshuti magara zivanwa mumitsi irangire hanyuma utangire ... Baza iki? Nibyo ... Mumukubite hejuru. Nibyiza, byaba ari inkoni gusa, ariko ifi ijya mumasomo. Muburyo bwo gukubita, umukwe asabwa ibibazo byimvura kandi, niba aribeshya, amafi yatanzwe no kwihuta cyane. Abashinwa bemeza ko umuco nk'uwo utanga amahirwe yo kuba umukwe mu ijoro ry'ubukwe bwa mbere kugira ngo ube ku ifarashi. N'ubundi kandi, "amafi ku kigongo" atera imbaraga z'urupfu "viagra" neza.Tuniziya: "Namwe, ko buji yakoraga?"
Mu midugudu ya Tuniziya, umugabo amaze kurangiza iy'imyenda ye y'abashakanye, ashyira buji yaka ku idirishya. Ikimenyetso nk'iki kimenyesha abaturage bose ko ari byose, nk'uko byateguwe kandi ko umugeni amusanganira yari afite isuku na Nevinna.
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Mu buryo butandukanye no muri Tuniziya, aho abantu bo mu buji gusa bamenye ibyagezweho mu ijoro ry'Ubukwe, muri Polineziya, kugira uruhare mu magambo, ahubwo mu bikorwa. Mbere yuko umugabo abona umugore we ku buriri bwurukundo, inshuti ze zose zigomba kumubona. Ijoro ryambere ryumugeni rikoresha umugabo we hamwe ninshuti, kuva kumuntu mukuru kugeza umuhererezi. Iyi gakondo ifitanye isano numugani wa kera, bizera ko amaraso yumugore ukiri muto yatewe nabadayimoni. Kandi kugirango ashobore gusukurwa, inzira imwe rukumbi, nukuryamana ninshuti zose z'umugabo we. Gusa nyuma yibyo, uwo mwashakanye yemewe arashobora kwinjira mu bwicuti numugore we. Muri iki gihe, abandi bagore bo mumuryango baririmba cyane baririmba kandi babyina hirya no hino aho umuhango ufashwe.Mu bwoko bw'umuntu mu bwoko bwo kwinjira gusa
Mu bwoko bwa Nuer, muri Sudani, umugore we arabujijwe kujya mu cyumba cyo kuraramo umugabo n'umugore mushya n'umusatsi we ku mutwe. Kugira ngo umukobwa ahabwa uruhushya rukwiye, yogoshe umutwe yambaye ubusa. Kandi nyuma yibyo, abashakanye barashobora gukundana bwa mbere.
Iyi ntabwo ari urutonde rwuzuye rwimigenzo yo mu gasozi yubukwe bwa mbere mumico itandukanye. Kandi yego, reka iyi gasutamo yose isa nkaho yashushanijwe rwose kandi yihariye, ariko mubyukuri ibintu nkibi bituma tunezeza. Kubwibyo, indangagaciro zabantu zisi zigomba kubahana no kubaha.