Kubwamahirwe, abantu benshi muri iki gihe bahitamo kuguma muri "mabi", uburozi ", uburozi, kuko batinya kuba wenyine kandi bakane kunengwa nabandi. Ariko ukuri nuko irungu ridateye ubwoba rwose, kandi ntakintu nakimwe cyo guterwa isoni. Abakobwa hafi ya bose bafite ubwoba bwinshi bwo kuba wenyine.
Kandi barashobora kubemeza kubirukana, bizabatera kumva biteye ubwoba. Noneho basobanukiwe ko biteye ubwoba - kutagira irungu, ahubwo bigizwe nubucuti bwa "shit".1. Ntabwo bikenewe gutinya kuba umwe, utemerera kuba
Noneho, reka dutangire kubyo ukeneye kubana numusore utakwemera ibyo uri, kandi ntuha agaciro. Umusore udashobora kwakira amakosa yawe kandi ahora agerageza kugaruka "uburyohe bwawe." Umuntu unenga intambwe yumuntu, igutera kumva ko ntacyo ukora neza. Umusore utagufasha gukora ibyo ukunda, kandi akagabanya umudendezo wawe. Birakwiye kubitekerezaho kumunota no gusobanukirwa ko byoroshye kuba wenyine.
2. Nibyiza kumara umwanya wenyine kuruta sosiyete mbi
Impamvu ukeneye gutinya kugira irungu muri resitora ukunda, genda muri firime wowe cyangwa ujye guhaha wenyine niba wumva umerewe neza. N'ubundi kandi, birababaje cyane kubikora numuntu udakunda kumarana nawe kandi akareba ko ari inshingano zanze bikunze.3. Nibyiza gusinzira wenyine kuruta kubyuka iruhande rw'umuntu utazi
Yego, nta gushidikanya, rimwe na rimwe bibaho kuryama bibabaje kandi ukanguke wenyine. Ariko birababaje cyane kuruta kubyuka no kutamenya umuntu iruhande rwe, ninde watekereje mbere, urabizi neza. Ariko bifatika rwose ko nyuma yigihe gito umukunzi atazaba igikundiro, cyuje urukundo, bwuje urukundo, bwuje urukundo, yitonze numusore wimpuhwe wakundanye. Kandi birashoboka kwiyumvisha - kanguka iruhande rwumusore wahagaritse urukundo no kukwitaho, kugirango ubishaka ushatse.
4. Nibyiza gukora amakosa kuruta kuba hamwe nuwo musore
Amakosa ni igice cyubuzima, kandi akenshi nisomo ryingirakamaro ubuzima bushobora kutwigisha. Ntibikenewe gutinya gukora amakosa, kuko batwigisha ibyo ukeneye cyangwa udakeneye. Nibyiza gutinya kuba hamwe nuwo musore uzashuka amagambo n'amagambo meza n'amasezerano, ariko rwose ntazakunda.5. Ugomba gutinya kutagira urukundo, ariko ugakunda urukundo, utumva ukundwa wawe
Ntabwo bishoboka ko umuntu wese ushaka kubana numusore wibanda cyane kubintu byumubiri kuruta kumarangamutima kuruta kumarangamutima, ariko ubura amarangamutima nyayo, kandi akita cyane kugirango abone ibyo bakeneye. Ikubona cyane nkikintu kirenze nkumuntu ufite ibyo akeneye. Arakwiriye kubana na we ... ntabwo aribyiza gukundana numugabo wumva ususurutsa kandi ukunda.
6. Ibiganiro hamwe nabatumva
Mu byukuri, byari bihuye na buri wese - uvugana numukunzi, kandi "ni" ku mubiri gusa "kandi ntabwo ari ukumva witonze ibyo avuga. Tuvuge iki ku biganiro birambiranye n'umusore, ntaho bivuga. Cyangwa kunegura guhora kunegura, ibitekerezo byawe n'ibitekerezo n'ibitekerezo no kugerageza kumvisha ko ari byo buri gihe ari byo buri gihe azi ukuri, ariko ibitari byo. Kuki ukwiye kubana nabadashobora gukora ibiganiro birenze urugero kandi bishimishije ... kuko amaherezo bizarambirana.7. Ukeneye gutinya kutarira, ariko kubona imvune
Amosozi ntabwo ari ikimenyetso cyintege nke namba. Ariko birakwiye gutinya kubana numusore ushoboye kuzerera no kumena umutima uwo mwuka uhagije kubeshya no kubeshya utazaterwa isoni no gukora amasezerano y'ibinyoma no gutsindishirizwa mugihe yangiza ibintu byose . Si ngombwa ngo impungenge ntabwo kuko ushobora kurira, ariko ibyo ushobora kuba ufite guy akaba nta kwita ku byo wumva, kandi nta bagufata urukundo, icyubahiro n'impuhwe.
8. Nibyiza kuba wenyine, kandi ntabwo ari umusore utakwitayeho
Biroroshye cyane kwiga kwishimira irungu, no kutazitangira umusore udakwiriye ndetse numusumari wawe. Bikunze kubaho ko umusore ari umukunzi we, kubyo yahisemo, kandi ntabwo ashyira imbere ubuzima bwe.
Ugomba kuba hafi yumuntu ugutera kumva umukunzi wawe, urinzwe no kurangira amarangamutima. Umugabo ushobora kumva ibitekerezo bidasobanutse, umva amarangamutima, yavuze nta magambo, kandi akagera kuri ubujyakuzimu bwubugingo bwawe.