Hamwe n'ivuka ry'umwana, abagore benshi binjiza mu buyobozi kandi ntibajya ku kazi, bizera ko umugabo azafasha, abavandimwe bazafasha. Ariko, umwana azakura, atangira kujya mu ishuri ry'incuke, hanyuma ajya ku ishuri, kandi abarinzi b'ababyeyi buri mwaka ababaye bike.
Akenshi, abagore bavuga ko badakora, kubera ko bafite abana, ntugomba kubatera, ahubwo ntubitayeho kandi ubitayeho. Ariko abana mubyukuri ntabwo ari byinshi kandi bikenewe, cyane cyane iyo nyina ari kumwe nabo amasaha 24 kumunsi. Bitinde bitebuke, azaruha, azatangira kumena. Kuruhuka kw'abana birakenewe kuri uyu kandi uhimbye inzago w'incuke, kandi umugore ntashobora kwicara mu rugo igihe kirekire, kuko atangira gutesha umutwe no gutesha agaciro. Byongeye kandi, abagore bakora cyane basubira ku kazi, kugira ngo batatakaza impamyabumenyi no kubishyira mu bikorwa mu kazi. Nibyo, yego, intego yumugore ntabwo aribyose kwicara murugo no guteka Borchi, ariko gerageza kumenya ubushobozi bwawe mubice byose. Kubwibyo, iyo umugore avuga ko adakora, kubera ko afite abana - iki nikimenyetso cyinshingano. Abana bakeneye kugaburira. Gura imyenda yawe, kandi ntuzibagirwe wenyine. Ntamuntu wijeje ko umugabo we azahora afasha, kuko ashobora kugenda, agapfa. Noneho niki gukora umugore utihanganye cyangwa abana babo?
Ikindi kintu mugihe umugore avuga ko bikora, kuko afite abana.
Ntabwo ari ngombwa guhitamo akazi gafata umunsi wose no kugaruka bivuye inyuma rwose. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko akazi gatanga umunezero, kandi ntituba cortica.
Urashobora no gukora murugo niba ubishaka, kandi ntukicara ku mugabo wawe ku ijosi ugatekereza ko ubuzima bwanjye bwose buzakomeza. By'umwihariko iyo umugore afite abantu bakuru basanzwe bakuze, kandi biracyari umugore wo murugo. Ni ubuhe buryo bwo kwerekana ubuhanga bwe? Nibyo, umugore wo murugo ntabwo ari akazi, kuko batahabwa umushahara.
Ihute abana nuburyo bworoshye, kandi mubyukuri umugore ntiyemera ko ari umunebwe utagira akagero kandi ntashaka guhindura ikintu cyose mubuzima, yifuza ko azicara ku ijosi. Ariko mubihe nkibi, abakozi bahiga bakunze kubaho mugihe umugore bahatiwe kuva ahantu hasanzwe ahumuriza agatangira byose kuva bakururwa. Kandi biragoye cyane, biganisha kuri neurose. Imirimo irakenewe kubantu bose, kuva itayongereye kwishora mubuswa, tekereza kubitekerezo bidasanzwe. Kandi abana ntibazabyitaho neza.