Amaze kubahona numugabo, abagore bamwe mugihe kimwe bamenya ko nta byiyumvo byo kumukundana. Ntashaka gukomeza umubano, ashimangira icyuho. Guhanura ibizavamo, ugomba kwitondera ibimenyetso byubwenge.
Nigute ushobora kumenya ko urukundo rwashize:1. Iterambere ryimbitse ryo kujya mu bihe byashize
Niba bigoye kwibuka igihe cyanyuma hamwe nakundaga cyane ni hafi cyane, kubera ko umufatanyabikorwa amaze igihe kinini yarabyanze, dushobora kuvuga neza kubyerekeye kubura ibyiyumvo. Nubwo watsimbaraye kubyerekeranye, umuntu watoranijwe abona impamvu zifatika zo kwanga, bivuga iminsi ikomeye idasanzwe kumurimo, kubura igihe, kubura ibitotsi bidakira, nibindi.
2. Yararakara kandi akenshi arabura
Irarakara hafi ya byose - icyayi gikonje, ishati yanze amakosa yanze nabi, aryamye kuri slipape. Muri icyo gihe, aragaragaza cyane kutanyurwa no guhindurwa. Niba mbere yuko umukunzi apfa atigeze yemera kubyara ijambo ribi, noneho vuba aha yabaye ibintu bisanzwe. Kugeza igice cya kabiri kuririra noneho cyahindutse umwuga wacyo.3. Hariho amakenga akusakuwe kuruhande
Abagore ntibakeneye ibimenyetso bigaragara - barumva. Hafi ya buri mukobwa wese, wabayeho imyaka myinshi afite umugabo, arashobora kumva byoroshye ko umuntu abibona. Ahari ntabwo ari umubano mushya, ahubwo ni umukunzi hamwe na shyana rishya, gushyikirana hafi na mugenzi wawe kukazi. Muri uru rubanza, ugomba kumenya neza kureba terefone ye, mudasobwa igendanwa. Niba ibi ari ukuri, nibyiza rero gucana vuba ubumwe.
4. Yahagaritse kwitaho
Umuntu wuje urukundo akora byose kugirango igice cya kabiri cyoroshye. Bizafasha mubuzima bwa buri munsi, bizakemura ibibazo byumuryango kugirango ubuzima bwabagenye butaremereye buke. Ariko niba ibyiyumvo byacitse, noneho umuntu arareka kubikora, asiga byose kuri Samoneka. Kandi umusabe ubufasha ahinduka ubusa - ntacyo abyitwaramo.5. Ntabwo yerekana ko ushishikajwe nabafatanyabikorwa mubuzima bwite
Yari akiriho, aho umukobwa azimira nimugoroba, aho agendana nabakobwa bakobwa muri wikendi. Ntaba agita ku manywa, ntabaze nimugoroba, uko umunsi urangiye. Umufatanyabikorwa yabaye impfabusa ibiba mu gice cya kabiri, ni izihe gahunda y'ibiruhuko, iminsi mikuru, kuko afite gahunda zayo, aho ntahantu habereye.
6. Ntabwo bifuza kuvuga kubyerekeye umubano no guhubuka
Iremera ko bidakwiye kwitabwaho kandi ikoreshwa mugukiganiro. Ku mugabo, ibyo byose mubihe byashize, ariko aracyafite ubwoba kubyemera. Ariko, ibi bizabera vuba - umukunzi mushya ukimara guhurira munzira ye. Gushiraho umubano na we, agomba kumena umubano wa kera. Niba ibyo bimenyetso byose bimaze kugaragara, noneho, birashoboka cyane, kuzigama umubano bitinze. Kandi niba kubikora? Ahari bizoroha gutatana amahoro no kuvugana nabandi nkinshuti zishaje.