Abakunzi b'inshuti beza bamaze igihe kinini bashyingiranywe, kandi uracyicara mubakobwa? Ushaka gukundana numugabo ariko ntuzi icyo gukora? Nta njyanama iboneye kandi nziza yo gukunda umugabo. Guma uko ufite. Inzira zacu zizagufasha kumenyera umutima we kandi nkuyobore kuntego.
Mbere yo gukora, shakisha ibijyanye nabyo: Ibyo akora, hari umukobwa ukundwa, umugore nabana. Umugabo wubatse ntabwo azajya guhura byoroshye. Kandi urangije kubabaza. Uburyo 10 buzafasha gukundana numugabo 1. Ba umugore wigitsina kandi wijimye. Abagabo, mbere na mbere, witondere abagore bashimishije bakurikiza ishusho yabo, ntibirengagiza gutembera kuba Benetigicien, umusanganyiwe, wita ku maboko yabo kandi ukore manicure, imyambarire. Wambare agatsinsino nimitako kugirango wongere ishusho yawe. Nta zuba hamwe n'imyambi ukaze lacqueer ku misumari. Birumvikana ko ibi bizasaba amafaranga menshi, ariko birakwiye. Ugomba kumera gutya abagabo baturutse muri mwe udafite ijisho, abandi bazuzura ishimwe. Abagabo bumva batsinze mugihe hari ubwiza nyabwo kuri bo. 2. Buri gihe umwenyure kandi ube ubugingo bwisosiyete. Kumwenyura bivuye ku mutima no kureba neza - inzira nziza yo gukurura umugabo. Bakunda kuvugana nabagore bishimye bazumva inkuru ze zose no gusetsa. Aseka urwenya rwe, kabone niyo yaba yarabumvise mbere. Kunyurwa no kumwenyura bizakurura uwo ukunda. 3. Ishusho y'abagore. Gira ikinyabupfura kandi mwiza. Ntumwereke ikinyabupfura cyanjye cyose ibintu byabaye. Umuntu wese afite amahame, ariko ntigomba kuba anteye ishyaka, ubundi irungu uringwa. 4. Menya icyo arota. Umugabo agomba kumva kuruhande rwawe. Ibiganiro byoroshye mugihe birakajwe no kubigeraho mugihe uvuga ingingo zikomeye kandi bashishikajwe ninzozi ze no kwishimisha. Niba bisa nkaho inzozi zitazigera zisohora, komeza uko byagenda kose. Birashoboka ko yasanze imvugo nyayo kandi ashaka kongera kuganira nawe. 5. Ntukice imyifatire yo guhiga muri nyakubahwa. Iyo umugore akunda, biragoye kugerwaho. Niba warabyutse wenyine, umwiga kubeshya gato. Mbwira ko baguma ku kazi kandi ntuzashobora kuza ku munsi, jya kuri theatre hamwe nabakobwa bakobwa cyangwa bafite ibindi bihe. Nyuma yibyo, azatangira kugirira ishyari gukora, inshuti kandi azarambirwa. Ariko ntukagire byinshi: Gutezimbere kenshi hamwe namatariki, akazi gahoraho karashobora kandi kugira ingaruka mbi mubusabane. Umugabo ni umuhigi, reka aguhagarike. 6. Kurota ku muntu ukunda birashobora kureba igihe kirekire. Kora rero nawe kugeza amaso yawe ahurira. Ikiganiro nk'iki n'amaso kizaguha imbaraga ku matsinda y'abantu. Gerageza kunyerera mu bugingo. Nkuko mubizi, ibitekerezo byabagore bireba kandi birabakurura. 7. Uri impano nyayo! Gukundana numugabo, bimushoboke hamwe nimpano yeUrashobora kumutumira ngo mumusure kandi ugire ifunguro rya nimugoroba, kugirango uzarebe ubwoko bwiza uri mu gikoni. Mumuhe amahirwe yo kubona impano zawe zose. Inzira igana kumutima wumugabo ibinyoma ntabwo iri munda gusa. Birashoboka ko urishora mu mwuga mu maguru acukumbura - umwere. Erekana guhanga kandi uzane inzira zo gukomeza uwo ukunda hafi yawe. 8. Mushikiwabo-amayeri ntabwo abwira byose ako kanya kuri wewe. Kumwinjizamo, usige amabanga amwe muyindi nama. Gumana umugore w'amayobera, ntugaragaze ibyiyumvo byawe mbere, mugihe umukunzi wawe ubwe atemera gukunda. Ntukavuge kubasore bawe bashize. Ntabwo bishoboka ko bizamushimisha. Urashobora kubona ikintu uhuriweho hagati yawe, kizaba intangiriro nziza kandi izagufasha kwegera. Ntabwo bikenewe cyane kugirango dukundane numugabo. Humura! 9. Gusaba ubufasha. Abagabo bakunda kumva akamaro kabo. Saba ubufasha cyangwa inama, kugirango ubashe kwerekana uko wabishima. Ntacyo bitwaye nibibazo - gusana crane, mudasobwa, fata wallpaper kugirango usane, fata imbwa mubuvuzi cyangwa gutwara imodoka kuri shobuja. Imbere nawe kuri buri kintu gito, ariko ntukabike. Bitabaye ibyo, azatekereza ko udashobora gukemura icyo ari cyo cyose. 10. Mumuhe icyo ashaka. Shimira uwo mwashakanye mu bihe by'intege nke na miss. Uko urera cyane gushimira, ibyiza. Wige kubibona no guhimbaza impande ze nziza. Wubahe umukunzi wawe n'inshuti ze kandi ntugabanye umudendezo. Abagabo ntibakunda iyo duhamagaye buri minota itanu kuri trifles kandi tukabaza aho bari, hamwe na bo nibindi. Mureke rimwe na rimwe ubane n'inshuti, noneho azumva umeze umusaza mwiza iruhande rwe. Wibuke ko abagabo badakunda imyitwarire idahwitse hamwe nabakobwa bacarcena bategereje gusa impano zihenze ziva kumutware ku ifarashi yera. Wifashishe inzira zidasanzwe kandi uzashobora gusohoka nta kibazo, igikundiro kandi nta cyizere bakundana numuntu ubuzima bwawe bwose.