Niki umwana, bike cyane ufite inshingano kuri iki kibazo. Mu (we) imyaka mirongo itatu utakiri mubucuruzi. Batanu ni umutwe wawe rwose. Ariko kugeza urusebe rurangiye rwakuze, ukeneye gukora ikintu.
Iki kibazo gishobora kuba gifite impamvu eshatu zitandukanye, bivuze ko hariho uburyo butatu bwo gukemura. Birumvikana ko hariho ibibazo bivanze, neza, ntamuntu utanga uburyo bwo guhuza.
Abana badafite amaraso Blen
Nibyo, birashobora kuba imico gusa. Ariko nubwo utaha Imana, aspi irakura, ntamuntu uhanganye nomwigishe ibyapa buto "Nigute wategura abantu ubwabo."
Ijambo "Soussability" ubwaryo ntabwo risobanura nijambo "Sous Isabuble" - Itumanaho risabana ni rimeze, kandi societe irashobora kubimenya. Ibintu byose bizi uburyo: Uburyo bwo Kwegera Uwo ushaka kuvugana nibyo bavuga, nibikorwa, bibabaza abantu bababaza abantu n'imibanire. Mubisanzwe, ibyo bibazo biraganirwaho no kwiruka hirya no hino, guhera mu itsinda rya kabiri ryincuke.
Ku ishuri, umuntu usanzwe azi ko nta bucuti, ariko impano y'umwaka mushya cyangwa umunani muri Werurwe yongera amahirwe yo gutangira kuvugana n'umunyeshuri bigana, no kubyuka kwa comrade Imbere y'umwanzi - biteje akaga, ariko intsinzi nyinshi zizahitamo (kandi ziraterana n'abatavuga rumwe nazo, bidasanzwe, zizarushaho kubahiriza). Niba ushobora gufasha gusa njyanama gusa, ikibazo cyimpano mumaboko yawe - umwana arashobora kubazwa kandi nigitekerezo ubwacyo, kandi, birumvikana ko ugomba kwishyura. Kandi kubwibyo kugirango umenye impano yicyiciro gihagije kuriyi kipe yihariye y'abana. Hariho aho urupapuro rwabikomeye ruzafata icyemezo, kandi aha aho gusaba bigomba gucungurwa.
Muburyo, amafaranga n'amahirwe y'ibintu bizorohereza umwana gusa mugihe batarenze indangagaciro ziciriritse muri iyi kipe runaka. Mu matsinda atandukanye (ishuri, igice, ikipe), iyi nzoga) irashobora gutandukana, no kwemeza ko umwana wawe atabonye mumaso yitsinda haba mu nomero ya Noschlebhod, cyangwa Bourgeois, ugomba. Urashobora kubivugana numwana, ariko umwana ubwe arashobora kubivugira.
Ntamuntu numwe wo kuba inshuti
Uku kwikuramo imvugo akenshi bikoreshwa nabantu badahira, ariko ntibishoboka kubivuga mubyukuri bitabaho. Bibaho. Ishuri aho gukomera guma guma guma gukurikiranwa umwarimu, bazanga urubyaro, ntibihinduka bihagije kugirango babe batandatu kandi badahagije cyane kugirango babone umukumbi wose. (Ukwabo, murugo, birashobora kuba mubihe 70% byabana basanzwe. Ariko imbaraga zitsinda rimwe na rimwe zubaka grimace). Kandi ntanubwo mushya, ahubwo gusa kumuntu udashaka kuba mubi, cyangwa kurwanira imbaraga, mugihe cyiciro nkabo bizakomera.
Ko ibintu byoroshye kumva neza umwana wawe byoroshye kuvugana mubindi makipe. Kurugero, mubuhanzi, ibintu byose ni byiza, abakobwa nabahungu barahamagarira umwana wawe, barya ice cream nshuti nyuma yamasomo; Hamwe nabana b'inshuti zawe - byose nabyo ni byiza; No mu cyiciro cyo guhatana.
Ibi mubisanzwe bisobanura guhindura ishuri. Ariko byumvikana kuganira nabarimu ubushobozi bwo kongera gukora ishuri. Urugero mu ishuri, urugero, rushobora gutandukana numwaka utaha nyuma ya Gia (tekereza kuki). Muri rusange, abakomoka ku bana bakora ikintu cyingenzi kuri bo (kwitegura kwinjira mubyiciro, siporo cyangwa ibitaramo bya muzika, ikintu gito), umwanya muto bafite ninyungu mumikino yabagabo muri Alpha Omega. Icyiciro cyinshi rero gishingiye ku kigo cyingenzi ni icyiciro abana barimo kwikubita byinshi. Ahari rwose nibyiza kugenda.
Nta mihango yo gutumanaho
Ariko ibi nibyo, birumvikana ko umwana atararenga mirongo itatu - rwose inshingano zawe. Iyo myaka yarashize igihe mu gikari cya buri cyubahiro cyamagorofa atanu ni uguhitamo ibigo bitatu bya bagenzi bacu bafite amategeko atandukanye. Umwana ubwe ntazatera itsinda wenyine, ubu ni nkenerwa kwita kubantu bakuru. Niyo mpamvu tugomba gutwara urubyiruko rwincufuzi kubwoko bwose bwa mugs hamwe nitsinda ryibintu bitagaragara, aba bashushanya bose, ibipupe byo kudoda, ibipupe byo kudoda, amasoko yo kudoda ibipupe na siporo yamasoko yubunini ku bwinshi. Byongeye kandi, birakenewe guhitamo aho gukorera hamwe bisabwa kubana. Sitidiyo yo mu kinyanyoni, muri the way, muri rusange ahantu heza ho kuva kuriyi ngingo - kandi ushaka itumanaho nyaryo, kandi ntushaka kwiga, no kwerekana ikintu mubyabaye mugihe ibyo ukeneye. Abana ntibashobora no kuba inshuti magara mumyaka yambere yishuri; Ni ngombwa ko ingimbi z'umwana wawe zifite uruziga rwa bagenzi be bashobora koherezwa mu masezerano ya Piccchi ku buntu bwa piccchi. "Yego, Sista, urumva ukuntu ubuzima bukaze." Wowe ubwawe uzi akamaro.
