Kugera kumarangamutima biratandukanye cyane nuburinganire bwumubiri cyangwa mubitekerezo. Amarangamutima yabantu, cyane cyane akababaro, kubabara, kwiheba no guhangayika, ukunda kugaragara giturumbuka kandi byitwa "nta butumire." Rimwe na rimwe, birashoboka ko "ibintu byose bigenda kuri byose" kandi ntakintu kidashoboka guhindura ikintu na kimwe. Bituma gusa bigoye "kuva mumurongo ufunze".
Aya marangamutima (cyane cyane umubabaro) Buri asuzuma muburyo butandukanye kandi ashobora kumva cyane cyane mubuzima bumwe. Ariko niba ibintu nkibi bigoye gutandukana, gutakaza inshuti cyangwa uwo ukunda, kumva gutsindwa cyangwa kwanduza igihe kirekire, biba igihe kirekire, bibaho buri gihe, ariko ni gute kutababara.Hano hari ibintu 3 bigomba kwibukwa mugihe byunvikana
ko ibintu byose bigenda nabi
1. Kubihe byayo byose
Kimwe n'ibihe muri kamere, abantu nabo bahura nabyo "ibihe" mubuzima. Ibihe bimwe bishobora gusa kuba bigoye kubandi, cyane cyane iyo bigeze kumarangamutima nkumubabaro, umubabaro, kwifuza no kwiheba. Ariko kimwe na muri kamere, bafite intangiriro, no kwimuka mubindi "saison".
Birakwiye kubona umunota wo kwibuka imyaka itanu ishize. Birashoboka cyane ko abantu bose bayoboye ubwabo baragwa, kandi wenda undi mwaka undi muntu amenyerewe kurusha abandi. Kuri uwo byumwihariko, ibyabaye cyangwa numwaka bishobora kuba bigoye kubona "urumuri kumpera yumuyoboro."
Bikwiye kwizera ko nubwo bisa nkaho ibintu byose bigenda neza, hariho inzinguzingo. Kandi ibi bihe nabyo bigenewe gukura mumutwe, kumubiri no kubantu.
2. Ingaruka ya Domino
Mu bindi bihe, ubuzima buzasa mubuzima ibintu byose bisenyuka nkumurongo wamagufwa ya domino. Ariko birakwiye gutekereza, birashoboka ko iyi sanzure ishaka gukuraho umwanya wibindi, kandi ntamuntu numwe uzi ko yuzura uyu mwanya.Umuntu wese numuyobozi no mu rwego rwo kwerekana ubuzima bwe, bityo birakwiye rero kugerageza kumenya ibintu byose ukundi.
Uwatazwi arashobora kuba ikintu gishimishije, ariko kirashobora kandi gutera guhangayika kandi ukutamenya neza. Ibyo ari byo byose, iyi ntabwo ari imperuka, ariko "gusubiramo buto" kubizakurikiraho. Uku kweza umuntu ukeneye, kimwe no kwibutsa ko ashobora gukenera guhindura imyumvire ye.
3. Shakisha wowe ubwawe umunezero wa
Igihe kirageze cyo kurangiza hamwe nicyifuzo gifite intego yo kwishima no kwibanda kubintu bimeze nonaha kandi bizana umunezero. Umuntu wese ahanganira umubabaro muburyo butandukanye - gari ya moshi, akurura, kubyina, kuvugana ninshuti cyangwa amarana numuryango we.
Ukeneye gusa kubona icyo gishimisha umuntu. Ni kugiti cye kubantu bose, kubwibyo ntibishoboka gutanga akanama gashinzwe ubumwe. Bikwiye kuboneka ibintu bike bizana ibyumwuka, kumubiri kandi, cyane, uburinganire amarangamutima.
Nigute wabikora?
Tangira kubika ikarita kuminota 5 kumunsi
Ntacyo bitwaye niba umuntu ashaka kwandika cyangwa kutamenya, agomba kugerageza gushushanya, agerageza gukomeza kunyura, kumuha iminota 5 kumunsi, no kwandika ibintu byose muri iki gihe. Birumvikana, ubanza birasa nkaho arira, ariko ni iminota 5 gusa ushobora gukora aho gutwarwa na kaseti yo kunyerera ku mbuga nkoranyambaga cyangwa kureba TV. Kwakira byoroshye birashobora gufasha guhindura amarangamutima.
Ba rwiyemezamirimo benshi batsinze batangira umunsi wabo bashimira. Gusa urutonde rwibintu byoroshye umuntu ashima buri munsi, atangira kubona ibindi bintu agomba gushimira kumunsi. Hano hari inama zo gutangira:
- Ninde wahatiye kumwenyura mu masaha 24 ashize, n'impamvu uyu mugabo yazanye amarangamutima meza;
- haba kuri radiyo indirimbo idasanzwe yibukije umwanya wishimishije mubuzima;
- Tekereza ku cya cyariye mu gitondo n'uburyo byasabye imbaraga umunsi wose;
Umuntu akimara gutangira kureba utuntu duto azashimira, itangira kuba ingeso karemano, hanyuma itangira guhita itezimbere amarangamutima yose.
Menyesha umuntu ushobora kuvugana ninsanganyamatsiko rusange
Kuba infashanyo ni byiza cyane, ariko burigihe hariho umuntu ushobora kuvugana kurwego rwimbitse kandi rwihariye.
Ibihe nibihe buri muntu biratandukanye, kandi nubwo buriwese yizera ko ariwe muntu wenyine ushobora kubona ibyiyumvo runaka kubwimpamvu runaka, ntazaba arengana nabandi bantu bashobora kubyumva kimwe.
Gusohora bibaho murwego rutandukanye, ariko kumva akababaro k'umugabo nubusabane hari hafi burigihe.
Ubuzima bugenewe kutabaho wenyine, ariko hamwe nabandi.
Hindura imyumvire yawe
Reba uko ibintu bimeze iyo umuntu wa hafi apfuye. Biragoye kwerekana iki gihe cyo kwiheba no kwibizwa buhoro buhoro mumarangamutima, aho bigoye kugaruka.
Bikwiye kumvikana ako kanya ko nta shingiro ryibi puchin, kandi umuntu agomba kwihagarika kugwamo, akabona imbaraga zubushake bwo kuva mu nyenga yo kwiheba.
Guhindura imyumvire bihindura ibintu byose.
Dutanga ingero z'ibibazo bizafasha guhindura imyumvire iriho ubungubu imiterere n'ibitekerezo byiza n'ibitekerezo byiza:
- Ni iki ushobora kwigira kuri iki kibazo, n'impamvu yabaye ubu; - Nigute ushobora gufasha abandi icyo umuntu ahura nabyo; - Kuba mubi - byabafasha umuntu cyangwa umuntu ubwe.
Bikwiye kwitondera ko guhakana kandi agahinda ni amarangamutima abiri bitandukanye rwose. Kubabajwe - birasanzwe, kandi rimwe na rimwe ugomba kwibonera aya marangamutima; Ariko ubukana rimwe na rimwe buturuka mu mubabaro utagira imipaka.
Shyira imbere
Ugomba kwishyira mu mwanya wa mbere, cyane cyane mubihe bigoye cyane. Abantu bose baratandukanye, kandi nta gisubizo cyoroshye kandi cyoroshye kubibazo byumubabaro.Niba ibi bifasha, urashobora kuzenguruke kubantu, ntacyo bitwaye kugirango umuntu arangaza, cyangwa kugirango umuntu agira impuhwe. Undi arashobora gufasha kuzimya terefone igice cyumunsi no guta agaciro kwisi yose. Niba umuntu ahisemo kuba wenyine kurekura amarangamutima yose, cyangwa guceceka byuzuye no kwigunga - ukeneye kubigura.
Umuntu akimara kwiyenyine atangira kwishyira imbere ya mbere, azatangira kugaragara muyindi nzego z'ubuzima.
Shaka impuhwe kandi uyashyire wenyine
Impuhwe ntabwo buri gihe ari ubuhanga butangwa kuva kuvuka, rimwe na rimwe nubuhanga bwo kwiga. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko, hari ibice bimwe mubuzima ko ntamuntu numwe ushobora kumva neza niba atanyuzemo. Mubihe byinshi, ibi birashobora kuba ubwumvikane bwibyabaye.
Agahinda n'umubabaro ni amarangamutima azima yabayeho nabantu bose. Burigihe nibyiza gushaka ubufasha hafi, cyane cyane hamwe na bande hariho isano idasanzwe.
Tumaze igihe runaka kugirango tugaragaze impuhwe abandi bantu nububabare bwabo, urashobora kumva isano nini nuyu muntu wihariye, kabone niyo ntangabura ibyabaye, kuko ababaye. Na none, impuhwe zirahora zisubira inyuma.