Benshi bizera ko ibyo bigomba kuvuka bifitanye isano, ubushobozi runaka bwo kureba ejo hazaza, gusa abahanga no kubyemera kandi bizeye ko bafite ibyiyumvo byinshi, buri mugore ashobora gutsimbataza ibyiyumvo nk'ibi.
Ubushishozi ni iki? Benshi bahisha ubushobozi ndengakamere. Mubyukuri, ntakintu ndengakamere kirimo. Nubushobozi bwubwonko bwo gusesengura ibyabaye kandi hashingiwe kuri iri sesengura kugirango dukore ibibanza biri imbere. Cyane cyane, ubwonko burashobora gukora nijoro no guhanura ibindi bintu, ibyo bikaba bibi kuri benshi bifatwa nkinzozi zubuhanuzi. Ubu bushobozi bushobora gutezwa imbere kandi nibyiza gukora ibi, kuko bishobora guhindura ubuzima kubwibyiza.
Ikibazo gikwiye
Ni ngombwa kwiga uburyo bwo kubaza ubwonko bwawe ikibazo cyiza. Niba umuntu atazi gutegura neza ikibazo, ntugomba gutegereza ko ubwonko buzashobora kubisubiza. Kugira ngo abone, ni ngombwa cyane kwerekana neza inshingano nka mudasobwa. Ikibazo cyinyungu kigomba kuba gifatika, byateguwe neza. Baza ikibazo nk'iki rero gikwiye kuba wenyine. Witondere kubikora mbere yo kuryama, ariko mugihe kimwe ntugerageze kwishakisha, kuko bizaba arihiza, atari ukuri, ariko birashobora kugira ingaruka kubisesengura ryamakuru hamwe nubwonko. Nyuma yikibazo kimaze kubazwa, bigomba kumukurwa, reka ibitekerezo bye. Niba ibintu byose bikozwe neza, ubwonko ubwabwo buzabona igisubizo kandi buzabigaragaza rwose, burabibwira.Uburyo bwo kubona igisubizo
Iyo ubwonko busanze igisubizo cyikibazo, arashobora kubyerekana mu nzozi. Iyo ubushishozi bwatejwe imbere, igisubizo cyikibazo gishobora kuza hafi ako kanya. Byemezwa ko aribwo buryo bwa mbere ko ubwonko bwari bugizwe n'ubwonko, kandi ntabwo buhimbwa n'umugore. Ugomba gufata iki gitekerezo ukabyizera. Kandi rimwe na rimwe ibi bizagorana gutuma bigorana, kubera ko bidashoboka kubona ibisubizo byifuzwa, rimwe na rimwe biragaragara ko bigaragaye ko bigoye kubyizera. Mugihe cyo guteza imbere ubushishozi, ni ngombwa kwiga gutega amatwi wowe ubwawe nuwawe, nkuko ijwi ryimbere rivuga, kimwe nabantu bose hari ibisubizo byose kubibazo byingenzi.
Iyemere
Abagore benshi bahura nibibazo nkibi iyo batumva uburyo bwo kwiyandikisha mubyukuri cyangwa ubundi, kandi bahitamo nabi, kandi iyo namenye abizerwa, kubera ko igitekerezo cya mbere cyari ukuri, ariko nticyashobora kubikwa. Bibaho rero kandi byitwa kutizera wenyine. Twakwiga kwakira ibisubizo, ibyo aribyo byose, gufata neza igitekerezo cya mbere cyoherejwe nubwonko, kandi ntabwo byagaragaye ko bimaze kuba ubwabo, hashingiwe kubyifuzo bihari.Fasha gutekereza
Ubwonko biroroshye cyane gukora mugihe imyumvire yumugore ikuweho, ntabitekerezo rwose birimo. Kugira ngo ubigireyo, ugomba kwiga igihe gito wibagiwe byose kandi igisubizo cyiza kiri muri uru rwego cyo kuzirikana. Wige neza mucyumba cyijimye ufite amaso afunze muburyo bworoshye. Wibande kuri ibi bigomba kuba biri imbere yijisho kandi ntibigitekereza. Ku ikubitiro, umushyitsi w'umubonano ufite intege nke azumva afite ibibazo nk'ibi, kuko buri gihe atari ukutatekereza ku kintu icyo ari cyo cyose, ariko igihe cyagenwe bizaba byiza kandi byiza. Mugihe cyo gutekereza, ubwonko buzashobora gukora cyane nta kwivanga no gutanga ibisubizo kubibazo umugore yibajije.
Ibisubizo binyuze mu Mwana.
Ibitotsi byabagore nabantu bose bafitanye isano itaziguye nibyiciro, aho amakuru yose yihishe, harimo ninshaka kumenya. Inzozi z'amarangamutima mubisanzwe ntabwo zitwara amakuru yingirakamaro kandi irashobora guhamya gusa ibibazo byumugabo. Kumva izo nzozi, ibikorwa bibaho mubyukuri, kuko mubisanzwe bitwara amakuru yingenzi, bavuga ibyabaye mugihe cya vuba.