Igice cya mbere cyubuzima gihingwa kuri stereotypes - kuburyo twagerageje kwigobotora hamwe nubufasha bwa psychotherapiste babifashijwemo na psychotherapiste. Turasaba ko dukiza abana bacu amafaranga make nigihe, kandi tugerageze kubohora mumasezerano yibicucu. Byongeye kandi, ntabwo bigoye cyane, nkuko bigaragara.
Hamwe nijimye - iburyo, hamwe nubururu - ibumoso
Uratekereza rwose ko umukobwa atuma umukobwa winyenzi wijimye, kandi umuhungu ni umupira wamabuye? Cyangwa ibyo abahungu batarira, kandi abakobwa ntibazamuka ibiti? Bareka rwose kubikora niba bibujije. Kubwirizwa, urashobora no guha umukobwa igipupe adashimishije, kandi umuhungu ni pistolet aho kuba ifarashi ye yakundaga. Ndetse ingirakamaro cyane - kurinda umukobwa muri tekiniki zose, kandi umuhungu ava muri byose burimunsi.
Mbega ubwoba niba umukobwa azakusanya amakarita kandi yigeze kurenga ku ndogobe ku vettel, n'umuhungu, Uwiteka araturika, ahura nigipupe. Bizamugendekera bite? Arashobora gukura ... Data!
Imiterere yuburinganire nimwe mubidasanzwe kandi byangiza. Ntugarukira umwana ukurikije ibitekerezo byibinyoma abahungu nabakobwa ari isanzure ribiri. Nta bushakashatsi bwiza bwa siyansi cyemeje ko ubwonko bw'umugabo bushishikajwe no gushakisha ibintu n'ibitabo, kandi igitsina gore kikarishye gusukura no guhanagura pop.
Inyungu zidasanzwe
Umwana utarakariye Triton yakozwe ku giti cye, yubaka urwibutso rwa shelegi yo gulum n'amafi meza, ndetse n'umwaka mushya wambaye vampire? Nyirakuru aho kuba Skihar yatwitse Bram Stoker ku nkono, muvumling: "Imitekerereze iragenda ikura, itesha agaciro ..."?
Inyungu zabuze n'itandukaniro rinini nuko igitekerezo cy '"ubwiza" cyuzuye bitewe n'imyaka, akenshi bihatira imyaka, akenshi bihatira abantu babuza kubuza ko Ban Tchad "Bako". Inyungu zabana batangajwe ko badakwiriye, kandi umwana ubwayo ni umukene kandi agomba kurambika mu buriri bwa interineti bwateganijwe.
Umuryango uhiga abantu badacogora "umwana ukwiye", kandi kubwibyo kandi umuntu mukuru utishimye, udashoboka gutanga ikintu cyingirakamaro. Nyuma ya byose, iterambere ryimura ibitekerezo bishya nibidasanzwe. Kandi ntabwo ari ibyifuzo byose byo kubahiriza amategeko yo kukujyana no gukubita umutwe kuberako umeze nka buri wese. Icyatsi, kirambiwe, ubwoba.
Imikino iteje akaga
Bonfires, kumanuka hamwe na aqualung mu iriba, parasute kuva kumpapuro na Tarzanka hejuru yumusozi ... byose ni bibi. Cyane cyane iyo umubyeyi arambuye kugirango agwe kandi abubuza byose - byose. Abantu bakuru biroroshye kubuza imikino, kuruta kumara amasaha make kugirango bigishe umutekano wumuriro, kandi urashobora kubyumva - twese turi abantu babaho kandi burigihe dushaka ko turi inyuma yacu.
Kandi ariko iki nicyo cyabaye mugihe bidashoboka ko bidakora. Nibyiza cyane kureka umuriro wumuriro uturutse ahantu hizewe kugirango werekane akaga kabikorwa kuruta kwihutira kubaga urutoki no kwibaza cyane. Ntukibuze, ariko kwigisha kwegera akaga kuruhande rwiburyo - Hano hari isomo ryingenzi rikwiye kwigwa icyarimwe tujya mu bisekuru bibiri.
Ubuhanga butagira akamaro
Ababyeyi bakunze kwizera ko umwana agomba kuba ahuze cyane ningirakamaro gusa, ibikorwa biteza imbere. Nkigisubizo, benshi muritwe dushishikariza ko hazabaho inyungu zamabaraga kandi zitsindishirize igihe cyakoreshejwe, kandi bivuga gusuzugura amasomo y'abana badafite akamaro. Muri buri murongo, turashaka kubona ukuboko k'umuhanzi primavist, muri buri cake ya sandy - igishushanyo cyubwubatsi, cyangwa uwashushanyije. Bitabaye ibyo, kuki byose?
Kandi ibi aribyo byose - gushimangira icyizere ushobora guha isi yawe. Kandi ntacyo bitwaye ko bizaba inzoka yibicucu, collage sloppy cyangwa urugendo rwakozwe ku nkono. Ni ngombwa ko iki cyizere aricyo umwana wawe ufite agahinda azashobora kwishingikiriza mugihe kizaza. Hanyuma, ntazahindukira umwanditsi, asya urukundo runini kubera imyaka 20 yo kumushyikiriza isi, umufotozi udatunganye cyangwa ufite impano, yonyine. "
Cyangwa niyo itabangamira ubwenge. Ibi ntabwo ari ngombwa. Reka yandike inkuru idasanzwe kandi izakora amashusho arambiranye kwisi, mubijyanye no gutumanaho nisi hamwe nisi mu rurimi rwe bizamushimisha cyane. Kandi ibi biranezeza nikintu kidashobora gutakara muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Ntibishobora kandi byose.
