Abagabo bose ibyo aribyo byose, birashobora kugabanywamo ubwoko buteganijwe. Bamwe muribo bakwiriye umubano ukomeye, nabandi bagomba gukora, ariko hariho ibyo bifitanye isano ugomba gutanyagura utabitekereje. Muri iyi ngingo, kuri ibyo no kubwira, kimwe no kubara.
Tyran
Birashoboka ubwoko bubi bwabagabo. Umugore aramwiringira, arareba yitondera kandi akabyitaho, kandi we, aho kumugaragaza urukundo yamufitiye, akoresha amaboko - intandaro kandi agasuzugura. Igihe kirageze cyo guterera stereotype "gukubita" mu mutwe wanjye, "kandi ikunda" - mubyukuri, ibintu byose bimeze neza yego, bitandukanye, niba bidakunda rwose kubaha ndetse nibindi byose ntibikunda ndetse birenze ibyo. Wibuke rimwe na rimwe, niba umuntu yazamuye ikiganza rimwe - rwose bizaba ibihe bikurikira, niyo yaba atabihakana.Iyo tumaze gutinya kuvugana na polisi, ntutekereze ku "Ninde kandi uzatekereza iki" - ubuzima bwawe kandi ubeho neza kuri wewe ugomba kuba uw'ibanze. Kandi ntuzigere wemera ko "ibi ntibizongera kubaho."
Uburyo bwo Kubara
Ubwoko nk'ubwo bwabagabo busenga gusa inkoni hafi ahantu h'uburinganire, rimwe na rimwe ndetse n'amaboko akurura. Indi miterere itandukanye ya Tirana igaragarira kubera ko akunda gusenyuka mu gice cye kubera kunanirwa kwe, nubwo umugore yabigizemo uruhare rwose. Yavunitse na shobuja - azakina saa kimwe cya kabiri, ntabwo yaturikiye umunsi we - azakinwa na we umudamu we. Nanone, Tyras akenshi ntiyikunda iyo umugore wabo ahura nabakunzi babo, inshuti ndetse na bene wabo.
Uburyo bwo kutesha agaciro
Birakwiye kuvuga ko umubano nk'uwo utazaganisha ku kintu cyiza. Nta gushidikanya, gutandukana na Tyran biteye ubwoba - ku mugore utangira kuzamura iterabwoba na nyuma yo gutekereza gato byo gutandukana kuruhande rwe. Ariko nubwo byari biteye ubwoba gute, ukeneye kumva ikuzimu bizahinduka ubuzima, niba ibi bidakozwe - nyuma ya byose, Tiran, yabonye ko ntamuntu uziyandikisha, ubushake Injira mu burakari bwinshi. Mubikabije, urashobora guhora wahamagara abapolisi bazarinda.Warrans Tyran
Nubwo yarushijeho kwikura, aba bagabo nabo bari akaga. Umwuga ukunda utubitse utubatswe - Gukoresha nabandi. Kubantu, birasa nkibitangaje, ariko abo bahagarariye igitsina bukomeye barashobora gutangira kurira, gufunga cyangwa gukora ikindi kintu kidasanzwe, gusa kugirango babe impuhwe, kandi babone icyifuzo. Birasekeje, ariko hariho icyiciro cyabagabo batuje rwose ntabwo babizi, kandi niba abivuze, noneho igitugu kikangura.
Uburyo bwo Kubara
Niba nyuma yibibazo, aho gukemura ibibazo, umugabo atangira kwishora mu kwishora mu kwihitiramo, kandi rimwe na rimwe akaba arira - niba ibi bibaye buri gihe, mu rubanza rwa mugitugu witwikiriye. Kandi niyo yaba ari yo nyirabayazana w'amakimbirane - umuntu nk'uwo ntazigera asaba imbabazi uwambere, cyangwa arabikora wenyine.Uburyo bwo kutesha agaciro
Niba urukundo rwuyu mugabo ari kinini, noneho urashobora gutanga inama usibye gutembera mumitekerereze, kandi nibyiza kumusanga hamwe na kimwe cya kabiri. Ariko ntibizoroha kubikora, abo bagabo ntibatwitse hamwe no gushaka gusura "Mozgograva". Ariko biracyaza guhagarika gusa umubano wuburozi, kandi uyite witonze kugirango uwo ukunda atavunika.
Umwana w'iteka
Aba bagabo bakunda ubuzima butababariye bashaka kuguma mu bwana - bashinzwe bikabije ubwabo, kubera ibyo, ntibashobora kugira umuryango, kubera ko bafite ibibazo bihoraho ku kazi no muri sosiyete. Infantilsm nikibazo kinini.Gusa ikintu bashimishije cyane ni ukumara umwanya wo kumara umwanya kandi ntukite kubintu byose. Abagabo nk'abo bakonja n'inshuti, bakunda kunyura muri club nijoro, icara imbere ya mudasobwa kumikino no kurengana amafaranga. Ariko ikintu cyose kireba akazi ninshingano kuri bo bisa na nijoro. Niba akiri kandi ahitamo gushaka umugore interuro, bityo kugira ngo ashyireho icyaha ku buzima bwe kugira ngo yinjizemo amafaranga, agaburira, aramwita, mu gihe yishimira inyungu zose.
Uburyo bwo Kubara
Umuntu nkuyu ntashobora kwiyitaho na gato, ndetse n'ibyemezo bito biratinya. Akenshi batinya guhamagara abantu batamenyereye cyangwa mumuryango. Ntibakunda gufasha umugore uzengurutse inzu, gusa niba we ubwe atabisabye. Gushyikirana nabantu bitangwa nabi (kutagira urujijo no kwinjiza), kandi ikiruhuko kije mubukwe, kiragerageza gufunga ikiganiro.
Uburyo bwo kutesha agaciro
Ntabwo byari gukumirwa nakazi hamwe numutego wa psychologue, kuko akenshi imyitwarire yabantu biterwa nuko bambuwe ubwana bwabo, nuko bagerageza gufata. Inzobere izafasha gukemura ikibazo no gushyira ibintu byose. Ubundi buryo ni umugore niba ashaka kuba hafi yumugabo nkuyu, ugomba gufata umwanya wa mominse kandi ntukite kuri njye ubwanjye, ahubwo wite kuri njye gusa, ahubwo unakunda. Hariho ubundi buryo - igice no gukomeza inshuti. Birasekeje, ariko ni ubwoko bwabantu bworoshye, kandi mubyukuri nta kibazo bakomeje kuba inshuti.Umuhungu wa Mamienekin
Ijambo rya mama ku mategeko nk'abo. Nubwo ishyingiranwa ryanyu rihindura imyaka 10, mama azakomeza kumubera ingenzi kuri we. Nubwo waba ufite umubano mwiza na nyirabukwe kandi aragutera imbaraga kuri wewe, aracyashaka ko umuhungu we aba hafi y'ijipo cye. Kandi hano, nukuvuga, ikibazo kirashobora kugendera muri nyina, gishobora kuba umunyagitugu wihishe.
Uburyo bwo Kubara
Biroroshye cyane kumenya - nkuko bimaze kuvuga, buri gihe afite nyina muri byose, biramugirira, kandi atari babiri muri mwe (wowe na we, we na nyina). Kandi mu bihe bitavugwaho rumwe, muri 99.9% by'imanza biri kuruhande rwa nyina, ntabwo ari kuwe, nubwo bigaragara neza.Uburyo bwo kutesha agaciro
Niba utuye munsi yinzu imwe - ugomba gutekereza cyane hejuru yimuka. Nibyo, birashobora kuba ikibazo, ariko bitabaye ibyo ntacyo bizakora. Ubundi buryo nukwemera gusa no kugandukira ko nyina azayobora ubuzima bwumuryango wawe. Bika umubano nk'uwo biragoye, ariko birashoboka, ariko, kubwibyo ukeneye icyifuzo cya byombi nibizaba byiza, ubufasha bwa psychologue.
Ubunebwe
Ku muntu nk'uwo, rwose umugore azahanagurwa rwose, kandi ateke, kandi afite isuku, kandi hagati aho bizahanagura umwobo mu buriri muri sofa. Ntazigera azamura ingingo ye ya Gatanu ahantu nyaburanga byibuze gufasha umudamu we ku ntera ye, arangiza imvugo ya mbere "ananiwe ku kazi." Birashobora kugereranwa na kashe, kuko Arya gusa, kubeshya kandi umwanya umwe gusa kumwanya wo gukora.Uburyo bwo Kubara
Biroroshye cyane - Akenshi akunze kuba abanebwe cyane kugendana nawe. Ntugomba gutegereza ibikorwa bimwe bimubayeho, ndetse bikarushaho gufasha urukundo. Buri gihe ahora kuri byose ubunebwe.
Uburyo bwo kutesha agaciro
Kugirango hanone ubupfura icyubahiro nkubwo, ntikizaba urugero rwo kwandika muri siporo - ibikorwa byumubiri birazwi, bigira uruhare mugutezimbere imisemburo yumugabo testosterone, bizarushaho gukora cyane. Nibyo kugirango amwirukane muri siporo ntabwo byoroshye.
Urashobora kugerageza kumwigisha buhoro buhoro, ukabigira buhoro. Kandi ubundi buryo bugomba gufata inshingano z'umuja no kumwitaho, kuzana no gukurura ibyo azabaza byose.