Imyizerere nk'iyi ijya mubantu abagabo batashimishijwe na gato nuko abagore bababaza ibibazo - ariko twizeye ko ikintu cyingenzi ari ukubaza ubushobozi.
Mubikoresho byacu turagusaba kumenya ibibazo umusore agomba gusabwa gukurura ibitekerezo no gutera inyungu.
Abagabo ba none ntabwo bose bakunda "intambwe yambere", rero rimwe na rimwe abagore bagomba gufata byose mumaboko yabo. Abagabo benshi, mu buryo bunyuranye, bashimishijwe cyane n'abagore bashobora gutangira kuvuga no kwinjira mu kiganiro. Ariko, kugirango umugabo agushime, ugomba kumenya aho watangirira.
- Ibibazo byintangiriro - ibibazo byo gukundana. Baza, niba udashobora guhura ahantu hose (nubwo waba uzi ko atari ukuri). Kurikira isura ye - abagabo byibuze bafite umutinginga kuruta abagore kurusha abagore. Baza mu buryo butaziguye, yaba ubuntu - abagore b'injiji akenshi bishimira gutsinda mu bagabo. Baza ikibazo kijyanye n'ubwoko bw'imyumvire ye - yari atekereza cyangwa kineette.
- Ibibazo kugirango ukomeze ibiganiro. Niba umaze gucunga gukurura ibitekerezo no gushimisha umuvugizi, urashobora kwimukira kubibazo nkibi bizagufasha kongera imbaraga ze kumuntu wawe. Kurugero, umubaze kubyerekeye ishusho yubuzima bwe, kubyerekeye abakunzi be murugo, kubyerekeye ubwoko bwa cinema n'ibitabo, aho areba umuziki cyangwa gushushanya. Urashobora kubaza ikibazo cyakemuco? Kubijyanye no gusomana neza mubuzima bwe cyangwa ahantu hadasanzwe, aho umufasha wawe aryamanye ayikurura mu bagore, ubwoko bwegereye, ibyo akunda mu mibanire irakaza.
- Ibibazo bifite urumuri. Ubu bwoko bwibibazo bukwiriye neza abashakanye, bimaze kuba mubucuti - kubashaka kubagarukira kugirango babe urumuri cyangwa kubitwika bwa mbere. Baza umugabo wawe ko, uko atekereza, akwegera cyane - reka yishimire. Icyo atekerezaho mugihe utari kumwe, ni ibihe bitekerezo mumusura, nikihe gice cyumubiri kimukwegera cyane mubucuti bwe mubucuti bwe.
Ikintu nyamukuru ntitinya kubaza ibibazo bisa. Gutonyanga no guhindagurika, emerera umuntu wahisemo kwishimira ikizere kandi yishimira igikundiro cyawe. Nibyo, ntugomba kwibagirwa guherekeza ibibazo byawe hamwe no kureshya no kumwenyura byoroshye, amayobera. Kuva nkivanze cyane, ntamuntu numwe ushobora kunanira.