Amayi azimayi amakono wazaka 30 amawoneka kuti amawoneka kuti ndiosavuta kusokoneza anthu 20 okhala ndi zaka 20. Ndiwokongola komanso wachichepere, ndipo sizowoneka chabe, komanso za machitidwe awo, mawu ndi thupi. M'malo mwake, azimayi omwe ali ndi kusiyana zaka 10 akuwoneka ngati anzanu. Koma bwanji lero pali zinthu zofananira.
1. Sakumana ndi zaka zambiri komanso zinthu zina zambiri.
Zokwanira, zaka zimathandizanso kukhala omasuka m'zinthu zambiri, kuphatikiza zaka komanso kudziona za pagulu. Anthu wazaka 30 ali wolimba mtima komanso ndi nkhawa pazomwe amaganiza za iwo. Izi zimawapangitsa kukhala osangalatsa komanso okongola.2. Amatsatira zochitika zamakono
Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kusiyanitsa mayi wazaka 20 kuchokera wazaka 30, chifukwa azimayi amakono amatsatira zomwezo. Mu 20-30, amatha kugwiritsa ntchito zodzolazo, kuvala ma jeans ofanana, ma t-shirts ndi zonse zomwe zimakhala nyengo ino.
3. Amatha kugula zinthu ndi ntchito
Pofika zaka 30 anthu ambiri amamvetsetsa zomwe akufuna m'miyoyo yawo, ndipo amakhala ndi mbiri ya bizinesi. Ndipo ngakhale zitakhala zonse izi sizinachitike, atsikana amakhala ndi zokumana nazo zomwe ndizofunika kwambiri. Mwachitsimikiziro zotsimikizika pofika nthawi ino, amayi amapeza ndalama zambiri kuposa zaka 20 (atalandira maphunziro kapena akamagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yayitali), kukaonana ndi saloni wokongola.4. Adapeza kalembedwe kawo ndikupitilizabe kuyang'ana
Mwanjira ina, wazaka 30 - m'badwo wa Godede kuchokera pakuwona chithunzicho. Pofika nthawi ino, mkazi ali kale: Amamvetsetsa kuti ndi yoyenera, ndipo sichoncho, iye adapeza kulimba mtima kuti ayeseke ndi izi, komanso ali ndi ndalama zoti achite izi, komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zida zapamwamba kwambiri.
5. Amadzilemekeza
Tangoganizirani izi: Wokondedwa wanga sanayitane, anayang'ana kutali usiku usiku wonse, ndipo mumangoyang'ana m'mawa. Kapena sanadutse mayeso. Kapena kunanyoza abwana kuntchito. Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri zosiyanasiyana, koma mulimonse, azimayi achichepere 30 amakhala osavuta kuthana ndi mavuto ndipo nthawi zambiri amalira pamavuto ang'onoang'ono. Ndili ndi zaka, anthu amakhala odekha, amalemekeza nthawi yawo komanso kuyankha mobwerezabwereza maselo awo amanjenje: Chifukwa chiyani amagwiritsa ntchito zomwe zilibe kanthu?6. Amadziwa zomwe akufuna.
Aliyense wazaka 20 zapitazi sanasunthike: Ali ndi zokonda zambiri komanso zosangalatsa, akuyang'ana njira yake ndi zovuta zomwe amagwera mchikondi. Mkazi ali ndi zaka 30, ali ndi chidziwitso chabwino kwambiri cha zomwe akufuna pamoyo wake, ndipo amachita zonse kuti akwaniritse zolinga zake. Ndipo kudzidalira kumakhala kokongola nthawi zonse.
7. Adaletsa kusatsimikiza kwawo
Kapenanso anangophunzira kuti azikhala nawo. Munthu aliyense ali ndi "mabwana" ake: Steopatypes, kusatetezeka, wamanjenje. Munthu akayamba kungoyamba kukhala pawokha, mitsempha imatha kudutsa nthawi iliyonse. Koma pofika 30 amatha kulimbana ndi mavuto ake, kapena amaphunzira kukhala nawo, ndipo zimapangitsa mkazi kukhala wokongola.8. Amadyetsa bwino
Zachidziwikire, ndizosatheka kunena kuti ana azaka 30 samadya zakudya mwachangu konse, koma amazichita zochepa, ndipo nthawi zambiri, sinthani zakudya zawo zonse. Amayi amalankhula zokhudzana ndi zomwe amadya, ndikuwakonzera nthawi zambiri kuposa achichepere. Njirayi imathandiza khungu lawo, momwe amaonera komanso momwe amaonera. Amayi 30-wazaka 30 amasangalala kwambiri ndi thanzi lawo.
9. Amamvetsetsa kuti nthawi zonse amakhala okongola
Mkazi akakhala ndi zaka 20, akuganiza kuti nthawi zonse zizioneka motere: kuti thupi lake lidzakhala lokongola komanso lathanzi, ndipo khungu lidzakhala lomveka. Chifukwa chake, ana azaka 20 nthawi zambiri samadzisamalira. Koma mkazi ali ndi zaka 30, akumvetsetsa kuti tsogolo layandikira kwambiri kuposa momwe limawonekera, ndikuti inali nthawi yoti ayambe kusamalira thupi lake ndi malingaliro. Amayi azaka 30 akufunitsitsa kukhalabe athanzi ndi aang'ono, ndipo amakopa anthu ambiri.
Chinthu chachikulu ndikukumbukira kuti m'badwo uliwonse uli ndi zabwino zake, ndipo muyenera kuwaphunzitsa kuti mugwiritse ntchito.