Masiku ano, anthu amasangalala kwambiri pofunafuna bwenzi lokondana komanso kuti "moyo unapita ku chitsogozo cholondola", koma chidwi chochepa chimalipira thanzi lathu komanso chisangalalo chonse cha munthu. Maubwenzi oopsa, osakhutira ndi chidwi komanso chisangalalo, kukhala cholinga chachikulu cha munthu aliyense wamkulu, onse akulu ndi okalamba.
Koma tsopano tikumbukira kamodzi ndi kwamuyaya: chisangalalo ndi chokongola. Anthu omwe amasangalala mwa iwo okha ndi komwe amakhala mwachilengedwe amakopa ena kwa iwookha. Nanga nchiyani chomwe chimakopa anthu osungulumwa kwambiri.1. Samasunga zakale
Ngati wina sanaswetse mtima, ndiye kuti zitha kuchitidwa nzeru - iyi ndi imodzi mwa osangalala, omwe amatha kuwerengedwa zala za dzanja limodzi. Pafupifupi aliyense "adaudwa" kapena wokanidwa nthawi imodzi kapena ina. Koma anthu osungulumwa osangalala samamamatira zakale. Amangoyiwala zoipa zonse zomwe zidachitika, m'malo mwake yang'anani pakalipano komanso zamtsogolo.
Ichi ndi chinthu chowoneka bwino mwa anthu, chifukwa chimawonetsa kuti ndizomwe zingachitike ndi zomwe zingachitike kuti siziwalepheretsa zakale zawo. M'malo mwake, chinthu cholepheretsa chakonzekera mtsogolo chomwe chingaphatikizepo mnzanu watsopano.
2. Amapewa maubale "oyipa"
Anthu akakhala okha komanso osakondwa ndi izi, nthawi zambiri amalola ubale wopanda thanzi kuti ulowe m'miyoyo yawo. Ndipo ichi sichiri paubwenzi konse - amatha kukhala papuniki, ochezeka komanso abale. Kwenikweni, munthu wopanda pakeyo safuna kukhala yekha, motero amavomereza m'miyoyo yake yomwe mwina siyoyenera.Koma ana achichepere osungulumwa kwambiri amadziwa momwe angapewere anthu abwino kwambiri. Zachidziwikire, ichi ndi chinthu chowoneka bwino kwa omwe angakhale achikondi. Kukumana ndi munthu yemwe amadzikongoletsa ndi anthu abwino osapatula zoipa, ndi chizindikiro cholimbikitsa. Mukadaloledwa m'moyo wa munthu wotere, ndiye kuti muyenera kukhala wabwino.
3. Amadzikonda okha
Kukonda nokha ndi chinthu chofunikira kwa aliyense. Ngati mtsikana wina sadzikonda, monga momwe angayembekezere kuti wina amukonda. Anthu omwe timakumana nawo amatha kumvetsetsa zinthu ngati izi. Kudzikuza kakang'ono kokwanira kumatha kukhala koseketsa ndikuwonetsa kuti simusudzulidwa ndi zenizeni, koma abwenzi achikondi amatha kumvetsetsa bwino pamene chinthu chawo sichikhala chofanana.
4. Amawayang'anira
Anthu oona achimwemwe osangalala samakonda okha, komanso amadzisamalira okha, chifukwa zimalimbikitsa miyoyo yawo ndi chisangalalo. Izi ndi zinthu ngati chakudya chabwino, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi pafupipafupi, kuyeretsa mano, kumayendera dokotala ngati kuli kotheka, komanso chidaliro kuti muli ndi moyo wosangalala, wathanzi. Anthu osakwatira omwe amatha kudzisamalira okha, kuwonetsera abwenzi omwe angakhale achikondi kotero kuti sadzafunika thandizo.5. Amachita zodzidziwitsa
Osangokhala kunyada komanso kusamalira okhawo ndikofunikira, komanso kudzizindikira. Ngati munthu amadziwa zofunikira zake zofunika kwambiri, malingaliro, malingaliro, ndi zina zambiri, amatha kuzindikira kuti sangakhumudwitse wina wokwiyitsa, kuti akhale ndi udindo ndi kupepesa. Mnzanu wodziyimira pawokha safunikira kuloza mavuto akulu.
6. Iwo ali odziyimira pawokha
Chimodzi mwazovuta zazikulu mu ubale ndikuti anthu akuiwala momwe angakhalire odziyimira pawokha. Pali zinthu zina zonyansa zambiri kuposa momwe anthu amadalirana. Maubwenzi okondwa, athanzi amafunikira anthu awiri omwe alibe zovuta zokhala ndi ufulu komanso kusungulumwa. Amatha kudzisamalira, maakaunti awo ndi zosowa zawo. Udindo wabwino ndi gawo lokongola la anthu osungulumwa osangalala.7. Amasokoneza miyoyo ya ena
Anthu akakhala osasangalala nawo, amayesa kuwononga miyoyo ya ena. Koma osangalala anthu osungulumwa amayesa kulimbikitsa kudalira anthu omwe amawawakonda. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zonse amapereka thandizo kuti athandize mnzake kupeza ntchito, komanso kusamalira zili zili bwino.
8. Sapikisana
Ndikothekanso kukhala ndi vuto lomwe anthu awiri akumenyera chinthu chimodzi cholepheretsa. Anthu osangalala omwe amasungulumwa sadzayesa kutsata munthu. Amamvetsetsa kuti ichi sichiri mpikisano wopeza chikondi, ndipo izi zokha ndi mawonekedwe okongola.
Mwinanso mfundo yofunika kwambiri ndikuti kudziwa yekhayo ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zokongola kwambiri zomwe zingachitike. Anthu osangalala omwe amakhala padziko lapansi, nthawi zonse amakopa ena.