Palibe zodabwitsa kuti iwo amanena kuti kugawa ndi imfa pang'ono. Kulefuka kwa ubalewu ndi vuto lalikulu kwambiri la zamaganizidwe, munthu aliyense amavulala. Funso lina ndikuti kuvutika kwina kumakhala kwa zaka, pomwe ena - m'miyezi isanu ndi umodzi amakhala kale moyo wachimwemwe ndipo akuyang'ana mnzake wa moyo wawo. Ndiye mukukhala bwanji mukugawana nawo wokondedwa wanu posachedwa?
Pakakhala munthu wachikondi awiri, akumva, ngati kuti alipo theka lachiwiri ndipo munthu uyu (moyenereratu, chithunzi chake) chimakhala m'mutu ndi mumtima. Pachifukwa ichi, mutasiya kusiya, psyche ayenera kusintha zina zakunja. Kusintha kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi ndikutalikirapo kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi komanso kupitirira nthawi yayitali kutengera mawonekedwe a munthuyo ndipo kumachitika m'magawo angapo: kudabwitsidwa ndikukana. Gawo, pomwe anthu adangolowa ndipo mbali yomwe yakhudzidwayo ikuvomereza kuti pakhale kusiyana kwa kusiyana. Pakadali pano, munthu amadzidalira ndipo chikhulupiriro chimasowa ndi mphamvu zake zokha. Zikuwoneka kuti uku ndi kutha ndipo palibe tsogolo, kapena sizikhala, ndipo sizingatheke kukhalanso. Pakadali pano, ndikufuna kuiwala, ndipo anthu amamwa mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo, koma samathetsa vutoli.
Zoyenera kuchita?
1. Musagwere kuvutika kwa nthawi yayitali: Mutha kukhalamo modekha ndi chisoni kukhala sabata - awiri, kenako nkoyenera kusuntha pa 2. Osakhala ndi zikhalidwe zomwe mnzanuyo sadzabwera Kuti mumvenso, ngakhale kuti mumadzikumbutsa, zimangolimbitsa ululu wa uzimu. Ndikofunikiranso kutenga, pomaliza, mfundo yoti wokondedwa wachoka. 3. Sakani zolakwika zanu mwanjira iliyonse yomwe idzabwerezedwa mu ubale wotsatira. Ndipo zitatha izi zokhazo zomwe gawo lotsatira liyambira.
Ndewu
Gawo pomwe zoyipa zonse zimachulukana ndikupeza zolakwa za mnzake. Pakadali pano, muyenera kutaya mtima wonse, apo ayi azikhala m'makumbumtima kwakanthawi ndipo mutha kuwononga ubale wotsatirawu.
Kuleredwa ndi Kuzindikira
Gawo, munthu akavomereza zomwe zinachitika ndipo pang'onopang'ono zimabwereranso ku moyo wake wakale. Pang'onopang'ono, zimachitika pang'onopang'ono, ndipo malingaliro amayamba kugwira ntchito. Ndipo pokhapokha, munthu amamvetsetsa kuti zikuoneka kuti ubalewu sunapezeke ndipo ndikofunikira kudziwa zina kwa iwo.
Zoyenera kuchita?
Choyamba, amamvetsetsa kuti ubale wathu wakhala gawo linanso mpaka chisangalalo. Ndikofunikanso kumvetsetsa kuti ubale uwu umaphunzitsidwanso chimodzimodzi. Lembani kalata, yomwe imati chilichonse chomwe sichinanenedwepo kale, pazifukwa zingapo, ndipo onetsetsani kuti mwathokoza chifukwa chodziwa zomwe zanenedwazo, chilichonse chomwe chingachitike.
Kukakangera
Pa nthawi yotsiriza, munthu wazindikira kale zolakwa zake ndipo akumvetsa kuti makoma akaphwanyidwa. Pakadali pano, chikhulupiriro chokha komanso kudzidalira kumabwezeretsedwanso ndi munthu wonyansa amakhala wokonzekera ubale watsopano ndi moyo wabwino wosangalala.
Zoyenera kuchita?
Sungani ndalama monga momwe mungathere: 1. Pezani masewera. 2. Sinthani chithunzi. 3. Pezani kapena kukumbukira zomwe mumakonda.
Mndandandandawu ukhoza kukhala wopanda malire, koma ndikukankha moyo watsopano komanso wofunika kwambiri tsopano, moyo wabwino udzakhala wogwirizana.