Maubwenzi apakati pa anthu amachita satelasi okhazikika pamoyo wawo ndipo amafalitsa mbali zonse. Khazikitsani maubwenzi atsopano, ophatikizira kwambiri ndipo achoka muubwenzi wautali nthawi zonse umakhala wovuta nthawi zonse. Anthu ambiri sakonda kumvetsera mosaganizira zizindikiro zomwe zikuwonetsa mavuto akuluakulu. Amakonda kupirira ndi chiyembekezo tsiku lililonse zomwe zonse zimasintha ndikupangitsa kuti zitheke.
Koma ubalewo sukhazikika nthawi zonse. Pali zisonyezo zambiri kuti ndi nthawi yoletsa kuzunza wina ndi mnzake pomwe sizinayambitse zotsatila zazikulu ndi kuphwanya mbali zina m'moyo. Samalani ndi zizindikiro zomwe zalembedwa pansipa. Osachepera ochepa a iwo ali okhazikika m'moyo wanu, ndi nthawi yofulumira kuchita mwachangu kapena kubalalitsa!
1. Simungakhale nokha. Ngati theka lanu lachiwiri silikukuzindikira monga inu, ndiye kuti, "ziribe kanthu." Simungadziletse nokha chinthu chofunikira kwa inu, mokomera ubale!
2. Mukukayika kufunika kwanu komanso kufunikira kwanu. Ichi ndi chizindikiro choyipa chomwe chimati simulikodi ndi mnzanuyo. Munthu wachikondi amatamandana ndi kusamalira, kuti ndiwe wabwinoko komanso ena onse!
3. Mukumva zonena za adilesi yanu. Ngati mnzanuyo adaganiza zokupangitsani kukhala wolakwa pazolephera zake zonse - izi ndi chizindikiro chosakhutira ndi ubale. Nthawi zambiri ndi njira yosinthira ku udindo wina pazolakwa zanu.
4. Kaka kaka kakamanja ndi mikangano. Apa, mwa mfundo, zonse zikuwonekeratu. Ngati muli maubale mikangano yambiri kuposa nthawi yosangalatsa, ndiye tsogolo lotani? Komabe, ndikofunikira kusiyanitsa mabodza ochokera ku ubale wotanganidwa!
5. Nthawi zambiri mumalungamitsa ndikupepesa mnzanu. Ndikofunika kuganiza ngati mukuyenera "kutuluka" kwa mnzanu wa muukwati. Mwina ndinu ogwiritsa ntchito?
6. Nthawi zambiri mumakayikira ngati chilichonse chakhuta ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kuda nkhawa ngati kusungidwa kwa mgwirizano ndi chizindikiro cholondola cholumikizira chofooka, "kusamva bwino" komwe kuli nthawi yoyenera kusintha kena kake!
7. Mavuto kuntchito chifukwa chokhumudwitsana ndi kusamvetsetsa kwa mnzake. Mwachilengedwe, muyenera nthawi zina kukhala owululidwa kapena kusinthidwa. Koma, ngati ndinu otanganidwa, munthu wanu wapamtima akupitilizabe "bomba" akufunsa, ndikupeza chibwenzicho, kufunsa mafunso ndi otero, ndikofunikira kuchitapo kanthu ...
8. Anzanu ndi ogwira ntchito akuwona kuti simukusintha kukhala bwino. Malo athu amakhala achangu kwambiri ndipo kapena ,..................... Ngati zikhala zovuta, palibe zifukwa zina, pali zovuta mu maubale ...
9. Pakakhala malingaliro ogawana zimasavuta. Apa mutha kuchita popanda ndemanga. Ngati ndinu wabwino kuposa mnzanu, ngati mukuyang'ana chifukwa choyenda, kwa anzanu, ndiye nthawi yakung'amba umodzi wotere.
10. Kukayikira kosalekeza. Sichifunika kwenikweni pano Yemwe, ndi chiyani ndipo chifukwa chiyani osakhulupirira. Maubwenzi popanda kudalirika kumangotsala pang'ono kulephera.
11. Kumverera kwa ngozi ndi kusokonezeka kwamkati. Kuda nkhawa, monga mu ubale wabwinobwino muyenera kukhala omasuka. Ngati kumverera kwina kumachitika pafupipafupi, ndikofunikira kuganiza za kutha kwa maubale.
12. Kuthekera kolakwika. Paubwenzi wabwino, anzako amalimbikitsana wina ndi mnzake, kuthandiza kukulitsa mikhalidwe yofunikira ndikupeza mawonekedwe abwino. Ngati mnzakeyo achititsa ulamuliro wa zinthu zoyipa mwa inu, sizingadzetse chilichonse chabwino!
13. Muli ndi malingaliro osaganizira omwe mungakhale osangalala kwambiri! Ngati mukukhulupirira kuti muyenera zambiri, sizingafunike kusintha china chake ndi mnzake. Yakwana nthawi yoti mupite kukafuna munthu amene muyenera!
14. Zowopseza ndi zopereka. Zofunikira nthawi zonse kuchita chinthu chomwe simukufuna, mothandizidwa ndi maubwenzi - uku ndikuyesa kukakamiza kufuna kwanu. Izi sizikugwirizana ndi chikhalidwe cha ubale wabwino.
15. Zosowa zosafunikira komanso zofunika kuchita. Ngati mphamvu, zokhumba ndi zosowa za munthu wina zikukwaniritsidwa muubwenzi wanu, ndiye kuti izi zikusonyeza kusakamwa. Pa maubale abwinobwino, zosowa ndi zikhumbo za aliyense ziyenera kuwerengeredwa komanso chimodzimodzi!
16. Simukufuna kuyankhula. Ngati malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu amatsutsidwa nthawi zonse, mumaopa kufunsana kamodzi, kodi muli ndi munthu?
17. Muyenera kupempha chilolezo nthawi zonse. Ngati mukungolangizani mukamapanga chisankho, izi ndizabwinobwino. Koma ngati mnzanuyo amaletsa china chake, ndipo mukukakamizidwa kupempha chilolezo, ichi ndi chizindikiro chosokoneza.
18. Simulankhula ndi abale ndi anzanu. Zomwe zimayambitsa zimatha kukhala zosiyana, koma ngati simusamala kuyankhulana kwanu kumatsika kwa munthu m'modzi, posakhalitsa mudzataya aliyense ...
19. "Swing" mu ubale, pamene zonse zili bwino, sizoyipa, ndiye kuti mwangwiro, ndizowopsa, sizikubweretsa china chilichonse kuposa kuvuta kosalekeza.
20. Mpaka ndi kusinkhasinkha kosalekeza. Ngati nthawi zambiri mumaletsa kukayikira, china chake sichikugwirizanitseni, malingaliro omwe akumayesedwa akuchita ndikuyesa momwe zinthu ziliri, ndiye muyenera kusintha kena kake.
Zachidziwikire, izi si zizindikiro zonse za mavuto mu maubale. Munthu aliyense amamva kuya kwakuya ndi kuona mtima kwa kakhumi wake wachiwiri. Koma ngati mukukumana ndi china chake kuchokera ku zomwe zalembedwa m'moyo wanu, ndikofunikira kuganiza za vuto.