Zikuwoneka kuti izi ndizovuta kudziwa ngati mnzanuyo akuwongolera ndikuti zimalumbira mosalekeza, mwamwakali, nthawi zonse zimawopseza kapena kuyika ukwati. Aliyense akuwoneka ngati mtundu wa hooligan, yemwe amazindikira ndi kulamula. Ngakhale izi zitha kukhala, pali zizindikiro zina zomwe zingawonekere mosiyana.
Ngati mukuwona kuti mnzakeyo angakuletseni, ndikofunikira kudziwa zizindikiro za izi pompano. Zilibe kanthu, ndi Narcissus, a Narcistus, kapena akumva ludzu la mphamvu ya Leech, yemwe akufuna kubweza munthu wina, omwe amalankhulana mwa mnzakeyo amatha kukhala owopsa, motero ndikofunikira ikani izi posachedwa. Chifukwa chake, mumvetsetse bwanji zomwe zikukulamulirani.1. Mnzanu ali ndi mavuto molimba mtima
Pakuwerenga Steam, omwe adapulumutsidwa kwenikweni, iwo omwe adadzitetezedwa kuti atetezeke pachiyanjano chawo adakumana ndi mikangano yambiri ndi anzawo ndipo adanenapo kanthu kuti akweze kwakukulu pamikangano iyi. Nthawi yomweyo, mnzakeyo akhoza kusamvana pang'ono kuti "akhuta kuchokera kuuluka kwa njovu."
Ngati simunapatse mnzanu chifukwa chokukhulupirirani, koma nthawi yomweyo amawona kuti amakuwonerani kapena tchizi amayang'ana foni yanu kapena kompyuta mukapanda kuwoneka, ndizabwino.
Amatha kuganiza za omwe mumacheza ndi kukuimbasulirani mopanda kusakhulupirika, ngakhale palibe chifukwa chokayikira. Njira yokhayo yosangalalira, imakhala nthawi zonse kudziwa zomwe mukuchita.
Musalole kuti mnzanuyo aziwongolera zochita zanu. Maubwenzi abwino amatengera kukhulupirika ndi kuwona mtima. Ngati inu kapena mnzanu zimandivuta kukhulupirirana wina ndi mnzake, maubale sangapirire.
2. Zimakhala zolimbikitsa kwambiri pokhudzana ndi inu
Wogwira naye ntchito amangofuna kuwongolera komwe mumapita ndi zomwe mumachita munthawi yanu yaulere, akufuna "wakhungu" kwa inu omwe angachite zomwe akufuna kuchita.Njira imodzi yochitira izi ndikukutsutsani: zovala zomwe mumavala, ma tsitsi, mukukhala, ndikulankhula, ndi abwenzi, ndi anzanu, ndi zina zowonjezera zomwe angathe Yambani ndi zinthu zazing'ono, koma adzasinthira mwachangu kukhala agwirizane msanga ngati muwatsogolera.
Choyipa chachikulu ndikuti munthu amene akuyesera kuti azitsogolera nthawi zambiri, motero kutsutsidwa kumawoneka kotsimikizika.
Pamapeto pake, muyenera kukhala olimba mtima. Kudzidalira komwe ndikofunikira kuthana ndi mnzanu kuyesera kukuwongolera ndikuchiteteza.
3. Zosokoneza
Anthu ena amati kuwopseza kuyenera kukhala kwakuthupi kuti zikhale zovuta. Koma zomwe zikuwopseza kuswa kwa maubale, malire a "maudindo" kapena owopseza kuti adzipweteketsa okha akhoza kukhudzidwa ndi munthu ngati chiwopsezo cha chiwawa chakuthupi. Yemwe amayang'aniridwa nthawi zambiri amamverera "osagwirizana ndi maubwenzi" osati chifukwa choopa iyemwini, ndipo kuopa zomwe mnzawo adzadzipha kudzamuvulaza.
Nthawi zina, munthu akhoza kuwopseza kutayika kwa chuma, kunyumba kapena ana ngati amusiya wokondedwa wake (kapena adzaponyedwa). Mosasamala kanthu kuti zoopsa zake ndi zenizeni, kwa "wolamulira" ndi njira ina yopezera zomwe akufuna, pophera mnzake.
4. Kuyeserera kwamphamvu
Izi zikutanthauza chizolowezi chojambulira kulumikizana kulikonse kocheperako mu ubalewu, ndipo iyi ndi imodzi mwamitundu ingapo.Mwanjira iliyonse, pamakhala kusinthana kwa ntchito. Mapeto ake, awiriwo ayenera kukondana wina ndi mnzake ndipo nthawi zonse 'amakomera mtima wina ndi mnzake, mwachitsanzo, kuti achite zinyalala, kutsuka mbale mukadyetsa chakudya chamadzulo, kusonkhanitsa chakudya kuti mugwire ntchito inayake.
Komabe, kuwunika kwa hyperitive kumalola mnzake wowongolera kuti mukhale "ayenera". Koma ngati "wankhanza" kunyumba amasangalala ndi zochitika zilizonse zazing'ono zilizonse, musakayikire kuti akuyesera kukupangani, kupanga chithunzi ngati kuti akupangitsani inu kuposa inu.
5. Akufuna kukuchotsa kwa okondedwa anu
Njira yabwino yolamulira mnzanuyo ndikupatula okondedwa anu. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazizindikiro zoopsa kwambiri zomwe zikuwonetsa kuchuluka kwa kupumula kwakukulu.
Mosasamala kanthu za vuto lanu, musalole kuti wina azikusungunulani kwa anzanu kapena abale anu. Anthu oyandikira amatipatsa mphamvu, ndipo amathandizira, ndipo kutaya kwawo kumatha kubweretsa mavuto enieni, makamaka ngati mungakumane ndi omwe akuyesera kukukoka.
Wosankhidwayo amalandila banja lanu ndi abwenzi anu, ndipo ngati sachita izi, ndiye kuti nkofunika kuganiza - ngati maubwenzi oterowo amafunikira.
Kodi chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati mukuwongolera
1. Sungani pafupi
Mukamachita zinthu zoopsa komanso zopindika, muyenera kukhala pafupi ndi iwo omwe amakusamalirani.2. Khalani nokha
Ndikofunikira kupanga mapulani a chisamaliro tsiku ndi tsiku, kaya muzochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuwerenga buku labwino, kusinkhasinkha komanso ngakhale mankhwalawa.
3. Mukufuna dongosolo
Ngati mungaganize zothetsa chibwenzicho, mapulaniwo ndi othandiza. Onetsetsani kuti mwaona chilichonse kutsogolo, chifukwa mnzanu mwina pali zidule zomwe zingakusungireni pafupi.4. Chitani zinthu mozama ndipo osati kuwopsa
Mnzanu amene akufuna kuwongolera sitepe iliyonse, makamaka ndi zochitika zachuma kapena zachilendo, zimatha kukhala zoopsa ngati atachotsedwapo zachiwawa. Osakulunga maso anu ndikuganiza kuti zonsezi sizingakuchitikireni. Muyenera kuona bwino momwe zinthu ziliri ndi kuchita zonse zomwe zingathe kudziteteza.
5. Osawopa kufunafuna thandizo pafupi nanu
Munthu wolamulidwa ndi wamphamvu pokhapokha atakusiyanitsani padziko lonse lapansi.
Sayenera kuiwala kudzisamalira tsiku lililonse ndikuzungulirani ndi anthu omwe amakukondani.