Kuwala kwa mabasi ndi mtundu wocheperako komanso wopweteka wa munthu wina. Uwu ndi mtundu wa ziwawa zamaganizidwe, momwe munthu akuyesera kukayikira chochita nawo ndikuyamba kumva kuti "choperewera". Ndi mawu osankhidwa bwino "Poizoni" pang'onopang'ono amalowa mkati mwa malingaliro a munthu ndikudya chilichonse chodzidalira komanso chisangalalo. Ndipo pali chovuta bwanji kuposa kungokhala, nthawi yomweyo wozunzidwayo sakumvetsa zomwe zikuchitika mpaka zitachedwa.
Ndipo tsopano yang'anani - izi nthawi zambiri zimachitika ... Kunja panyumba, ndi kumbali ya munthu wokondedwa, yemwe kwenikweni amakhala ndi mnzake yemwe ali ndi mnzake yemwe ali ndi njira yofananira. Chifukwa chake, zimawoneka bwanji zenizeni komanso zomwe zimapangitsa kuti wolangidwayo akhulupirire zenizeni ngakhale mawu osafunikira kwambiri.1. "Ndinu mwayi kuti muli ndi winawake konse, chifukwa palibe amene akufuna"
Momwe mungasungire munthu pa "leash yofupikira." Ndikofunikira kupusitsa, ndikukakamiza kuti akhulupirire kuti chotupa ndi malo abwino kwambiri kwa iye. Zilinso chimodzimodzi ndi mbuye wa mgodi; Anthu oterewa amagwirana pafupi, kuwachititsa khungu ndi mwina kuti chilichonse chidzakhala chosiyana. Chinsinsi chake ndi chakuti wozunzidwayo amakakamizidwa kuti azikhulupirira kuti makina oterewa ndi chipulumutso chake, chomwe adzafa msanga ndi kusungulumwa popanda Iye.
2. "Zonse zili m'mutu mwanu"
Masewera a Maganizo Opangidwa Kuti Atsimikizire Munthu kuti ndi wamisala, nthawi zambiri amapezeka pamikhalidwe yotere. Maufulu owona owonera aja apanga chinyengo kuti ngakhale ziwalo zoyambirira zisanu sizingakhale zodalirika kuti maso ndi makutu onse amafotokozera mwachidule. Komabe, zenizeni ndikuti muyenera kudzidalira, chifukwa sikuti zonse zimachitika "m'mutu mwanga."3. "Ndizosadabwitsa kuti muli ndi abwenzi ochepa ... Ndizovuta kuti muzimukonda"
Muyenera kukumbukira izi: Palibe anthu omwe ali "ovuta kuwakonda," anthu ena amakonda kudzikonda, chifukwa sadziwa tanthauzo la.
Masters-oteteza maschelators amadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi zonse kuti kudziona kuti kudzipereka kudzasintha. Chizindikiro chimodzi chodziwikiratu kuti kuwalako kumagwira ndi momwe akusunthira ndikuyesera kugwedeza cholinga chawo. Amakhala okonzeka 'kuthana ndi munthu wina, ngakhale ndi zophophonya zonse za chikhalidwe chake. " Maliko odziwa bwino kwambiri amapitiliranso, kukhumudwitsa ena omwe wozunzidwayo amakhala "wamisala" kapena "vuto".
4. "Chilichonse cholakwika, muli olakwa"
Zitha kukhala vuto lalikulu. Monga mwa njira zina zilizonse, zonse zimayamba ndi, zimawoneka zinthu zazing'ono. Mapeto ake, bodza ili lingafike kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, munthu akamamuimba mlandu mnzawo, monga momwe amawonongera. Zotsatira zake, wozunzidwayo amakhala ndi manyazi nthawi zonse ndipo amamutsutsa kwenikweni pankhani zonse zomwe zimachitika mdziko lapansi momuzungulira.5. "Ndangotenga chifukwa chake mukuzindikira kwambiri"
Kunyengerera aliyense wa munthu wina amakonda kuwononga. Pambuyo pake, iwo amadzinenera kuti ndi nthabwala chabe, ndipo zingaoneke bwanji. " Sikuti zimangokhulupirira kuti mnzakeyo siwowopsa, komanso amabweretsa zomwe mumayamba kudziimba mlandu chifukwa ndinu "omvera kwambiri."
6. "Sindinanene Izi"
Matumba amayesa kuyesera kusokoneza omwe adakumana nawo. Adzatsutsa kuti zinthu sizinachitike monga wovulalayo sanawaone, kapena, ndipo sizinachitike. Popita nthawi, ndizosafunikira kukayikira malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu kapena ngakhale mukufunsa ngati simukupenga.7. "Mukudziwa, simuli abwino kwenikweni mu ..."
Munthu aliyense ali ndi luso lachilengedwe komanso maluso omwe amanyadira. Chifukwa chake, cholinga cha munthu wa Garladirir ndikudandaula za munthu aliyense womukonda. Idzayamba pang'onopang'ono, kuwononga mwadongosolo kudzidalira ndi kudzidalira, kupereka zomwe akuchitiridwa zachipongwe komanso luso lake. Zabwino kwambiri, idzasokoneza kudzidalira, komanso koyipa - mudzayamba kukhulupirira kuti "zoyipa kwambiri zimadalira makina, zikhale zokhala ndi ndalama kapena ndalama."
Chowonadi ndichakuti ambiri muimodzi kapena wina amasintha kuti atengedwe izi, zingaoneke ngati zopanda chiyembekezo. Zomwe zili zoyipa kwambiri, ndizosatheka kuzindikira vuto, ndipo pamapeto, ambiri ali mu ukapolo wamasewera oopsa otere kwa zaka kapena moyo.