Akatswiri amisala ambiri amakumana ndi nkhani za azimayi omwe amadandaula ndi nkhani za azimayi omwe amadandaula kuti akuwoneka kuti ali ndi maubale ndi amuna, ndiwosadabwitsa, wosakonda. Tiyeni tikambirane chitsanzo. Mkazi amamudziwa bwino mwamunayo, onse amayamba, mwachizolowezi: mafoni, makalata, mawu achikondi, kuyamikiridwa, ngakhale tsiku lomwe limachitika.
Yekha ali ndi tsiku limodzi lokha, pomwe zonse zimayamba kutha, ena amayamba kugonana, pomwe bamboyo ayamba atapita, pomwepo ubalewo umangodutsa miyezi ingapo, pambuyo pake ubalewo ukuyamba kuphunzira iwowo.
Pambuyo pa chochitika kapena nthawi, bambo amayamba kuchoka kwa mkazi. Zimayambanso kuyimba ndikulemba, ngakhale sangayankhe mafoni. Amakana misonkhano, amatanthauza ntchito kuntchito kapena kusowa mipata. Mwadzidzidzi amayamba kudandaula za china chake, ndiye kuti ali ndi mavuto m'banjamo, ali ndi thanzi kapena kuntchito. Ngati tikambirana za malingaliro, kenako mayiyo amawasiya mwamunayo. Akuwoneka kuti alibe chidwi naye, ngakhale atalankhula za chikondi.
Mkaziyo amalowa mu mtima, zomwe zimamuchitikira, zomwe anachita, chifukwa cha zomwe adasintha. Ngati sakulandira mayankho kuchokera kwa munthu, imayamba kutanthauza akatswiri azachipembedzo.
Mwachitsanzo, chilichonse chilichonse chimayamba pazifukwa. Zifukwa zomveka: 1. Mwamuna ndi Alfons, ndiye woyamba mkaziyo adakopeka yekha, kenako amayamba kupanga "akunja" chifukwa cha chikondi chake ndi chikondi chake, kotero kuti anavomera kuthana ndi mavuto ake.
2. Munthu yemwe sakudziwa zomwe akufuna. Izi zitha kukhalanso.
3. Mwamuna ali wotanganidwa kwenikweni. Komabe, pankhaniyi, adzakhutiritsa mofulumira mkazi ndi chidwi chake ndikuyamba kuyang'ana njira zosaganize kuti alibe chidwi naye.
4. Mwamuna ndi Bachelor, kotero kumangiriza mkazi wopanda chidwi ndi kupanga zofooka zosiyanasiyana.
Lingaliro lalikulu lomwe mzimayi ayenera kuphunzira ndi - munthu safuna kuti akhale naye paubwenzi wolimba. Pakupanda, iye sananyalanyaze ndi kumvetsera kwa mayiyu, safuna kuti akhale ndi ubale wolimba ndi ulo.
Kuphatikiza apo, pali njira mwanjira yomwe mungamupangire mkazi kuti adziyang'anire: zimamusamalira nthawi ndi nthawi kuti musaganize kuti sizingaganize. Chifukwa chake, zitha kungokakamiza mkazi kuti adutse pambuyo pake, amadzilingalira iyemwini ndipo ngakhale kufikira iye.
Koma samalani, akazi okondedwa: bambo sanagonjetse mtima wanu. Anangonena kuti (ndipo mwina sananene ngakhale) za chikondi, kulipirira mphindi zochepa chabe, adakumana pamitu yosiyanasiyana, ngakhale ndidakuonani kapena kangapo. Nthawi yomweyo, sizinakupatseni chilichonse, sindinapereke kukhazikika kwa malingaliro ndi kukhulupirika kwa malingaliro ake ndi kukhulupirika kwake, sanakhale munthu wanu (ngakhale wokwatirana naye), sanatero. Zomwe mumamukonda?
Zinthu ndizovuta komanso zosamveka kwa azimayi ambiri. Mutha kudziwa ndikumvetsetsa zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kuti azichita izi. Koma ndikofunikira kudziwa chinthu chimodzi - momveka bwino silingakhale pachibwenzi ndi inu, apo ayi amachita zinthu mosiyana.