Ndi kubadwa kwa ana anu, zofuna za makolo abwino kwambiri achoka kumbuyo. Mwanayo amakhala chilengedwe chonse, ndi malamulo ake ndi malamulo, zikhumbo ndi zosowa zake. Makolo opangidwa kumenewo amathera nthawi yawo yonse ndikuwononga mphamvu zonse zodzutsa mwana, yesani kuonetsetsa zonse zofunika pamoyo ndikupereka magawo onse. Koma nthawi imafika pamene muyenera kukhala ndi vuto. Pakadali pano amabwera ana akadzakula, ndipo makolo opusa komanso amphamvu akukalamba.
Anthu achikulire sakulimbanso ndi mavuto apanyumba, safunikira chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro, komanso kuthandizidwa ndi ndalama. Ana a udzu amafunikabe chisamaliro, ndalama, ndalama. Pali kusamvana kwachidwi - zinthu zikusowa konse.Kodi mbali ya ndani kuti ikhale, yomwe chikondi ndi chokhudza kutanthauza ndizofunikira, siziphonya bwanji china chofunikira kwambiri m'moyo wa ana ndikupereka ukalamba ndi kwa makolo?
Mavuto onsewa amakonda kugwera pamapewa a mkazi. Ndi amene akuvutika kukhala mwana wamkazi wabwino, kukhalabe mayi wopanda cholakwa. Koma sungani malire ndi osavuta! Ndipo zolengedwa zilizonse zimakhumudwa ndi zotsatirapo zake. Zoyenera kuchita? Ndani ndi wofunika kwambiri - ana kapena makolo? Ndani Adzakhala Osasamala Komanso Kuthandiza?
Kodi chidzachitike ndi chiyani ngati mungagwiritse ntchito ana okwanira?
Sankhani pakati pa ana ndi makolo ndizovuta. Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kwa iwo omwe ali ndi makolo opambana. Ngakhale nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti kusankha ndikodziwika. Ana amayamba mtunda. Ali ndi bwalo lawo loyankhulirana. Kuyamika kwa makolo ndikwabwino.
Makolo anapatsa moyo, nyumba zoperekedwa, zinapereka maphunziro .... Mndandanda wazoyenera kukhoza kukhala wopanda malire. Abwino makolo ndi a ana, olimba mtima, malingaliro ndi malingaliro ofunikira. Ana amayesa kulipirira mapindu omwe nthawi zina amathandizira thanzi lawo komanso zofuna zawo. Ndipo pa nthawi imeneyo, ana achikulire, opanda chisamaliro cha makolo, amakhala olumala, olumala, mwachangu, adakhumudwitsa. Kunyalanyaza zosowa ndi zikhumbo za mwana kumatha kuvutitsa mikangano nthawi zonse m'banjamo, kumabweretsa zovuta kwambiri ndikudzilemekeza. Kuti muchotse iwo omwe alamulira, angafunike moyo wonse.
Zotsatira zoyipa za kusasamala zitha kukhala:
- kuba;
- nkhanza;
- kusokosera;
- Chikangano;
- kukhumudwa.
Muubwana, mwana akakhala ndi kumverera kosafunikira, amakonda kuchita zinthu mwachangu komanso ngakhale kudzipha. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira nthawi zonse kukhala pafupi ndi ana, kudziwa mavuto awo, zokhumba, zosowa zawo. Pakapita nthawi, mawu abwino, okondwerera, nthawi yolumikizana - gawo lofunikira mu chitukuko ndi kapangidwe ka ana. Simungathe kuphonya nthawi ino. Ndikofunikira kungokhala limodzi. Chaka chilichonse, mwezi, tsiku, ora ... nthawi ino silingawonekere kapena kulipidwa.
Chifukwa chake, ana ayenera kukhala oyamba. Moyo wawo umayamba ndipo umadalira momwe akhalira. Muyenera kukhala pafupi ndi ana nthawi zonse. Kupumula limodzi, kugwira ntchito, kuphunzira. Ndi kuthandiza makolo okalamba. Chifukwa kulemekeza anthu okalamba ndi makolo, kuphatikizapo, kuyenera kuyikidwa muubwana. Ndipo maphunziro abwino kwambiri ndi maphunziro a moyo. Sonyezani ana pa zitsanzo zanu, popeza kuti pakufunika kuwachitira anthu okalamba, makolo okalamba. Phunzitsani ana ang'ono kuti muwerenge okalamba, ndipo achinyamata ndi ulemu komanso kuthandiza agogo. Kukopa ana kusamalira makolo okalamba, mutha kulipira nthawi komanso winayo nthawi yomweyo.
Ana ayenera kudziwa kuti ukalamba ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri m'moyo, tikatseka, anthu achikhalidwe amakhala ofooka, osasamala, amagula zinthu zogulitsira, kuphika, kumapita madokotala. Mgwirizano wokoma mtima sunawoneke mwa thandizo lathupi lokha, lomwe ana sangakhale nawo nthawi zonse, komanso mawu ofunda othandizira, kutenga nawo mbali, chikondi, chikondi.
Ndikofunika kuti musachite bwino!
Kupereka moyo womasuka kwa makolo ndi moyo wabwino kwa ana, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti palinso moyo wa munthu. Ndikosatheka kunyalanyaza zokhumba zanu, zokonda ndi zosowa zawo. Chifukwa chake, ndikoyenera kupatsa ntchito milandu ina yokhudzana ndi chisamaliro cha makolo okalamba omwe ali pafupi ndi achibale.
Sikofunikira kuchotsa mavuto onsewa mozungulira nyumbayo, osasiyira makolo anu, palibe mwayi wodzipereka ndi china chake. Ntchito Yosavuta, makalasi osavuta amawapatsa mwayi woti azikhala othandiza komanso othandiza. Makolo angathandize adzukulu omwe ali ndi maphunziro, amapanga zojambula kapena zojambula. Ntchito yanu siyiyenera kuswa pakati pa ana ndi makolo, koma kuti muphunzire kukhazikika mogwirizana mwanjira yoti zonse zinali bwino. Banja lalikulu, lochezeka si mphatso yomalizira, koma ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku ndi kuyesetsa kogwirizana. Ngati muli ndi makolo abwino komanso ana abwino, simuyenera kusankha.