Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani mayi akuvutika mu maubale?

Nthawi zambiri timakumana ndi vutoli pomwe zonse zinkayamba kuyamba bwino. Maubwenzi anali ngati nthano, zachikondi ndi zonse zomwe. Koma kusintha kwa gawo lina lachitika, ndipo mwadzidzidzi mkazi kuchokera ku chilengedwe chake wokondedwa, chomwe chinavala m'manja mwake, chimakhala chovutitsidwa ndi munthu amene amakonda munthu amene amakonda. Tikulankhula za chinthu choyipa ngati uning.

Itha kukhala chiwawa komanso chamakhalidwe abwino. Komanso, zonsezi sizikudziwika bwino zomwe sizikufotokoza zomwe zinayamba ndi zomwe zinachitika. Koma algorithm chifukwa cha chitukuko cha zinthu ngati izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zofanana. Mkazi amalola. Chifukwa chiyani? Kodi ndikumba mlandu pachinthu? Ayi konse. Monga lamulo, mkazi yekha sioyenera. M'malo mwake, inenso amayi okhulupirika ndi okhulupilika nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chiwerengero chotere, omwe mu njira iliyonse amayesa kupulumutsa mgwirizano uku.

Chifukwa chiyani zili choncho, chifukwa ngati ziwawa zidawoneka mu ubalewo, sizikulonjeza chilichonse? Inde. Sipadzakhala chilichonse chopindulitsa paubwenzi, chifukwa zidzakhazikitsidwa chifukwa cha mantha. Koma bwanji azimayi amapirira, samvetsa izi? Ndipo pano zonse ndizovuta kwambiri kuchokera pamalingaliro amisala, ndipo chifukwa chake.

Mkaziyo amakonda kuchita zinthu ziwiri: amadziimba ndi kuyang'ana kulungamitsidwa kwa mnzake. Kaya kakang'ono kaya, koma, nthawi zambiri, ngati munthu agwira ntchito yayikulu komanso amaganiza bwino mnzake, ndiye kuti amakhulupirira kuti iye amamuukitsa. Izi zitha kuchitika chifukwa cha zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Pano mlengalenga m'banjamo, momwe mkazi adaleredwa. Ndi kuphunzira achibale kuti munthu amakhala wolondola nthawi zonse. Ndipo ingoyerani chikondi ndi chiyembekezo kuti amvetsetsa ndikuwongolera zolakwa zawo ndipo sizichitikanso.

Koma, ziribe kanthu kuti ndi zoyipa bwanji, kutchuka kwambiri - kudzabwereza. Chifukwa choti chimodzimodzi kwa mkazi si chinthu chimodzi chokha, koma kachitidweko.

Munthu amakhulupirira kuti ziyenera kutero. Koma adakumanabe, Iye anali wosiyana kwathunthu? Inde, mwina, monga chonchi. \

Komano adasintha kwambiri bwanji? Funso ndilofunika. Koma psychology imatiuza kuti iyi ndi gulu lina la anthu omwe, polowa m'maubwenzi, ali okwatirana, ayamba kuganizira mnzake ndi katundu wawo. Chifukwa chake, lingaliro lililonse, kaya ndi funso lanthawi zonse "Kodi mudzabweranso liti lero?" Idzawonedwa mu bayonets ngati osalumala. Chifukwa chake, kuzindikira za ubalewu ndi zokhumudwitsa - alibe mwayi wokhala ndi tsogolo losangalatsa.

Mkazi ndi chiyani? Tikuyembekeza kuyembekeza kuti chilichonse chidzapita, monga chidzakhalaponso. Ndipo iye yekha sangathandizidwe pamenepa. Apa mukufunika thandizo kwa okondedwa omwe adzatulutse pa bwalo lotsekedwayi ndikumupatsa nthawi ndi chithandizo kuti azindikire kuti kudziimba mlandu sikuloledwa. Chifukwa kumenyedwa - sizitanthauza kuti amakonda. Chilichonse chomwe sanauzidwe ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe kuyenera kulondola. Kalanga, ziwerengero pa nkhaniyi zikukhumudwitsa. Dziyang'anireni nokha ndikuyang'ana ubale wathu wa anzanu ndi okondedwa kuti apatse pafupi.